Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

I had a eureka moment last night. The reason we men have problems with women, atleast for me, is that we take women too serious when we shouldn't. There are things in life we are meant to be serious about like education, career, health, appearance, etc. Thing is, we tend to carry these same principles/attitudes to women and that is where problems arise. Like, if you have an exam, you obviously gonna worry and study hard with hope that you get a good mark. If we apply this same logic to women and work hard for them, the opposite tends to occur and this is where i think dudes have there problems.

Therefore brehs, start to differentiate your life. Place values, focus and attention onto serious things and do not take women serious in any regard. Unless a woman makes you think otherwise, do not care for or hold them to ANY standard. I garauntee if men in here and elsewhere start to do this, your problems with the opposite sex will begin to become less and less.

Yes, go after women, but shift your mindset. Be nonchalant and indifferent with them (not entirely or else you'll lose the girl) and add a hint of aggressiveness and everything should fall into place.

a girl doesn't text you back or takes forever to text back? You'll laugh and be like and when she hits u up you'll be like, i texted her?


VERSUS


this girl acts interested in person, but takes forever to respond? why?

SHIFT YOUR MINDSETS BREH'S.

 

[Brandeezy]

DL'd Tinder after 3 months w/o it then deleted it 30 mins after lol

shyt is wack af

 

[Redguard]

DL'd Tinder after 3 months w/o it then deleted it 30 mins after lol

shyt is wack af

I deleted it after I saw one of my female co-workers on it. She is supposedly married or in a relationship and she has a kid by that dude.

 

[MikelArteta]

DL'd Tinder after 3 months w/o it then deleted it 30 mins after lol

shyt is wack af

tinder had a nice run when it wasnt popular now ieveryone is on it it sucks

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Reincar that milk analogy was on point goods way of breaking it down

 

[The Mad Titan]

The thing to me as a man get to the point where you can pick up the signs.

If a woman pulls back I pull back, if she gives me attention I'll give her hers. If she's not interested in me I won't be interested in her.

If she puts time and effort into me I'll put time and effort into her.

Dudes get into trouble when they give leeway, to afraid to read the signs and continue to be that ugh he's texting me again type breh.


I treat women like a jug of milk, if she gets sour on me I just dispose and when I feel like it head to the supermarket and pick up a new one.

I don't need to stock my fridge with a bunch of jugs just in case

Pretty much

 

[The Mad Titan]

I see alot of dudes in here making this mistake... One thing I want to put yall up on is that no matter how much attention you give a woman, it will never be enough. New attention, and attention from peers or strangers will trump a life time of dedication from there man.

Do not get out in this game and think "I found someone different" your girl can tell you till she's blue in the face that she doesn't want nor like attention, until she starts getting it. Its like a high, and they want it until the crash.


So don't get out here and go all out for these chicks, its not smart. Especially early on, because the moment something starts to catches there attention and returns the interest that's what they are going to focus on until it doesn't anymore.






Pay attention to these chicks, nikka's and females would have you think you are being some crazy stalker or sensitive nikka for doing that. Nah your just being smart.

 

[MikelArteta]

I see alot of dudes in here making this mistake... One thing I want to put yall up on is that no matter how much attention you give a woman, it will never be enough. New attention, and attention from peers or strangers will trump a life time of dedication from there man.

Do not get out in this game and think "I found someone different" your girl can tell you till she's blue in the face that she doesn't want nor like attention, until she starts getting it. Its like a high, and they want it until the crash.


So don't get out here and go all out for these chicks, its not smart. Especially early on, because the moment something starts to catches there attention and returns the interest that's what they are going to focus on until it doesn't anymore.






Pay attention to these chicks, nikka's and females would have you think you are being some crazy stalker or sensitive nikka for doing that. Nah your just being smart.

I agree however there are always a few women who are not like that.

key is those are rare as hell

I'm talking about chicks that aren't on social media, in the club, out at bars
rare as hell though

 

[jeh]

I agree however there are always a few women who are not like that.

key is those are rare as hell

I'm talking about chicks that aren't on social media, in the club, out at bars
rare as hell though

Its all abput that influence. Outside sometimes influence csn turn a good girl into a bad girl. Media, friends, co workers, family, classmates associate. All play a part in our lives. Rather major or minor. Or for the positive or negative.

 

[bl2k8]

If ya nikkas got a place of your own, be fukking grateful

I feel so handcuffed

:longforman:

Explain

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Influence means a lot.I knew a woman who didn't wear weave or watch any bit of tv.Well she started hanging around women that's watched Scadal,reality shows and guess what?The good girl turned bad.

 

[Grams]

I agree however there are always a few women who are not like that.

key is those are rare as hell

I'm talking about chicks that aren't on social media, in the club, out at bars
rare as hell though

I met a girl like that but I hesitated on asking for her number until it was too late and she has no social media so I can't even find her again. She's a ghost

I can write a book on all my bottlings

Explain

I was at a party and had two different girls on me but I couldn't bring either of them back with me cuz I commute from home and my parents were posted like statues. I couldn't go back to either of their places cuz some bs about roommattes for one of the girls and another girl couldn't sign me in and that so I was in between a rock and hard place if you know what I mean pause. When I meet girls in class or wherever and I'm tryna make that move, depending on going to their place is a no-no. When have you seen a nikka coming back from a "walk of shame"? The girl always goes to the guy's place. Girls have also told me they don't wanna bring guys back cuz they don't wanna seem like sluts and that

 

[Kenny West]

I had a eureka moment last night. The reason we men have problems with women, atleast for me, is that we take women too serious when we shouldn't. There are things in life we are meant to be serious about like education, career, health, appearance, etc. Thing is, we tend to carry these same principles/attitudes to women and that is where problems arise. Like, if you have an exam, you obviously gonna worry and study hard with hope that you get a good mark. If we apply this same logic to women and work hard for them, the opposite tends to occur and this is where i think dudes have there problems.

Therefore brehs, start to differentiate your life. Place values, focus and attention onto serious things and do not take women serious in any regard. Unless a woman makes you think otherwise, do not care for or hold them to ANY standard. I garauntee if men in here and elsewhere start to do this, your problems with the opposite sex will begin to become less and less.

Yes, go after women, but shift your mindset. Be nonchalant and indifferent with them (not entirely or else you'll lose the girl) and add a hint of aggressiveness and everything should fall into place.

a girl doesn't text you back or takes forever to text back? You'll laugh and be like and when she hits u up you'll be like, i texted her?


VERSUS


this girl acts interested in person, but takes forever to respond? why?

SHIFT YOUR MINDSETS BREH'S.

Real. I had made that shift in mindset after from this old Napoleon quote

"Women are the occupation of the idle mind and the relaxation of the warrior"

 

[Mr210]

Anyone going to be about that dink life...which is have a s/o so that you have a double income....but no kids so you have more money for vacations...and splurging

 

[MikelArteta]

I met a girl like that but I hesitated on asking for her number until it was too late and she has no social media so I can't even find her again. She's a ghost

I can write a book on all my bottlings


I was at a party and had two different girls on me but I couldn't bring either of them back with me cuz I commute from home and my parents were posted like statues. I couldn't go back to either of their places cuz some bs about roommattes for one of the girls and another girl couldn't sign me in and that so I was in between a rock and hard place if you know what I mean pause. When I meet girls in class or wherever and I'm tryna make that move, depending on going to their place is a no-no. When have you seen a nikka coming back from a "walk of shame"? The girl always goes to the guy's place. Girls have also told me they don't wanna bring guys back cuz they don't wanna seem like sluts and that

a girl without a social media account is :wow