Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[kevm3]

I had a dinner today with my bro in law and sister, anyways my bro in law was telling me how he was engaged years and years ago before he met my sister. Well he got cheated on and dumped in front of her family because he lost his job. Anyways years later my bro in law is married to my sister, and making like 80k at the time with two kids and they go to the mall, and his ex is working in the cosmetic department at sears

That's how you end up winning against someone that is scandalous. You don't go over there and destroy their property, you don't scream and yell and go ballistic, and you especially don't go off harming yourself or others. You simply refocus, get better at life and replace her with a more loyal woman. You can bet when she sees another woman in the place that she could have been in, that's punishment enough. When a man doesn't worry about getting even with women and simply learns how to keep it pushing, life gets much smoother.

 

[Bless't]

I don't care for any, I'm at the point in my life if I'm going to be in a relationship again it will just happen, on some sitting in a packed food court and a chick asks me can i sit here and we end up talking. But all that chasing, on pof, tinder, match and all that is over.

I'm juuuuuuust about at this point now. I feel it. Ready to just fall back and let the chips fall where they may.

 

[MikelArteta]

My longest relationship even though it didn't last, was me just going to a birthday party, and a chick at the party thinking I was handsome. I didn't have to do anything.

I'm juuuuuuust about at this point now. I feel it. Ready to just fall back and let the chips fall where they may.

 

[MikelArteta]

How to destroy distorted emotional connections


The emotional connection can be forged quickly or can be a slow and meticulous process. However when it becomes distorted it will have you taking back a cheater, abuser, liar and accepting all forms of shadiness while destroying your self-worth as well as overriding your gut / intuition and logical thinking.



It will have you constantly checking up on an ex on Facebook, Instagram, Twitter or whatever form of social media they may utilize continually looking for information and setting you back time and time again. It will allow you to lose your dignity by professing your “love” in long letters and participating in ridiculous “games” to try and win back your former sweetheart. It will have you accepting bread crumbs, disrespect and demotion since as long as you get a hit of them the chain of emotional connection stays attached. It will have you residing in stagnant relationships long past the expiry date and it will water the unpleasant seed of codependency.


So how do you eradicate the emotional connection that has been distorted?


1.Emotional Distance by cutting the cord and leaving no “ins”



A)Total Withdrawal!! Just like how if someone is in the process of dumping you or cutting you out of their life, they slowly make their withdrawal, physically and emotionally……now it is your turn to do the same but totally. The emotional connection will have to starve to death without any form of contact, just like if you have Candida overgrowth by eliminating sugar it will slowly starve the excess Candida.



B)Leaving No “Ins”



If you have roaches in your household, you will take measures to eradicate them. If you call pest control and they spray your property but you still leave food out and crumbs they will continually come back again and again. You have to leave ZERO ins, patch up any openings, leave no crumbs, whether that may be blocking on social media or deactivating it totally, changing your number, being “mean” in the sense you totally ignore, all these steps and maybe more will have to be taken. Remember this is for you! The time is now to put yourself first.



2. Surround yourself with positive people who will continually motivate you!


Breaking the bond can sometimes feel impossible, but when you feel like you are falling having individuals around you to motivate you and attest to your self-worth can be very influential to keep you on the path to eradicating of distortion.



The situations life presents may seem grueling and sadly it may not get easier, but as time goes on it does get easier to adjust and to combat the situations that may present themselves before you. Nothing is impossible!!

 

[EffYou]

My dad told me spend $77 max for the cable i set it up with the cable guys anyways checked out the first bill online it says $134 my dads going to kill me. Pray for me yall

 

[Ohene]

lol


its just getting worse as time goes on, When you really sit back and think what are you getting its like is it worth it? All you get is what vagina that she gave to 10, 15, 20, 25 other dudes, some text messages throughout the day? and if you are lucky maybe a exclusive relationship

not even guaranteed loyalty, not guaranteed love. But dudes love vagina so much its al they can think about

 

[iBrowse]

Its already began. I remember when battlefield 3 came out I bought it, took it home and then went out this chick. While she was talking I remember thinking to myself "I can't wait for this to be over that I trying to get on this bf3 for at least a couple of hrs".

lmfaoooooo...i thought this was only me...same thing happened to me a couple weeks ago on a date with this chick...i just wanted to get home to play some video games :smuggyralph:

 

[s3ven_LvLs]

lmfaoooooo...i thought this was only me...same thing happened to me a couple weeks ago on a date with this chick...i just wanted to get home to play some video games :smuggyralph:

I was too hype when it came out though I was like "so in addition to it being a first person shooter I can ride around in tanks, blow up buildings and its like 32 players on one board" it was guaranteed I would have fun playing

 

[iBrowse]

I was too hype when it came out though I was like "so in addition to it being a first person shooter I can ride around in tanks, blow up buildings and its like 32 players on one board" it was guaranteed I would have fun playing

i have bf 3 and 4 and all the CODs breh...flying them jets...taking out mad nikkas on operation metro with the aek ...trolling nikkas with the repair tool soo much better than spending money/time on someone im not even dealing with 3 weeks later

 

[jeh]

Listening to Willie D song Yo P My D though raw and uncut. He drops gems. So fellas, if ypu ever in a funk, play that. And just chill like

 

[Max B]

she won't message me back fam.

it ain't like we dated or i simped for her. I only spoke to her maybe 2x in class and that's it. I think she'll get the message and not bother me.

Warya what kinda chick you dealin with? For me if a chick took that long to reply i just dont bother to reply until she text me again. Im not trynna be dat bytches text buddy

But yo you gotta talk to her more often in class and thus you will see the signals if shes into you or not. Its easier in person then over texting walal.

 

[MikelArteta]

tell me im wrong breh
its the same song and dance over and over again.

ask questions back and forth to know about each other
plan a date, talk some more

maybe you get the opportunity to hit something a bunch of other dudes have already done

then with the dopamine high you want to hit again, she's "hot" you want to make her your girl or add to the rotation

maybe you enter a relationship that is great ala the honeymoon period or you continue being friends with benefits

then it ends either by you two become distant, infidelity, or one person becomes bored of the other, heartbreak ensures you say damn im done f these thots

few months goes by and your back out doing the same thing again

what is the reward? puzzy? companionship?


having a great woman is GREAT, but that ish is so Rare, I can count on one hand the amount of "GREAT" women i've come across in my life.

 

[Ohene]

tell me im wrong breh
its the same song and dance over and over again.

ask questions back and forth to know about each other
plan a date, talk some more

maybe you get the opportunity to hit something a bunch of other dudes have already done

then with the dopamine high you want to hit again, she's "hot" you want to make her your girl or add to the rotation

maybe you enter a relationship that is great ala the honeymoon period or you continue being friends with benefits

then it ends either by you two become distant, infidelity, or one person becomes bored of the other, heartbreak ensures you say damn im done f these thots

few months goes by and your back out doing the same thing again

its true ...nikkas just be lonely

 

[MikelArteta]

its true ...nikkas just be lonely

exactly that feeling of looking at your phone and you got text msgs and that whats app icon flashing bunch of girls hitting you up feeding your ego and ish


hell my phone is like dead only chick that talks to me lives in vancouver and its sporadic contact here and there, back in the day this would lead me to be on like okcupid, tinder etc. replenishing now :kony:

I'ma kill this addiction

 

[Ohene]

exactly that feeling of looking at your phone and you got text msgs and that whats app icon flashing bunch of girls hitting you up feeding your ego and ish


hell my phone is like dead only chick that talks to me lives in vancouver and its sporadic contact here and there, back in the day this would lead me to be on like okcupid, tinder etc. replenishing now :kony:

I'ma kill this addiction

I'm killing the addiction breh. After a certain point you have to. I tried but if it aint there right now it just aint

tired of trying to do all the work like Kevm3 said. It aint worth it