Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Urbanmiracle]

Damn I've been with my gf 8 months and yet to meet her fam and vice versa

Honestly women are quick to bring me around their people. I met my ex gf moms within 1 month of meeting her. This other chick I was dating, I met her moms and her son within a few weeks. I mean I don't make a big deal about it. Other people are like omg you met the moms? Wow yall serious. To me honestly, it's dinner on a Friday

 

[Ohene]

im not being heartless but nothing good will come from contacting her Nothing.

I been through it all i remember when i finally cut my ex out and it was her birthday an diw as goign to text but I didn't, I heard she was sick going to see if she was ok then I didn't. And you know what I'm happy I didn't. All it will do is set back your healing. When your finally healed and get to the point where you can look at your ex, or her pictures, or her facebook see her iwht a new guy and feel nothing and don't care THEN you can try and make contact if you want, and trust me by then you won't even care too.

this nikka speaks the truth man. ive been there too

 

[MikelArteta]

this nikka speaks the truth man. ive been there too

the thing is more than not when you reach the point of no longer caring you won't even care to talk to her again, just another chick logged in your memory.

I don't feel anything towards my exes anymore, not love, not bitterness, hate or anger. Will i fb snoop once in a while yeah I won't lie I do, but wilL i message and want to be friends or whatever hell no

 

[MikelArteta]

some more ish i posted on my blog



Just imagine for as long as you can remember you have aspired to go on a prolonged road trip and see all the scenery and experience *insert country* as you have never before. You have planned this expedition for what seems like generations and close friends and the significant other have implied that they are with you on this journey.

As you fill up the tank with gas/diesel/petrol for your vehicle and head out certain friends have a change of heart, at another stop your significant other says “it’s me not you” suddenly your road trip is no longer as smooth as you thought it would be. Should you turn back and give up or keep pressing to what you have always wanted to do?

Ah the road trip of life many people I thought held me close to their heart, instead only lasted a few stops. Thankfully others have hopped along on the way, and even if I do it alone…..there is no turning back to me. Thanks for the company along the way no hard feelings but regardless I am still heading towards my destination.

 

[MikelArteta]

I have an old pair of running shoes I keep around for various weather related incidents. If it’s muddy or rainy outside and I am just going up the road I’ll put them on my feet and head out. I don’t care if salt accumulates and further destroys the shoes or whether it looks atrocious on the outside; mainly because I don’t concern myself about the shoes but I still see some value in having them around.

Many individuals are sadly that old pair of runners in the closet, the guy or the girl that meets an individual but that person has no emotional appeal towards them but sees usefulness in having them around in some capacity. The definition of the guy/girl (old runners) is usually words such as nice, reliable, trite and conventional, Whereas the other parties are usually drawn to only a certain category of individuals the flashy, outgoing, life of the party bringing the emotional high.

The guy/girl (old runners) play a part however, they are the shoulder to cry on, the person invited to a mundane function, or becoming a personal ATM. Woefully there is countless individuals who are stuck in what many know as the “friend zone” they are the old reliable running shoes but think they are brand new flashy Nike cross trainers. In reality the other party does not view them in that light, value is still held in terms of being kept around but not in the sense they wish.

 

[Ohene]

I never had a problem cutting off my first love/ex. Once I saw the break up for what it was and realized she had strung me along I flatlined it. I went a whole 12 or so months without contacting her once. And this was with her number memorized so it took BRUTE STRENGTH!

I always told myself the same thing reincar is preaching. You message her and then what? What will come of it?

Seeing the club pics of her after and all that let me know what was really good. I think the fact that I believed...rather knew I did nothing to "deserve" to be dumped made it that much easier to abstain from her.. Low and behold a year later she mess aged me and we kicked it for a bit (and while the feelings still were there) I didnt care about her or a potential relationship with her. In fact that dinner we had provided me closure and anything that happened subsequent to that day was . Fast forward two years later and its the same story. I again went about 18 monts during that two yr period with out messaging her and i think i even changed my number on her. I remember during that time I was kicking it with a chick who was wondering what my relationship history was like. I showed her a pic of my exes and she went through her instagram. She commented on her having what looks like a bf and i was . Literally didnt care and I still dont. Of course they broke up anyways. It's funny seeing exes run through dudes and getting dogged or failing. During a discussion (weeks ago with the same ex) I found out about some of her relationship history and was / inside because my suspicions (as follows) were correct.

In my mind...regardless of whatever fukk nikka she spends her time with I'm pretty sure they aint fukking with me. Maybe on the surface they are but deep down for reasons she probably doesnt even realize it was truly her loss. Like @Emperor_ReinScarf you're the prize.

 

[Ohene]

now my last ex...we have a little bit of a weirder situation. I havent cut her off because I know shes the right girl for me. Not perfect but very close to my ideal wife. I think the reason i havent cut her off yet is because I dont think hteres a zero % chance we can get back together and b/c we only broke up because she moved overseas. Shes on my injured reserve you could say.

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

About to have dinner with this older chicks family tonite. Hmmm shyt getting serious dumb quick. Might have to fall back a bit. As far as my ex, it's been a solid two weeks since I texted her. We split our phone lines and that was that Sometimes think about seeing how she is but I figure since she ain't even thinking of me, why waste my brain cells. I'm good guys. Gonna enjoy these free meal with this girl.

If you enjoy reading books, get a copy of the Predatory Female by Lawrence Shannon. I can't tell you how many times the words and questions in that book have brought the true intentions of the females I have encountered to light.

Be Wise.

 

[MikelArteta]

I never had a problem cutting off my first love/ex. Once I saw the break up for what it was and realized she had strung me along I flatlined it. I went a whole 12 or so months without contacting her once. And this was with her number memorized so it took BRUTE STRENGTH!

I always told myself the same thing reincar is preaching. You message her and then what? What will come of it?

Seeing the club pics of her after and all that let me know what was really good. I think the fact that I believed...rather knew I did nothing to "deserve" to be dumped made it that much easier to abstain from her.. Low and behold a year later she mess aged me and we kicked it for a bit (and while the feelings still were there) I didnt care about her or a potential relationship with her. In fact that dinner we had provided me closure and anything that happened subsequent to that day was . Fast forward two years later and its the same story. I again went about 18 monts during that two yr period with out messaging her and i think i even changed my number on her. I remember during that time I was kicking it with a chick who was wondering what my relationship history was like. I showed her a pic of my exes and she went through her instagram. She commented on her having what looks like a bf and i was . Literally didnt care and I still dont. Of course they broke up anyways. It's funny seeing exes run through exes and getting dogged. During a discussion (weeks ago with an ex) I found out about some of her relationship history and was :mjlol/ inside because my suspicions (as follows) were correct.

In my mind...regardless of whatever fukk nikka she spends her time with I'm pretty sure they aint fukking with me. Maybe on the surface they are but deep down for reasons she probably doesnt even realize it was truly her loss. Like @Emperor_ReinScarf you're the prize.

yep 99% of the time your ex has already moved on, I remember I was all huddled at home, snooping her fb and she checked in at a club , next day like a pathetic simp i went to that club website and she was in a bunch of pics grinding up on random nikkaz etc. , that ish that tears at a nikkaz soul , but soemtimes you have to see ish like that to realize its done OVER, then you can sever all ties and HEAL, I'm telling do this for you not to be mean or angry or whatever, once you heal you will feel great.

 

[MikelArteta]

If you enjoy reading books, get a copy of the Predatory Female by Lawrence Shannon. I can't tell you how many times the words and questions in that book have brought the true intentions of the females I have encountered to light.

Be Wise.

posted a link to that before
http://www.revolucionantifeminista..../06/lawrence-shannon-the-predatory-female.pdf

manipulated man is good as well (written by a woman)
http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf


this book changed my life
amazon.ca/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

now my last ex...we have a little bit of a weirder situation. I havent cut her off because I know shes the right girl for me. Not perfect but very close to my ideal wife. I think the reason i havent cut her off yet is because I dont think hteres a zero % chance we can get back together and b/c we only broke up because she moved overseas. Shes on my injured reserve you could say.

There is no ideal partner in today's society. Best way to forget about an ex is to concentrate on yourself. Appreciate your time alone. The best thing for a man is to have time to work on himself without any distractions.

 

[Ohene]

There is no ideal partner in today's society. Best way to forget about an ex is to concentrate on yourself. Appreciate your time alone. The best thing for a man is to have time to work on himself without any distractions.

i agree.the first break up i discussed earlier made me cold so when i broke up with this one i didnt even feel any withdrawal . that was a year and a half ago.

but me I'm mature enough to know the important qualities that I need (key word NEED) from a potential partner and she has them. And amongst those qualities she has flaws that I can accept and handle. The good far outweigh the bad.

She's basically a Arvydas Sabonis for me. I drafted her...took her virginity and everything but shes playing overseas right now. I still got the rights to that contract should she come to the NBA though. In the meantime I'ma do what I can to continue recruiting and get that championship .

 

[Tupac in a Business Suit]

posted a link to that before
http://www.revolucionantifeminista..../06/lawrence-shannon-the-predatory-female.pdf

manipulated man is good as well (written by a woman)
http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf

Good Stuff. I just finished reading it as well as The Way of Men. Every young man coming up should read these books. It put a lot of things into perspective in past relationships with women as well as my current relationships and interactions with females.

No man in his right mind should ever consider getting in a relationship before he reaches his mid thirties. By that time we have truly understood who we are and what we are capable of becoming.

 

[MikelArteta]

Good Stuff. I just finished reading it as well as The Way of Men. Every young man coming up should read these books. It put a lot of things into perspective in past relationships with women as well as my current relationships and interactions with females.

No man in his right mind should ever consider getting in a relationship before he reaches his mid thirties. By that time we have truly understood who we are and what we are capable of becoming.

men on strike isn't bad as well.

But the predatory female and manipulated men and no mr nice guy will open up your eyes.

The funny thing is reading those books right away its describing every female in my life

 

[Youseenmywork]

posted a link to that before
http://www.revolucionantifeminista..../06/lawrence-shannon-the-predatory-female.pdf

manipulated man is good as well (written by a woman)
http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf


this book changed my life
amazon.ca/No-More-Mr-Nice-Guy/dp/0762415339

Yeah These books are good starting points its some other books as well i just cant think of the off the top of my head.