Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

i think i already touched on this but i'll go in more details.

once a chick has put you in a certain category or cast you in a certain role, it's a wrap. if you don't like that role you're fukked. the reason is that if you've already set a precedent and established an identity, and then all of a sudden you act out of character, then she'll perceive you as a fake and inconsistent. now if the girl is a random bird then it no biggie of course. i'm talking more about a quality chick that you actually want in your life.

there is however one way to get out of that role. the way is to cut her off and then if you cross paths with her again, you have a new opportunity to establish a new "identity". the reason is, after a while, she will figure that you lived life and the person you were is "dead". it's like she's meeting you for the first time eventhough you guys "know" eachother. how much time? it really depends. there is no set time. it all depends on her perception of time. but in the meantime, focus on building yourself, meeting new people, move on from her, etc. cause it would be a shame if you try that shyt and cut her off for a year and then when you meet her again by chance, she still puts you in the simp category.

work on yourself (physically, health wise, financially, mentally, intellectually, spiritually) establish a code, live and die by said code, and let the chips fall where they may.

 

[Prodigital]

Simple gem here brehs

If the girl wants to argue you into the ground about something you're tired of, don't give up ground, just tell her your done talking about it and be done talking about it. Being that you made a valid point at some point, don't waste time arguing over and over about something just for the sake of wanting to feel vindicated... Women hate to vindicate a man even when he's right, don't let the argument get to your head

Edit* Its important to let ya girl know that she can't dictate you with words. Gather your point into one ball, shoot it at her, then cease fire. Seen nikkas fukk them self over trying to out argue illogical irrational women

 

[malbaker86]

A lot of men I was once one of them have that white knight syndrome let me rebuild this girl show her not all men are bad out there

Don't do it

Put yourself first you don't need the stress you dot need to be her therapist.

I agree bruh, these nikkas better not fall into that trap. If she don't see that you're the better option from the jump, keep it moving.

I remember it was late 05 early 2006 and I was the typical “lean on my shoulder” guy for a female friend of mine I was feeling. She was dealing w/a no good guy and I would be the one she’d come to complaining about him and like an idiot, I sat there through it all. I didn’t throw game at her, but just be there plotting on how I would get at her. Then I realized…let me fall back and see how this plays out. I stopped being so dependable for her to hit up, stopped all that hanging out, and then I moved on and started doing my thing while her and him went through whatever and then fizzled out. Around the time she wanted to get serious w/me, I was like “nah, we just better off as friends”. Best decision I made during that year of 2006.

 

[MikelArteta]

I agree bruh, these nikkas better not fall into that trap. If she don't see that you're the better option from the jump, keep it moving.

I remember it was late 05 early 2006 and I was the typical “lean on my shoulder” guy for a female friend of mine I was feeling. She was dealing w/a no good guy and I would be the one she’d come to complaining about him and like an idiot, I sat there through it all. I didn’t throw game at her, but just be there plotting on how I would get at her. Then I realized…let me fall back and see how this plays out. I stopped being so dependable for her to hit up, stopped all that hanging out, and then I moved on and started doing my thing while her and him went through whatever and then fizzled out. Around the time she wanted to get serious w/me, I was like “nah, we just better off as friends”. Best decision I made during that year of 2006.

that's the best decision, when you finally move on and get with someone new they hate it because they can honestly see you were a good guy but its to late for that now

 

[winb83]

Simple gem here brehs

If the girl wants to argue you into the ground about something you're tired of, don't give up ground, just tell her your done talking about it and be done talking about it. Being that you made a valid point at some point, don't waste time arguing over and over about something just for the sake of wanting to feel vindicated... Women hate to vindicate a man even when he's right, don't let the argument get to your head

Edit* Its important to let ya girl know that she can't dictate you with words. Gather your point into one ball, shoot it at her, then cease fire. Seen nikkas fukk them self over trying to out argue illogical irrational women

you can't win an argument with a woman because men tend to argue off logic women off feelings and emotions. emotions and feelings won't concede to logic hence you can be 100% right and she doesn't care she still feels right.

 

[Shameonyou]

Be a man in demand....show these bytches that you have something other bytches want

 

[Shameonyou]

Do the EXACT opposite of everything you have done up to that point.

If your mind says, "Call her," DO NOT.
If your mind says, "Tell her how you feel, DO NOT.
If your mind says, "Give her one more chance," DO NOT!

 

[Atlrocafella]

As much a women don't like broke nikkaz, nikkaz need to stop fukking with broke women..

 

[twan83]

Just cuz she a dime with a phat ass and big t*ts doesnt mean you need to wife her

 

[Ohene]

Just cuz she a dime with a phat ass and big t*ts doesnt mean you need to wife her

Simple...yet such a true piece of knowledge

 

[Nintendough]

Stop being afraid of inconvenient information. There are times when we end up finding out that things aren't what we thought they were.

 

[MikelArteta]

Do the EXACT opposite of everything you have done up to that point.

If your mind says, "Call her," DO NOT.
If your mind says, "Tell her how you feel, DO NOT.
If your mind says, "Give her one more chance," DO NOT!

Yep
This is how you get rid of being that nice guy

Should I buy her flowers
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[Doin2Much Williams]

Yep
This is how you get rid of being that nice guy

Should I buy her flowers
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EXACTLY FELLAS!

You let the guys who stay steady simping/executing go after her.

To make yourself stand out... when you DO finally hang out with girl - MAKE THAT MOTHAFUKKA COUNT! Then, do like a recliner chair - and fall back.

Give it some time. If you came off on a good note, odds are, she feeling you but wants to take it slow to see if you deem her WORTH IT!

I'm doing this as i type to that same gal i met on july 4th. She's a hardworking, got her own place/whip, top level senior manager at a global company - she got hers (i have nothing to offer but slanging my thangin and a fun personality; seems like that's all women want - early on. I may be doomed later but oh well, that's another topic).

Thirstyness over a stretched amount of time is WAAAAYYYY worse than being assertive early on (if she feeling you - pound and strike while iron is hot). If she's being lackadaisical - don't be too aggressive (fukk, i need to take my own advice because i may be losing this dime i met in Portland - then again, she lives 3 hours away and told boo to hit me up when she comes to Seattle, pardon the digression).

In gist; not giving her too much attention/reverting is the strongest method to attracting a woman because it begins to play with their psyches. It's the cat n string theory; you let the ball of yarn loose, but you retract it as soon as you think she is about to grasp it. Keep doing it and it'll keep her intrigued/continuing to vie for your attention in the process. Works like a gawtdamn charmed.

You just have to be patient. Realize that YOU ain't the only mothafukka she messing with (come off as tho you have multiple things going in your life. I got a 9-5, gym, flag football, recreational/social events, my dj'ing - i'm occupied as hell, but even when i have time for a lady, i just tell her how backed up my calendar is and when i'm free, can pencil her in my e-rolodex).

What i do like about women who don't jump into dating you so heavy off the bat is that it keeps things interesting. The chase for BOTH parties is beneficial in that in that she is going to want you and v.v.

When you two do ultimately meet up, you feel as though the payoff and patience was worf it.

Keep the jump offs around cuz you gon' need to beat to keep your sanity (and game fresh with ego in check - it's very necessary. If you see her after a long stretch of not dealing wif womans, she can smell the nervousness from a mile away and odds are, she ain't gon think its cute. Even if you have to fake it til you make it... put on the facade of exuberance and swag/secks appeal).

When youre conversing; challenge her. Educate her. Intrigue her. Mystify her. Entertain her. Tell her stories/concepts/dreams that she's NEVER heard before.

Make YOU the object of HER desire.

Every woman wants to be led. But ironically, she doesn't want to be chased to no end feeling that way.

Be strong but indifferent.

Be assertive and never thirsty.

Exude charm and convey class.


But most of all... be the lion who's natural aura emits strength, confidence and the cajones to control any situation at any given time.


And that my friends... is the essence of a man.


.

 

[Mickey Kane]

EXACTLY FELLAS!

You let the guys who stay steady simping/executing go after her.

To make yourself stand out... when you DO finally hang out with girl - MAKE THAT MOTHAFUKKA COUNT! Then, do like a recliner chair - and fall back.

Give it some time. If you came off on a good note, odds are, she feeling you but wants to take it slow to see if you deem her WORTH IT!

I'm doing this as i type to that same gal i met on july 4th. She's a hardworking, got her own place/whip, top level senior manager at a global company - she got hers (i have nothing to offer but slanging my thangin and a fun personality; seems like that's all women want - early on. I may be doomed later but oh well, that's another topic).

Thirstyness over a stretched amount of time is WAAAAYYYY worse than being assertive early on (if she feeling you - pound and strike while iron is hot). If she's being lackadaisical - don't be too aggressive (fukk, i need to take my own advice because i may be losing this dime i met in Portland - then again, she lives 3 hours away and told boo to hit me up when she comes to Seattle, pardon the digression).

In gist; not giving her too much attention/reverting is the strongest method to attracting a woman because it begins to play with their psyches. It's the cat n string theory; you let the ball of yarn loose, but you retract it as soon as you think she is about to grasp it. Keep doing it and it'll keep her intrigued/continuing to vie for your attention in the process. Works like a gawtdamn charmed.

You just have to be patient. Realize that YOU ain't the only mothafukka she messing with (come off as tho you have multiple things going in your life. I got a 9-5, gym, flag football, recreational/social events, my dj'ing - i'm occupied as hell, but even when i have time for a lady, i just tell her how backed up my calendar is and when i'm free, can pencil her in my e-rolodex).

What i do like about women who don't jump into dating you so heavy off the bat is that it keeps things interesting. The chase for BOTH parties is beneficial in that in that she is going to want you and v.v.

When you two do ultimately meet up, you feel as though the payoff and patience was worf it.

Keep the jump offs around cuz you gon' need to beat to keep your sanity (and game fresh with ego in check - it's very necessary. If you see her after a long stretch of not dealing wif womans, she can smell the nervousness from a mile away and odds are, she ain't gon think its cute. Even if you have to fake it til you make it... put on the facade of exuberance and swag/secks appeal).

When youre conversing; challenge her. Educate her. Intrigue her. Mystify her. Entertain her. Tell her stories/concepts/dreams that she's NEVER heard before.

Make YOU the object of HER desire.

Every woman wants to be led. But ironically, she doesn't want to be chased to no end feeling that way.

Be strong but indifferent.

Be assertive and never thirsty.

Exude charm and convey class.


But most of all... be the lion who's natural aura emits strength, confidence and the cajones to control any situation at any given time.


And that my friends... is the essence of a man.


.

 

[Prodigital]

@Howie, you crushed the building breh

Another gem, stay active. Let her know, at least for the moment, there are other more important things in your life than caking with her 24 7.. Even tho we as men have to chase, you can't keep a woman until the roles reversed and she's chasing you. Plus women love a busy man, makes him seemingly more important / desirable.

Mannn, this thread could be a fukking book. Cats could really eat off this shyt