Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[EA]

So the past two days I noticed my ex pretty much holed up in her room. Car in the driveway seemed different from the car I seen her "boyfriend" drive.

Today I found out her "ex" spent like a day with her here. nikka was here yesterday all day. I was a bit confused like cuz I knew her man drove a different car.

She still got a man though

To recap:
My ex, lives in the same house as her ex, still messing with her other ex AND she got a boyfriend.

These girls...

Damn

 

[MikelArteta]

Been chatting to a girl for 2 or so days, everything was going well. She's smart, funny and seems like good person to vibe with. Yesterday she tells me she has a 6 year old daughter .

Still weighing out whether or not I should try to fukk or just bounce.

 

[MikelArteta]

havent been in this thread in a hot minute! proposed my girl 2 months ago; been with my girl 8yrs and counting

gotta believe theres still good women out there...dunno where yall cats gotta find them these days tho

congrats when you find a good woman

 

[MikelArteta]

So the past two days I noticed my ex pretty much holed up in her room. Car in the driveway seemed different from the car I seen her "boyfriend" drive.

Today I found out her "ex" spent like a day with her here. nikka was here yesterday all day. I was a bit confused like cuz I knew her man drove a different car.

She still got a man though

To recap:
My ex, lives in the same house as her ex, still messing with her other ex AND she got a boyfriend.

These girls...

and guess what that could have been you, sometimes you don't see or realize its for the best until you see some other dude getting screwed or played.

I've already mentioned like my two main exes how other dudes who fell into their trap ended up getting screwed just like I did.

 

[smARTmouf]

Friendzone the first fine woman you talk to you....Show no intention on fukking her, just friend her.

She has fine friends and it will be easy as hell to bag one of them.

Not only that...going out to the club with fine women increases your value...You'll be a chick magnet

Thank me later..

 

[MikelArteta]

Reinscarf advice to men 1.0



Never solicit a female to love you or too stay if she wants to go


If she departs she departs. Don't execute grand deeds for her and don't plead with her to take you back. It only makes you look pitiable. Have some self respect and tell her to go ahead and abscond and get on with your life. As well why desperately try to hold on to a woman that does not want to be with you or treats you horribly, or has cheated or brought discord into your life? You should get to a point of being thrilled that a woman who does not view you as valuable or did you wrong wants out of your life. When you were single and thinking about the ideal woman did you envision a woman that has little to no consideration for your feelings or if she hurts you? Did you visualize a woman that has no remorse at all over the pain she causes the man that she promised to love or be committed to? Why do you even want a woman like this? But but she`s beautiful, you don`t understand what we have……….



Never modify the person you are for a woman


What women desire from a man appears to alter on a daily basis so discontinue driving yourself fanatical trying to curve and twist yourself to what the latest Cosmopolitan magazine and the media in general say what is the preeminent man of today. Just be yourself and find a female who accepts you as you are. It may require a longer wait to find this woman but trust me she will be worth it.


Do not be afraid to pick her brain


Countless men end up getting screwed over for the reason that they go for a beautiful woman who is a skillful captivator but lacking principles. These types of women know when to smile in your face and be pleasant when they clandestinely despise you or they are messing around on you behind your back. When men finally experience the real them they are brokenhearted because they are still in love with the fantasy. What I advise men to do before getting serious with a woman is to find out who she is deep below the surface. Observe and get to be acquainted with her thoughts on commitment, relationships, loyalty whatever is important to you and see if her moral code and values are compatible with yours.


Always have a moral fiber and a Backbone


One of the most imperative things in a relationship is that the woman in your existence has the utmost respect you. Always stand up for yourself and necessitate the right to be treated correctly and if she will not treat you the way that you merit show her the door. Women are a nice bonus in life when you find the right one but they are not a necessity and you should never center your happiness on having one in your life. Make other things like hobbies, career, friends, family and exciting superior things as priorities and if a woman is worth it she will fit in with that but if she walks out of your existence you can easily bounce back because you have all those other things. The emasculated cowardly man trend needs to cease right now.



Learn to be content without a woman


When you learn to be happy on your own it allows you to find the correct relationship for you instead of settling for the erroneous relationships. When you are content without a woman in your life when you find the right one she will add to your joy not subtract or become it. And if you never find the right woman you can still live a happy content life as a single man.



Never date a woman who loves drama and playing games


A quote unquote nice guy will see a woman who has been mistreated by all previous men in her past and women that generally have major issues and yet will stake his claim in the sand to show her good men do exist but in the end all he gets is D-R-A-M-A. To these women a nourishing relationship with a good man that treats them properly is like trying to feed ribs with french fries on the side to an anorexic. Just like being divested of food for an extended time will make it very hard for an anorexic to handle that meal being deprived of real love and a nourishing relationship from a good man for so long will make one of these women to do everything in their capacity to produce drama and sabotage the relationship or they leave claiming that he is too nice. A quality man is much better off being with a woman who already has her issues sorted out and is looking for a healthy relationship.

 

[Womb Raider]

So I've been fukking my close friend for a couple months now. We've been pretty clear that this is only a friends with benefits type of thing, since she got out of a four year relationship last summer. She said that she could see us going out but she just can't do a relationship right now. Fine. Last night she said a couple of things that has me pondering the near future. The major thing she said was mistakenly calling me her ex, right before we had sex. She then cried. And then we fukked. Earlier that night, she said I was going to see why she says that she's crazy and why a relationship with her would be a second job, in the near future.

My question is this, should I get outta here now or later? I originally wanted her to be my gf, since she's everything I really want. She's a cute little asian, very nerdy and studious, loves sex and has a beautiful personality. On the flip side, she's emotional and has been around the block (post-relationship female, can't be mad). So what should I do?

 

[koala]

Sounds like she's not gonna be over her ex for awhile. The key thing for me there is asking yourself whether or not fukking her is getting in the way of you finding someone else that's good for you. If you can pursue that and still fukk her in the meantime, do that. If fukking her is getting you messed up in feelings for this girl who's obviously not ready for what you seem to want right now, maybe cut it off and pursue somethin else for awhile..

 

[Leasy]

havent been in this thread in a hot minute! proposed my girl 2 months ago; been with my girl 8yrs and counting

gotta believe theres still good women out there...dunno where yall cats gotta find them these days tho

Been with my wifey 6 years have a house and son but I be damn that these chicks are hunting I am feeling vulnerable right I am going to fuKk up.

 

[MikelArteta]

Fwbs never work because one person is bound to catch feelings


If you can just maintain smashing her without any emotional connection then continue but it seems you can't I'd cut my losses before you end up in a world of pain. There's tons of women everywhere, why waste your time on one who is still in a bond with an ex

So I've been fukking my close friend for a couple months now. We've been pretty clear that this is only a friends with benefits type of thing, since she got out of a four year relationship last summer. She said that she could see us going out but she just can't do a relationship right now. Fine. Last night she said a couple of things that has me pondering the near future. The major thing she said was mistakenly calling me her ex, right before we had sex. She then cried. And then we fukked. Earlier that night, she said I was going to see why she says that she's crazy and why a relationship with her would be a second job, in the near future.

My question is this, should I get outta here now or later? I originally wanted her to be my gf, since she's everything I really want. She's a cute little asian, very nerdy and studious, loves sex and has a beautiful personality. On the flip side, she's emotional and has been around the block (post-relationship female, can't be mad). So what should I do?

 

[MikelArteta]

If she's loyal and faithful don't do it. Trust me as a single man there's nothing out there of value and substance for the most part.

Yeah there's puzzy and hot women but that's about it

Been with my wifey 6 years have a house and son but I be damn that these chicks are hunting I am feeling vulnerable right I am going to fuKk up.

 

[The Mad Titan]

If she's loyal and faithful don't do it. Trust me as a single man there's nothing out there of value and substance for the most part.

Yeah there's puzzy and hot women but that's about it

Cosign this, it aint worth it in the long run.

 

[rogue_riezo]

Second response to willing and open nookie breh .

Still haven't though. 30 minute drive .

EDIT: She's the epitome of ghetto single mom. Stable job, lives with parents, dead end job (that she regards as a blessing) . Wrote off night life to spend her time "respinsibly".

 

[DeuceZ]

Been with my wifey 6 years have a house and son but I be damn that these chicks are hunting I am feeling vulnerable right I am going to fuKk up.

stay strong breh...dont give up 80% for 20%

 

[MikelArteta]

dont be this guy brehs