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@fatboi and @J-purp

man yall nikkas gotta grab your balls back. @J-purp what you mean you had to text her? Do you lack that much of a self control? Do you respect yourself? If the raiders lost, why you gotta run to a female? Call one of your homies up and make fun of how the raiders played or make yourself busy with something else.. turn off your phone, put it away in a cabinet.. DO SOMETHING BUT TEXT the girl..hell text some other girl BUT the one you want .. Besides, why is the girls number in your phone anyway .. you've tried many times to get her out but she ignoring you after every attempt .. you gotta move on from it ..

@fatboi .. you sound like a pathetic wimp .. reminicising about the good old days with your ex.. them days are over .. stop playing your ps4 and go out and start meeting women. DO SOMETHING .. if you sit on your ass every day, women ain't gonna come to you.

and last thing that needs to be pointed out .. fukk what she thinks .. don't change your schedule for a female. Don't act bothered by her actions. Be control of your emotions. I say from personal experience .. i used to act up like a bytch when women weren't receptive to me. Then i saw how other guys dealt with the situation .. They just didn't care .. And you gotta do the same thing. You show a female you are bothered by her actions, whether she is your gf or a girl you trying to hit, you have given her all the power and she's lost all respect for you. Keep your emotions to yourself, or share them with your homies, but never to a girl.

This advice always goes for me too, I still got a lot to learn about women but i'm working on it. It's not gonna happen overnight.
 

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@fatboi and @J-purp

man yall nikkas gotta grab your balls back. @J-purp what you mean you had to text her? Do you lack that much of a self control? Do you respect yourself? If the raiders lost, why you gotta run to a female? Call one of your homies up and make fun of how the raiders played or make yourself busy with something else.. turn off your phone, put it away in a cabinet.. DO SOMETHING BUT TEXT the girl..hell text some other girl BUT the one you want .. Besides, why is the girls number in your phone anyway .. you've tried many times to get her out but she ignoring you after every attempt .. you gotta move on from it ..

@fatboi .. you sound like a pathetic wimp .. reminicising about the good old days with your ex.. them days are over .. stop playing your ps4 and go out and start meeting women. DO SOMETHING .. if you sit on your ass every day, women ain't gonna come to you.

and last thing that needs to be pointed out .. fukk what she thinks .. don't change your schedule for a female. Don't act bothered by her actions. Be control of your emotions. I say from personal experience .. i used to act up like a bytch when women weren't receptive to me. Then i saw how other guys dealt with the situation .. They just didn't care .. And you gotta do the same thing. You show a female you are bothered by her actions, whether she is your gf or a girl you trying to hit, you have given her all the power and she's lost all respect for you. Keep your emotions to yourself, or share them with your homies, but never to a girl.

This advice always goes for me too, I still got a lot to learn about women but i'm working on it. It's not gonna happen overnight.
Raiders losing always got me :mjcryoak:
I on'y trief once to go out
But im not asking her out again.
 

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I guess my ex realised that I was ignoring her because she called me by surprised. I answered and we spoke for a while and the conversation was cool. At the end, she said "It was nice talking to you after so long" and my inner simp came out and I replied "Yeah, it was good to hear your voice" :snoop:

I feel disgusted with myself :snoop:
 

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I guess my ex realised that I was ignoring her because she called me by surprised. I answered and we spoke for a while and the conversation was cool. At the end, she said "It was nice talking to you after so long" and my inner simp came out and I replied "Yeah, it was good to hear your voice" :snoop:

I feel disgusted with myself :snoop:
:ufdup:
 

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It just totally slipped out :snoop:

I'm still ignoring her as far as messaging and initiating contact goes but now she probably thinks that I'm still weak for her. I guess I'm gonna have to go extra hard and ignore her calls now.
 
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It just totally slipped out :snoop:

I'm still ignoring her as far as messaging and initiating contact goes but now she probably thinks that I'm still weak for her. I guess I'm gonna have to go extra hard and ignore her calls now.

Breh I wouldn't consider that simping at all. Now if throughout the conversation you were saying "bae I miss you, can't live without you" etc etc then :ufdup: .. But don't beat yourself up cause you said it was nice to hear her voice. You were just treating as a friend.
 
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Breh I wouldn't consider that simping at all. Now if throughout the conversation you were saying "bae I miss you, can't live without you" etc etc then :ufdup: .. But don't beat yourself up cause you said it was nice to hear her voice. You were just treating as a friend.

Nah, I don't do none of that "Aww baby I miss you" nonsesne. The conversation was just us talking about work, our holidays, the fact that I've lost weight & she's gained weight (:russ:) just general catching up. Not once did it go down the road of romantic talk or anything like that but I feel like a chump for saying that it was good to hear her voice because even though I genuinely meant it, I don't want her to think that I'm open to her coming back into my personal life.
 

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Nah, I don't do none of that "Aww baby I miss you" nonsesne. The conversation was just us talking about work, our holidays, the fact that I've lost weight & she's gained weight (:russ:) just general catching up. Not once did it go down the road of romantic talk or anything like that but I feel like a chump for saying that it was good to hear her voice because even though I genuinely meant it, I don't want her to think that I'm open to her coming back into my personal life.

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If your ok with it :ehh:, but i think because your still thinking about it, it somewhat bothers you still.

but if it doesn't then :salute:

I'd be lying if I said I don't miss her company but I know how these things go. I don't need to touch the stove again after being burned before :manny:
 
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Here's something that might help when dealing with women. It's more about personal well-being and development, but it wil help to have this mentality when dealing with anything and not just women.


Fear of being criticized:
Think for a moment how silly it is to live in fear of criticism. If you're doing what you know to be right, what possible reason could you have to fear the criticism of others?

Are you concerned that the comments and opinions of others will somehow damage your self esteem or self image? Are you afraid of speaking your mind or taking action because you might get your feelings hurt?

If you really want to improve your self esteem, stop allowing other people to be responsible for it. Instead, create something of value. Make a positive difference. Pats on the back are nice, but in the end the thing that will truly make you feel good about yourself is to accomplish something worthwhile.

Find valuable feedback in the criticism of others. Realize that it can't hurt you, that it actually can help. Go forward with the confidence of knowing that you're truly making a difference, and you will indeed.
 
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