Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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well today the girl texted me saying she's sitting at my desk cause the other girl didn't wanna move.. what a big mess.
why the hell would you let her sit at your desk? tell her :camby:you don't know where she is going to sit but sure as hell not at your desk. this is not your problem, you chose your desk and sat there, she didn't.
 

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You get the feeling more times than not that most of these women are always entertaining multiple options. You're just the hottest right now, but as soon as her interest wanes and another suitor looks a bit tastier, "oh, I've been busy.' You'll be lucky to get that. More than likely you'll hear nothing from her for a couple of weeks to a month and then she might pop back up. Seriously, who wants to put effort into that if that's the kind of reward you get? You're right that there's no way you can earn yourself or put yourself on the level to garner loyalty. You got a dude like Omarion who has been a major pop star, probably has seen hundreds of thousands of dollars, etc... and he's wondering if his kid is actually his. Funny thing is that once you stop putting in the effort and you stop caring, these women start to take more of an interest in you...

Honestly, me focusing on programming, getting better with Jesus, and other elements is the best thing I've done. As a man, you have to be a wise investor and invest your time and activities into areas that actually bring a return.


that's why its always funny when poeple are like get money, get status etc., yah you may get more women who are beautiful or whatever but you still are not guaranteed loyalty. It's literally a toss up the broke man whose disabled may hit the jackpot and get a wife who loves him for who he is and be loyal to death, the pop star gets cheated on when he could have his pick of the litter of millions of women

:mindblown:

ive noticed in life sometimes a thing that is so frustrating, you'll hear how chicks tough it out with the liar, cheater, abuser etc., yet being a decent loyal stable guy your lucky to get a few months.
 

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Just got off work, my lady friend stopped by. Chilling bumping bout it bout it III
She wanna be the main, but im like cool. What's the credit score like, what you bring to the table. Shawtu got them certs. Lol. But I won't slip. She got the im finna trap thiscdude look in her eyes. Its all g.Im wise as a serpent, innocent as a dove. thats a bible verse btw homie lol
 

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Just got off work, my lady friend stopped by. Chilling bumping bout it bout it III
She wanna be the main, but im like cool. What's the credit score like, what you bring to the table. Shawtu got them certs. Lol. But I won't slip. She got the im finna trap thiscdude look in her eyes. Its all g.Im wise as a serpent, innocent as a dove. thats a bible verse btw homie lol

She was down to fukk breh:wow:
 
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How do you deal with a hot & cold woman? It gets beyond frustrating..

This girl messages randomly...makes spare convo and then vanishes...I don't hit her up but I wanna smash.. My problem with this girl is that I told her I was interested in her...

Here's a convo I had yesterday.
her: bs bs bs
Me: you like hookah (tried to set up something)
Her: no but I wanna try...you have a hookah at home so I can try.
Me: no but I know good places
Her: oh is it xxx place
Me: there is that one but few others I can take you.
Her: I wanna go
Me: hit me up when you're free and I'll take you.
Her: when
Me: this Saturday
Her: cant this week
Me: aight

:beli:

Just grade a bullshyt.. There's a reason why the first time I said when you're free.. Cause I knew she would have rejected my advances regardless.

I don't hit her up...don't have long convos with her...I think she's messed up in the head or just plays the bullshyt game with me..

By the way this isn't the first time. That's why I've basically given up on her. And whenever she messages me keep the convos small and light..
 

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How do you deal with a hot & cold woman? It gets beyond frustrating..

This girl messages randomly...makes spare convo and then vanishes...I don't hit her up but I wanna smash.. My problem with this girl is that I told her I was interested in her...

Here's a convo I had yesterday.
her: bs bs bs
Me: you like hookah (tried to set up something)
Her: no but I wanna try...you have a hookah at home so I can try.
Me: no but I know good places
Her: oh is it xxx place
Me: there is that one but few others I can take you.
Her: I wanna go
Me: hit me up when you're free and I'll take you.
Her: when
Me: this Saturday
Her: cant this week
Me: aight

:beli:

Just grade a bullshyt.. There's a reason why the first time I said when you're free.. Cause I knew she would have rejected my advances regardless.

I don't hit her up...don't have long convos with her...I think she's messed up in the head or just plays the bullshyt game with me..

By the way this isn't the first time. That's why I've basically given up on her. And whenever she messages me keep the convos small and light..

Ask her what she wants from you and why she wants it..

She don't give you an answer with a date to meet up,bushes
 

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you in louisiana too breh? These hoes trash. 99% ratchet. The best ones come from out of state. :sadbron:

I love my state but the females here are the extreme's either thot's, stuck up, adrenaline junkies, or super super nerdy. There's really no balance:manny:




I use to think it was me until I started traveling alot more back in the day.
 

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How do you deal with a hot & cold woman? It gets beyond frustrating..

This girl messages randomly...makes spare convo and then vanishes...I don't hit her up but I wanna smash.. My problem with this girl is that I told her I was interested in her...

Here's a convo I had yesterday.
her: bs bs bs
Me: you like hookah (tried to set up something)
Her: no but I wanna try...you have a hookah at home so I can try.
Me: no but I know good places
Her: oh is it xxx place
Me: there is that one but few others I can take you.
Her: I wanna go
Me: hit me up when you're free and I'll take you.
Her: when
Me: this Saturday
Her: cant this week
Me: aight

:beli:

Just grade a bullshyt.. There's a reason why the first time I said when you're free.. Cause I knew she would have rejected my advances regardless.

I don't hit her up...don't have long convos with her...I think she's messed up in the head or just plays the bullshyt game with me..

By the way this isn't the first time. That's why I've basically given up on her. And whenever she messages me keep the convos small and light..
lol when she said, "when" you should've just said, "when you're free." or not even have replied. This girl illiterate or what?
 
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Ask her what she wants from you and why she wants it..

She don't give you an answer with a date to meet up,bushes

breh i'm just gonna get the run around and more bullshyt again.

lol when she said, "when" you should've just said, "when you're free." or not even have replied. This girl illiterate or what?

breh she's :mindblown: me so many times.. i think sometimes she is stupid, and i think she just does it for the attention.
 

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breh i'm just gonna get the run around and more bullshyt again.



breh she's :mindblown: me so many times.. i think sometimes she is stupid, and i think she just does it for the attention.

th
...Let the bushes eat:yeshrug:
 

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Lately brehs I've been having dreams about my ex cause I guess her bday is next Tuesday and it's also her mothers death anniversary (whatever the term is). I know the message is fukk her but something in my subconscious is either trying to fool me into calling her (I have her blocked) or maybe Im just not letting go. But for some reason this girl is sticking to me in my mind. I've been through break ups before I just move on but this is the first time I've been dumped so maybe that's a part of it. I dunno but I haven't had peace of mind for a long time and it's bugging me.
 

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Lately brehs I've been having dreams about my ex cause I guess her bday is next Tuesday and it's also her mothers death anniversary (whatever the term is). I know the message is fukk her but something in my subconscious is either trying to fool me into calling her (I have her blocked) or maybe Im just not letting go. But for some reason this girl is sticking to me in my mind. I've been through break ups before I just move on but this is the first time I've been dumped so maybe that's a part of it. I dunno but I haven't had peace of mind for a long time and it's bugging me.

Its a process and a journey..Nothing comes easy..

That's to be expected...

But don't take steps back breh...

All it will lead to is you starting all over again
 
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