Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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The old rope a dope trick have you thinking your special because she only sleeps with boyfriends :heh:

Women love to stroke the male ego

Exactly. if a broad tells you immediately she ain't doing this or that, she IS doing that. She's on a dating site basically known for hooking up. She sends him nudes without really knowing him, and then tells him, "I don't do that." Told him she deleted her profile and put it right back up, but she's a sweet woman to wife up? Women know who they can run game on.
 

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Things get 10,000 times easier when you learn to abide by the rules. Focus on YOUR business and deal with women who want to deal with you and never get attached to too many women

Things get complicated when dudes be trying to escape the rules. They stay trying to make special exceptions and keep around that woman who is showing obvious signs of doing wrong or not being interested. I think a lot of it is because some of the dudes here are young so they have to see first-hand. They have to go through it first to really understand it.

A lot of it really comes down to dealing with your emotions so that you aren't making bad decisions. All of us will have emotions, but you can't allow them to affect you to such an extent where you're constantly getting played.
 

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I've been that breh before, thinking what you have is special, you don't know her like I do man, the sparks, the chemistry, :heh:

i've dealt with enough women in my life and been in every situation imaginable to weed out the bs, clinging to the cliff of hope not I

He knows that girl barely six month but in that time he:

- moved in with her
- started working in her dads Company
- completely disappeared, hanging out only with her and her friends
- cut his dreads
- started to dress differently
- became a vegan
- and just to ensure an L of epic propportions, he agreed to get a baby

Now as far as the redflags go, she:
- lived with her boyfriend at the time they met and unceremoniously dumped the guy for my breh overnight.
- she did the exact same thing with about every boyfriend she had
- she has only one female friend, who is a former slut, now single mom
- the only other friends she has are ex boyfriends and the simps that her single mom friend keeps in her stable
- she goes around trying to sabotage his friends relationships

The L he is setting himself up for is going to be humongeous, but we don't understand.
 

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:wow:

Also reminds me what I said previously watch the way a female leaves a relationship they will do it time and time again

He knows that girl barely six month but in that time he:

- moved in with her
- started working in her dads Company
- completely disappeared, hanging out only with her and her friends
- cut his dreads
- started to dress differently
- became a vegan
- and just to ensure an L of epic propportions, he agreed to get a baby

Now as far as the redflags go, she:
- lived with her boyfriend at the time they met and unceremoniously dumped the guy for my breh overnight.
- she did the exact same thing with about every boyfriend she had
- she has only one female friend, who is a former slut, now single mom
- the only other friends she has are ex boyfriends and the simps that her single mom friend keeps in her stable
- she goes around trying to sabotage his friends relationships

The L he is setting himself up for is going to be humongeous, but we don't understand.
 

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I’ve been exploring this feeling of loneliness, and I recommend that exploration for others who feel alone sometimes (or much of the time). It’s enlightening.

We run from the feeling of loneliness and try to fill the emptiness with comfort, and that’s a very human thing to do. We want comfort, and we don’t want to confront the distressing feelings we might have.

But try turning toward these bad feelings. There’s a lot to be learned there. Opening yourself up to the feeling of loneliness, allowing yourself to really feel it and see it … this is where growth can happen. This is where you can learn about yourself, and what it’s like to feel pain, and how to cope with it.

Turn inward and feel the pain. Where is it in your body? What kind of sensation is it? What is the quality of this sensation, the intensity of it, and does it change? Be curious about it. I’ve found that it isn’t as bad as I think, once I allow myself to look at it.

Turn inward and see what else is there: a sense of curiosity, a sense of wanting intimacy, a desire to be a good person, a better person, a sense of being flawed. See everything that’s there, really look.

And what you see is the divine. You are filled with wonder.

This cannot be seen when we are with others and our lives are filled with busy-ness and noise and distraction. This can only be seen when we are alone, and there is space to notice, and we allow ourselves to look.

Once you learn to appreciate the wonder inside of you, and find that you are enough, as you are, and that there is happiness right where you are … then you can be OK with being alone. And be much more content alone, or with others.

:blessed:
 

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you know hes going to read over this, know its right, know its right in his gut but disregard it


Lol, we've all been there in our younger days. We all want it to be that "exceptional situation". We go thru it, get burned, feel dumb for a while, then realize we should have listened to other's advice, then realize our situation wasn't unique at all....understand the game then are able to move on and spot the signs in the future.
 

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Lol, we've all been there in our younger days. We all want it to be that "exceptional situation". We go thru it, get burned, feel dumb for a while, then realize we should have listened to other's advice, then realize our situation wasn't unique at all....understand the game then are able to move on and spot the signs in the future.
lol i think dude just wants some p*ssy and feels he has nothing to lose. and the truth is that he doesnt :yeshrug:
 

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although i feel like what kind of repsonses i'll get back for writing this but i've been talking to a girl for a couple of weeks now we met on pof due to the fact she didn't like the dudes on there she deleted hers and gave me her number(no girl has ever deleted her pof for me before and i didn't tell her to). During those few days i was getting to know her and she ended up sending nudes because she was in the mood i told her she needed to take advantage of that she told she can't have sex with a dude she's not in relationship with. Last week we had a good week but saturday me and her set up plans to see each other yesterday so yesterday morning before i was gettting ready for work i was talking to her and she wasn't in the best mood for some reason and she left to go to work she got off at 4 i got off at 7 i told her we could hang out after i got off work she didn't even text me back once she got off so i just left it alone she's hits me up with "thanks for standing me up. i'm sorry i bothered you". I told her that did she not forget what time i got off she tells me how was she supposed to know i was off when i got off after her she texted me that message at 830 and she said she waited maybe like an hour later i get on pof and she puts her account back up she tries to blow me out the water with the fact i still have mine she told me she deleted hers(as of this morning she still has it up). And i told her i would delete it once we made things official between us she treated it as a backup plan. So if any brehs have any opinion on this i'd like to hear it because i think its in terms of interest level on this one and if she was interested she wouldn't have forgot about what time i got off.
believe the word of random pof broads brehs.
 

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leave girls that are down for you brehs :mjcry:

the trade-off is real, everything was all good

..but i couldnt look pass the aesthetics, deep in my gut i know im not wrong.
 
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