Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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stay strong breh...dont give up 80% for 20% :wow:

brehs don't know how hard it is out there.

Funny thing theres been like 3 dudes past few months who came in this thread having a good girl but were thinking of stepping out or some chick flirting with them.

And we always say the same thing. If you got a quality woman that is down for you it's not worth it, your relationship is probably just a little stale and you probably just need a night out or a vacation or something to spice it up.

It's real in these streets choosing between jezebels, milady de winters, marilyn monroes and delihahs
 

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brehs don't know how hard it is out there.

Funny thing theres been like 3 dudes past few months who came in this thread having a good girl but were thinking of stepping out or some chick flirting with them.

And we always say the same thing. If you got a quality woman that is down for you it's not worth it, your relationship is probably just a little stale and you probably just need a night out or a vacation or something to spice it up.

It's real in these streets choosing between jezebels, milady de winters, marilyn monroes and delihahs

These dudes letting boredom get to them, thinking the grass is greener on the other side... but when they come home to an empty bed and end up having to deal with the madness that is the modern dating scene, they'll wish they'd have listened. The vast majority of these women don't care about you and look at you as expendable entertainment or resources to be exploited. If you have a woman that actually wants to see you win, why give that up?
 

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These dudes letting boredom get to them, thinking the grass is greener on the other side... but when they come home to an empty bed and end up having to deal with the madness that is the modern dating scene, they'll wish they'd have listened. The vast majority of these women don't care about you and look at you as expendable entertainment or resources to be exploited. If you have a woman that actually wants to see you win, why give that up?

pretty much, hell I would love a quality woman to build with and I'm Mr. Get married brehs, but what's out there

like 95% of women seem to fall in the category of hypocrites, wishy washers, liars, multidaters, attention whores, manipulators, individuals with no self control over their impulses and people seeking casual hookups.
 

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pretty much, hell I would love a quality woman to build with and I'm Mr. Get married brehs, but what's out there

like 95% of women seem to fall in the category of hypocrites, wishy washers, liars, multidaters, attention whores, manipulators, individuals with no self control over their impulses and people seeking casual hookups.

Most dudes here WANT to get married, but they realize that most of these women aren't marriage material. Then you got the simps who reinforce that virulent feminist mentality, so they never learn what makes a woman marriage material. If you dudes got a woman that cooks, cleans, is consistent and stable, you'd be out of your mind to give it up for these hoes. After you bang a couple of them a few times, then what? They'll be nowhere to be found and you'll have to deal with all these flaky, wishy washy women in which you never know what's next.
 

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Here's something for you young dudes to keep in mind. You cannot EARN a woman's loyalty, and don't be the corny dude always trying to do 'what women like'. If you catch yourself doing something because 'that's what women like', I suggest you change your mentality RIGHT NOW.

How many stories have we heard of dudes paying for a woman's schooling, letting her stay rent free, etc., etc., but as soon as she found a dude more entertaining or who she thought looked better, she was out the door with no remorse? Stop giving these broads freebies. If you can't sell a woman with just your personality or presence alone, let her sorry butt go. Ya'll be getting in so much trouble because you try to cheat the game by offering benefits packages. Some broad isn't particularly excited by your presence, so you try to compensate by offering to spend money on her or by pulling some stunts like showing off jewelry or getting a new car. Any woman you catch like that won't be around long.

Back to the loyalty point. Stop going all out for these broads. They don't appreciate none of it. If you're going to do something for a woman, go splurge on your mom, grandmom or sister... you know, women who actually care about you. You can take a broad in, pay for her schooling, pay for all her bills, but that won't make her loyal to you, so stop doing it. If you can't get a woman based off of who YOU are and not what you have, keep it pushing.
 

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Here's something for you young dudes to keep in mind. You cannot EARN a woman's loyalty, and don't be the corny dude always trying to do 'what women like'. If you catch yourself doing something because 'that's what women like', I suggest you change your mentality RIGHT NOW.

How many stories have we heard of dudes paying for a woman's schooling, letting her stay rent free, etc., etc., but as soon as she found a dude more entertaining or who she thought looked better, she was out the door with no remorse? Stop giving these broads freebies. If you can't sell a woman with just your personality or presence alone, let her sorry butt go. Ya'll be getting in so much trouble because you try to cheat the game by offering benefits packages. Some broad isn't particularly excited by your presence, so you try to compensate by offering to spend money on her or by pulling some stunts like showing off jewelry or getting a new car. Any woman you catch like that won't be around long.

Back to the loyalty point. Stop going all out for these broads. They don't appreciate none of it. If you're going to do something for a woman, go splurge on your mom, grandmom or sister... you know, women who actually care about you. You can take a broad in, pay for her schooling, pay for all her bills, but that won't make her loyal to you, so stop doing it. If you can't get a woman based off of who YOU are and not what you have, keep it pushing.


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A woman that likes you for you , you don't have to do anything.

It's like when say lebron james/carmelo/bosh etc. were free agents this year all these teams were courting him, clearing cap, offering the world left and right they got the free trips, the tours around the facilities etc. but they already knew where they were going. Miami, knicks and cavs didn't have to do anything.

It's the same with women, if they like you, you don't have to do anything, all that courting and spending money, free trips handing over your wallet may just keep them around for a little while but they will follow their heart and go where there heart desires.
 

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To call this weak ass fool a simp would be a terrible insult to simps everywhere. I mean, this is just beyond unbelievable. :heh:
 
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Sounds like she's not gonna be over her ex for awhile. The key thing for me there is asking yourself whether or not fukking her is getting in the way of you finding someone else that's good for you. If you can pursue that and still fukk her in the meantime, do that. If fukking her is getting you messed up in feelings for this girl who's obviously not ready for what you seem to want right now, maybe cut it off and pursue somethin else for awhile..

Fwbs never work because one person is bound to catch feelings


If you can just maintain smashing her without any emotional connection then continue but it seems you can't I'd cut my losses before you end up in a world of pain. There's tons of women everywhere, why waste your time on one who is still in a bond with an ex

I can. She's not my girl, and she even encourages me to fukk other bytches. My feelings aren't getting in the way, I just want to remain focused.
 
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