Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Brandeezy]

Women are fukking weirdos. Im in the break room at work and about 5 mins ago this broad I work with starts singing out loud out of nowhere copying some breh on the TV then says that she can sing better than him. I'm like "umm ok" and do a pity laugh then she starts humming and keeps quick glancing at me every couple mins. Makes it worse is that she keeps calling me "dude" and talks like the female bird from "Regular Show".

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

Quick background. Girl from work starts talking to me out of nowhere. It started off with a quick text about work and went from there. We had conversations at work prior to that but I thought nothing of them. I thought she was nice and attractive but people were saying she was with someone. Turns out they were on the outs, so basically she's fresh out of a longterm relationship. I probably should have passed when I found that out but I gave it a go anyway and now a couple months later she's saying shyt like she "really cares about me but she still cares about him too, etc." She doesn't know what she wants to do, she's all conflicted. I like her but not enough to deal with that or wait around. I'm assuming it's probably best to move on. I guess the lesson is don't mess with girls who are fresh off that long-term shyt?

 

[The Frozen One]

@Emperor_ReinScarf

bytch at work trying to troll me. She randomly texts me and then when I reply she would stop messaging .. She did it a few times ..

Last night she did the same thing.. Messages me hi .. I reply and then she stops replying.. So last night I told her.. Look if you wanna message but then stop replying then you shouldn't bother messaging at all cause I'm not playing whatever game she's trying to play.

Think this was stupid to do? Should I have not said anything at all. i didn't say anything the first few times but she kept doing it.

 

[MikelArteta]

Hope you learned your lesson breh.

Never mess with people from work and always listen and observe. Not everyone is out to get you when they tell you so and so is a ho, so and so is with someone, not everyone is a "hater".

As well you were the classic rebound guy. Guy to make the ex jealous, guy to give her tingles, only lasting a few months aka honey moon expiration date. Then you get the news, the ex the jerk the a$$hole, the guy she scourge with comments, well your a great guy she just needs space to decide, aka again your backup qb let's see what Michael Vick can do out there.

Cut the cord dont look back.

Quick background. Girl from work starts talking to me out of nowhere. It started off with a quick text about work and went from there. We had conversations at work prior to that but I thought nothing of them. I thought she was nice and attractive but people were saying she was with someone. Turns out they were on the outs, so basically she's fresh out of a longterm relationship. I probably should have passed when I found that out but I gave it a go anyway and now a couple months later she's saying shyt like she "really cares about me but she still cares about him too, etc." She doesn't know what she wants to do, she's all conflicted. I like her but not enough to deal with that or wait around. I'm assuming it's probably best to move on. I guess the lesson is don't mess with girls who are fresh off that long-term shyt?

 

[MikelArteta]

Nothing wrong with it. Set your foot and boundaries down. Women who play games are immature and think they can get away with it because they have a vagina

@Emperor_ReinScarf

bytch at work trying to troll me. She randomly texts me and then when I reply she would stop messaging .. She did it a few times ..

Last night she did the same thing.. Messages me hi .. I reply and then she stops replying.. So last night I told her.. Look if you wanna message but then stop replying then you shouldn't bother messaging at all cause I'm not playing whatever game she's trying to play.

Think this was stupid to do? Should I have not said anything at all. i didn't say anything the first few times but she kept doing it.

 

[Turbulent]

Quick background. Girl from work starts talking to me out of nowhere. It started off with a quick text about work and went from there. We had conversations at work prior to that but I thought nothing of them. I thought she was nice and attractive but people were saying she was with someone. Turns out they were on the outs, so basically she's fresh out of a longterm relationship. I probably should have passed when I found that out but I gave it a go anyway and now a couple months later she's saying shyt like she "really cares about me but she still cares about him too, etc." She doesn't know what she wants to do, she's all conflicted. I like her but not enough to deal with that or wait around. I'm assuming it's probably best to move on. I guess the lesson is don't mess with girls who are fresh off that long-term shyt?

work chicks is RARELY a good idea and just by the way this one is acting, she doesn't seem like the exception.

if you have some game you could still fukk by telling her it's cool if she's not ready but you're not waiting for her cause life is too short. don't all for the guilt trips. don't fall for the "i just need some time". but don't tell her in a angry/bitter way either. just tell her that it would have been cool right now but since she don't want the same thing it's all good. Tell her to come at you when she decides that's what she wants and if you're also on the same vibe by then, maybe something could happen at that point (the bold part is important because it establishes you won't wait for her and she could lose out). then you just be polite with her but give her less energy and time. meanwhile, if nothing changes with the ex, you become the priority by default because she has to fix you and her to regain the attention she was getting.

but again, all this energy and potential drama at work...don't know about you but i'd rather just not deal with that type of shyt at work unless it's a job i really don't care for.

 

[Youseenmywork]

work chicks is RARELY a good idea and just by the way this one is acting, she doesn't seem like the exception.

if you have some game you could still fukk by telling her it's cool if she's not ready but you're not waiting for her cause life is too short. don't all for the guilt trips. don't fall for the "i just need some time". but don't tell her in a angry/bitter way either. just tell her that it would have been cool right now but since she don't want the same thing it's all good. Tell her to come at you when she decides that's what she wants and if you're also on the same vibe by then, maybe something could happen at that point (the bold part is important because it establishes you won't wait for her and she could lose out). then you just be polite with her but give her less energy and time. meanwhile, if nothing changes with the ex, you become the priority by default because she has to fix you and her to regain the attention she was getting.

but again, all this energy and potential drama at work...don't know about you but i'd rather just not deal with that type of shyt at work unless it's a job i really don't care for.

This is what this thread should be about SOLUTIONS. This is an underrated post right here

 

[EQ.]

This is what this thread should be about SOLUTIONS. This is an underrated post right here

@Emperor_ReinScarf @kevm3 @Turbulent beeeeeen posting solutions but some brehs on here are stuck in their ways. You can only guide the donkey to river, can't make em drink the water

 

[Mr210]

Ignore them games fellas

 

[The Frozen One]

@Emperor_ReinScarf @kevm3 @Turbulent beeeeeen posting solutions but some brehs on here are stuck in their ways. You can only guide the donkey to river, can't make em drink the water

And it's not like the solution is pretty tricky .. Problem is posters on here THINK TOO MUCH... I'm having a lot of success by not giving a fukk.. Sometimes I revert back to my old ways, but habits are hard to change and it doesn't happen right away.

Anyways, I dare posters on here to say whatever the fukk you want and watch the reaction.. Girls dig it when you don't put them on pedestal.

Don't come on here and ask omg I got a girls number what do I say.. That's thinkng too much.

 

[Youseenmywork]

@Emperor_ReinScarf @kevm3 @Turbulent beeeeeen posting solutions but some brehs on here are stuck in their ways. You can only guide the donkey to river, can't make em drink the water

I'll answer what I mean by solutions letter breh . It's diffrent types of men in this thread . We each have a different philosophy and thats okay. Some men in this thread are looking for SOLUTIONS like will Smith was giving out in HITCH. Its something that is rarely seen in this thread ...there are guys that wanna get better with woman and proably have all the other areas of their lives taken care of . I hope to bring a diffrent element come late January ... but who know maybe the coli is the wrong place for those get better with women type of solutions ...this shyt is hard to explain ...trust .

 

[EQ.]

I'll answer what I mean by solutions letter breh . It's diffrent types of men in this thread . We each have a different philosophy and thats okay. Some men in this thread are looking for SOLUTIONS like will Smith was giving out in HITCH. Its something that is rarely seen in this thread ...there are guys that wanna get better with woman and proably have all the other areas of their lives taken care of . I hope to bring a diffrent element come late January ... but who know maybe the coli is the wrong place for those get better with women type of solutions ...this shyt is hard to explain ...trust .

I feel what you're saying but understand the best any of the poster in here is give you insight to what they've been through and possibly how they would act in said situations. You should never truly rely on what anyone here has to say indiscriminately, but rather take the relevant pieces and if you feel you can apply them to your life, go ahead.

 

[Youseenmywork]

I feel what you're saying but understand the best any of the poster in here is give you insight to what they've been through and possibly how they would act in said situations. You should never truly rely on what anyone here has to say indiscriminately, but rather take the relevant pieces and if you feel you can apply them to your life, go ahead.

And I understand what your saying . I think
what is highly underestimated is a woman's NATURE. Its kinda funny how Patrice talked about this and NOT to be mad at a woman's NATURE. I like how this been conveniently left . I always say if a women wanna learn how to keep a man from YOU ...you might have a winner.

 

[MikelArteta]

And it's not like the solution is pretty tricky .. Problem is posters on here THINK TOO MUCH... I'm having a lot of success by not giving a fukk.. Sometimes I revert back to my old ways, but habits are hard to change and it doesn't happen right away.

Anyways, I dare posters on here to say whatever the fukk you want and watch the reaction.. Girls dig it when you don't put them on pedestal.

Don't come on here and ask omg I got a girls number what do I say.. That's thinkng too much.

yup i keep saying over and over again just be yourself and don;t worry. If you want to text a chick text her, if you don't don't. You are the prize, if a woman doesn't see you as valuable then , theres billions others in the world. hell I remember when i was younger after every failed relationship or date when a chick didn't call back id be like id never get another woman and always when I was ready or put myself out there one popped up and they were always better than the previous one.

Just live life dammit, people come and go, no need to stres

 

[The Frozen One]

yup i keep saying over and over again just be yourself and don;t worry. If you want to text a chick text her, if you don't don't. You are the prize, if a woman doesn't see you as valuable then , theres billions others in the world. hell I remember when i was younger after every failed relationship or date when a chick didn't call back id be like id never get another woman and always when I was ready or put myself out there one popped up and they were always better than the previous one.

Just live life dammit, people come and go, no need to stres

This is the simple truth .. every guy gets down and over thinks when a girl rejects them... you just have to break out of this mentality .. there are guys at my work who are ALWAYS hitting on the girls and get rejected daily but they just don't give a fukk.. rejection should be second nature.. you have to get rejected and you will ..

It's like riding a bicycle.. Think back as a kid.. when you fell of the bicycle and hurt yourself, you would cry and be hesitant to try again. You would get scared and put your bike away but then something would drag you back so you can try again. And so you would give it another try, but this time the pain wasn't as bad and you were a better rider and you liked it... And this continued till you were able to ride without falling.

You just have to keep practicing. Get rejected..and then get rejected 50 times more. Know the pain and accustom yourself to it. Eventually you wouldn't even think twice when a girl rejected you cause like reincarr said, you are the prize.. girls should be happy to be with you and not the other way around.