Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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And this is why I write.........I love my life and one thing I am keen on is looking back and seeing the evolution of a somewhat spineless schmuck to a man of insight.

I once allowed emotions to override logic and gave a bit of leeway when it should have been no way.

I once sacrificed my time, happiness, even sometimes morphed into a different character and for what? An opportunity with a beautiful woman who has oodles yes oodles of men circumnavigating around her?
The chance to maybe share her podium with the silver and bronze medalist after completing her race that had tons of different heats with competitors.


Thanks but no Thanks........as I got older and experienced a hoopla of face palm and shaking my head in disgust type moments, those days are buried in a undisclosed location and long gone. I do not care to be someone I’m not, I do not have SAG credentials so I am not interested in taking up acting, and I refuse to play the emotional harp to keep someone interested.

I would to be more precise rather spend my schedule and dynamism on hobbies, goals, family and special people in my life who yield a decisive clear gain for my precious time.
 

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she responded brehs and its 6:31pm the next day. :bryan:

talmbout hey. sorry i'm an awful texter but yea i'm studying..hbu?

but u ain't awful at being on whatsapp. :mjpls:

all i'mma say is same. When i'm in bed. At 3am. :camby:

the level of bullshyt with these broads :aicmon:
breh fukk saying same. just read it and keep it moving. i know what youre trying to do cause I've been there :ufdup:
Unless you finna rebuke her...DO NOT REPLY nikka
 

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she responded brehs and its 6:31pm the next day. :bryan:

talmbout hey. sorry i'm an awful texter but yea i'm studying..hbu?

but u ain't awful at being on whatsapp. :mjpls:

all i'mma say is same. When i'm in bed. At 3am. :camby:

the level of bullshyt with these broads :aicmon:


whats app shows yoru last seen, these chicks think we are stupid.

I've been there a few weks ago ignored for a week due to being busy, but she could change her instagram/fb profile pic

In all honesty I wouldn't reply then again I'm hardcore, but once a chick has downgraded me into when i'm bored i'll see what this nikka is up to status, its bushes. I don't need text buddies
 

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Yes I am somewhat picky........The Championship Mindset

My mind always seems to bristle and overflow thinking of equivalents, analogies and mindsets that one should take. Today I present the "Championship Mindset".

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In any sport making the playoffs is an accomplishment that every team strives for. Various teams make the playoffs every single year consistently while others once in a while and for some it could be even once in a generation.

One of those consistent teams that always makes the playoffs is the San Antonio Spurs. The goal at the beginning of the season is to win a championship not just make the playoffs. Parallel that to a team like the Milwaukee Bucks where just reaching the playoffs is cause for celebration.

Long ago I had the Milwaukee Bucks mindset just being in a relationship with a beautiful woman was the equivalent of making the playoffs. However, the days of just settling for a pretty face and/or a sweet personality have long been over. What else is being brought to the table, because in the past sometimes that was it.

I now take on the San Antonio Spurs championship mindset. I am at the point in my life where it is championship or bust. I look for loyalty, commitment, trust, respect, appreciation, viewing me and the relationship as valuable these are some of my "championship:. To jump back into the analogy, the prize the Spurs strive for and their end goal is the championship, just making the playoffs or even the finals is not good enough. In closing, I do not know what your title is nor your "just happy to make the playoffs" moment, all I can say is don't settle strive for the prize.
 
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she responded brehs and its 6:31pm the next day. :bryan:

talmbout hey. sorry i'm an awful texter but yea i'm studying..hbu?

but u ain't awful at being on whatsapp. :mjpls:

all i'mma say is same. When i'm in bed. At 3am. :camby:

the level of bullshyt with these broads :aicmon:

She's bored, so she finally decides to entertain your text.. There isn't a woman on earth that is awful at texting, don't buy that bullshyt :laugh:.. Don't reply, charge her to the game because two things will happen.. She's either going to go hard to gain your attention back, or she's going to go off somewhere and leave you alone for good. You win in both scenarios because YOU are now in charge.
 

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breh fukk saying same. just read it and keep it moving. i know what youre trying to do cause I've been there :ufdup:
Unless you finna rebuke her...DO NOT REPLY nikka

i ain't tryna fukk her breh. That shipped sailed last week and sunk yesterday. She just tryna relieve that burden of guilt on her and she thinks i'm stupid enough to believe her and allow her to do that. :mjlol:

The reason i wanna say same is because i don't want to come off as being sensitive and hurt. I ain't tryna appease her and know what she did is disrespectful, but by saying same shows that i'm indifferent and not hurt. Besides, ain't like i'mma text her ever again...which is another reason why i'd wanna say same.

whats app shows yoru last seen, these chicks think we are stupid.

I've been there a few weks ago ignored for a week due to being busy, but she could change her instagram/fb profile pic

In all honesty I wouldn't reply then again I'm hardcore, but once a chick has downgraded me into when i'm bored i'll see what this nikka is up to status, its bushes. I don't need text buddies

I guess she thought i'm stupid. :heh: or she just ain't as smart as she think's she is. :pachaha:
 

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i ain't tryna fukk her breh. That shipped sailed last week and sunk yesterday. She just tryna relieve that burden of guilt on her and she thinks i'm stupid enough to believe her and allow her to do that. :mjlol:

The reason i wanna say same is because i don't want to come off as being sensitive and hurt. I ain't tryna appease her and know what she did is disrespectful, but by saying same shows that i'm indifferent and not hurt. Besides, ain't like i'mma text her ever again...which is another reason why i'd wanna say same.



I guess she thought i'm stupid. :heh: or she just ain't as smart as she think's she is. :pachaha:
breh who gives a fukk if you sound sensitive or hurt? :ufdup:
Youre only trying to seem indifferent because youre hoping that she will wonder why you dont care and start pursuing you on a greater level. :ufdup:

I wasnt born yesterday.

If you were really done you wouldnt care about what she thinks about you because at this point she ceases to excist . Stop playing the game on All-Pro and go up to All-Madden :ufdup:
 

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First, get rid of your silly thoughts of Bio Clock.:childplease: Women are age can still give birth and sustain their beauty. You dudes are killing me with this myopic generalization. I can't believe you actually think like this in the real world :heh: Understand that it isn't about the age; it's about the level of maturity of a woman you should be concern with and her attribute. Stay away from the crazy broads, breh. If you don't detach from that insane woman, you are going to age quickly by stress. Stay connected with the mental healthy lady that will bring tangible attributes to the table and won't drive you crazy.

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It doesn't matter what you and I think about a "Bio clock". shyt is proven by SCIENCE. Plus girls start to freak out in their late 20's because they feel that shyt. I'm only speaking from experience. It's not like I'm trippin about age but when you start talking to girls in their early 30's and you see the fear in their eyes about not being able to have kids it becomes something you're aware of as well. I got homegirls I went to school with seriously considering freezing their eggs. Once again, this aint my concern I'm just reporting from the field breh.
 
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