Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I think your from the bx as well...

Fam you gotta literally belittle these broads out here..

make them feel like they are inferior to you

In total agreement with the above , at my office some of the guys can't comprehend how easy it is to organise a rendezvous & later on be totally subdued in vagina residue at the flick of a smartphones button (well they touch screen now) , they go onto enlighten me some of the most pathetic tales of courting I've ever heard.....tis a shame what man has stooped too in order to get any form of female gratification these days.... I urge you guys to STOP DOING THIS:

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pretty much. if you're having to 'earn' a broad's time, she's not really feeling you and there's always some guy out there she would gladly leave your presence to go spend time with right now no matter what you were doing for her. If she ain't cool just kicking it with you just off of her purely enjoying your company, she's not worth dealing with. The woman that really likes you looks at YOU as the prize, not the potential restaurants or trips you can theoretically take her on. With a woman, it has to come out of your mouth, not out of your pocket.


QFT fam

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In total agreement with the above , at my office some of the guys can't comprehend how easy it is to organise a rendezvous & later on be totally subdued in vagina residue at the flick of a smartphones button (well they touch screen now) , they go onto enlighten me some of the most pathetic tales of courting I've ever heard.....tis a shame what man has stooped too in order to get any form of female gratification these days.... I urge you guys to STOP DOING THIS:

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That picture :wow:
 

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The funny thing is if a woman likes you, you don't have to do anything.

Ill always remember when I dealt with this woman and she should show me Facwbook messages of this guy proclaiming his love, willing to take her on trips around the world, pay her bills etc, and I was just a reg breh taking the bus.

But she was with me :jalwarus:

I don't usually divulge personal information of this manner but in honour of serving up some decent relationship advise I'lI digress.

I know exactly what type woman you describing right there, funny thing is I actually feel for the fella (I've been on both sides of the fence...the side man she picked & the simp who lavished his sweetheart with abundant affection to no end) on the other end of that Facebook message composing his love & affection away to these heartless harlottes we have rife in society today.

The other day I spotted a breh I knew 'holding fukkin hands' with this one privy to most Sket... & I thought to myself...imagine if he could do a HPI check on the person he is lying down with at night . All I'm saying is there is a lot of:

High mileage
Failed MOT's
Too many previous owners
Cat C type Write offs running around on Facebook & Instagram acting like they fresh off the forecourt.

#checkthehistory brehs :scust:


Its also kinda frustrating when you have these donkeys pretending to be racehorses types, putting up captions about being single & shyt when they out raving every weekend posting half naked pics all in the name of LIKES & attention from the wrong people:ufdup:
 

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On spending money on a woman, there's absolutely nothing wrong of it if you know she's there for YOU and not for you reaching into your pocketbook... like for example, you got a woman who always comes around you and just loves your conversation and you never had to spend a dime on her... she just loves kicking it with you and joking, and you decide to take her to dinner... coo. she's there for you and not your money. nothing wrong with rewarding genuine people

Simping is when you have to use money, fabricated affection, etc to compensate for a lack of interest on her part. She won't deal with you UNTIL you bring up dinner. That's a clear distinction to keep in mind.

We're not recommending you be super cheap and never spend money on a woman. If you have a woman down for you and loyal to you, you definitely want to show her appreciation.
 

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If your going to spend money on women do it because you want to not for some added reward or something or manipulation tactic in mind that's when simping nice guy syndrome comes in.

When I was on vacay this year I spent the whole week with this chick she drove me everywhere, spent all day every day with me, I paid for dinner some evenings and even when I came back home I sent her flowers not on some simping corny ish but as a thanks.

Thanks for constantly filling up your gas and driving me around hundred of kilometers and taking me to places I never knew existed.


Now I'm I go in to spend money on some random chick ala some 50 dollar steak or shower with gifts no.
 

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My past is my testimony I'm not afraid to share.

I remember my first breakup getting dumped I did it all, I'm talking about buying a card and writing a thesis on my love :heh:, crying on the phone to a cold voice, surprising her at work with flowers and chocolate, couldn't fathom why she couldn't see my love for her.

All I did was shed my dignity and look like a pathetic sap and pushed her even farther away from me.

And I agree many of these chicks out there are writeoffs and water damaged high mileage with the odometer pushed back, but dudes just see a pretty face big ass and that's all that matters.

I can truthfully say getting burned and gutted By a beautiful woman is something that opened my eyes. I don't get caught up anymore or mesmerized by beauty.

Once you get bitten by that deadly beautiful poisonous frog and recover your set!


I don't usually divulge personal information of this manner but in honour of serving up some decent relationship advise I'lI digress.

I know exactly what type woman you describing right there, funny thing is I actually feel for the fella (I've been on both sides of the fence...the side man she picked & the simp who lavished his sweetheart with abundant affection to no end) on the other end of that Facebook message composing his love & affection away to these heartless harlottes we have rife in society today.

The other day I spotted a breh I knew 'holding fukkin hands' with this one privy to most Sket... & I thought to myself...imagine if he could do a HPI check on the person he is lying down with at night . All I'm saying is there is a lot of:

High mileage
Failed MOT's
Too many previous owners
Cat C type Write offs running around on Facebook & Instagram acting like they fresh off the forecourt.

#checkthehistory brehs :scust:


Its also kinda frustrating when you have these donkeys pretending to be racehorses types, putting up captions about being single & shyt when they out raving every weekend posting half naked pics all in the name of LIKES & attention from the wrong people:ufdup:
 

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Something we as men should be seeking is just dealing with genuine people, whether it's a woman we date or just someone we choose to befriend. It's very easy to get caught up in shallow characteristics because our base, primal nature pulls us toward it. For example, I love fine women, but this pursuit of beauty can easily lead me into situations where I'm dealing with women that are wrong for me because it can cause me to ignore that woman's moral character. Before we check others, we have to check ourselves, because a lot of trouble will eventually be avoided in doing such.

Now on the issue of loyalty, if you reward a snake, the snake will bite you regardless. You reward a dog and the dog will likely give you even loyalty in return. When dealing with people, you have to eventually make an assessment of whether you are in the presence of a snake or a dog. If it's a snake, get that person away from you as quickly as possible. No matter what you do, you will not be rewarded. In fact, you will be destroyed by destructive venom. On the other hand, if you are around the person who is akin to a dog, you do them well and they will be there when you most need them in life. Before you hand out your pearls (which are essentially precious elements in your life such as your time), be aware of what exactly you are dealing with.
 

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3 Traits That the avg women Loves from men (mainly black women)

Confidence

Swag

Masculinity


IK Alot of you guys probably dont understand those 3 traits FULLY Even tho u think u do , so ill give u picture examples that ik 4sure ULL Understand

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Swag-
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Work on getting 1 of these traits cuz these are the traits that will attract women..

And if You can get all 3 of these

TRUST ME U WIll have absolutely no problem gettn women
 

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Great analogy.

Beauty is fleeting as the bible says.

Some fine women are just meant to be looked at from afar on some python in a snake exhibit.

Its hard for a man when dealing with a fine woman because you don't want to give it up so you give leeway and put up with behavior you probably wouldn't if she was just a basic looking chick.



Something we as men should be seeking is just dealing with genuine people, whether it's a woman we date or just someone we choose to befriend. It's very easy to get caught up in shallow characteristics because our base, primal nature pulls us toward it. For example, I love fine women, but this pursuit of beauty can easily lead me into situations where I'm dealing with women that are wrong for me because it can cause me to ignore that woman's moral character. Before we check others, we have to check ourselves, because a lot of trouble will eventually be avoided in doing such.

Now on the issue of loyalty, if you reward a snake, the snake will bite you regardless. You reward a dog and the dog will likely give you even loyalty in return. When dealing with people, you have to eventually make an assessment of whether you are in the presence of a snake or a dog. If it's a snake, get that person away from you as quickly as possible. No matter what you do, you will not be rewarded. In fact, you will be destroyed by destructive venom. On the other hand, if you are around the person who is akin to a dog, you do them well and they will be there when you most need them in life. Before you hand out your pearls (which are essentially precious elements in your life such as your time), be aware of what exactly you are dealing with.
 
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