Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ProfessionallyTrill]

I'm in a weird but great spot because the women my age are looking for husbands but I'm not ready to settle down. Shiit, I have a 2 year old.

I'm sure if I end up with a life partner, she will be wayyy younger. Women my age wont be able to keep up with me.

 

[kevm3]

You guys why do chicks get on social media and joke about the fact that they can't cook, party a lot and most of all they brag about being crazy?

But at the same time they belittle us guys for not wanting to wife them.

My IG and Twitter be having me like

wasnt you just talking about how crazy you are now you saying men ain't shyt?

Because low standard men will laugh it off and be like ' girl you so crazy.' Thirst hounds will do anything to get a woman's attention.

 

[Easy-E]

I don't want to get married...ever.

Thank you for having me, fellas.

Spoiler

Random thought I wanted to share. And not a response to anyone, in this thread.

 

[MikelArteta]

What changed

I don't want to get married...ever.

Thank you for having me, fellas.

Spoiler

Random thought I wanted to share. And not a response to anyone, in this thread.

 

[MikelArteta]

Just read some funny quotes about old

Online dating is like being Ryan gosling and fighting over Roseanne barr with 30 other guys.

Online dating is like having a Harvard degree and struggling to get a job flipping burgers

 

[Ohene]

Just read some funny quotes about old

Online dating is like being Ryan gosling and fighting over Roseanne barr with 30 other guys.

Online dating is like having a Harvard degree and struggling to get a job flipping burgers

meh....

dudes who are really on that upper level dont really have to partake in online dating though.

ive personally never used it. not even tinder

 

[MikelArteta]

I've used it for fun never sent the first msg though

I had a decent run on tinder before I retires

meh....

dudes who are really on that upper level dont really have to partake in online dating though.

ive personally never used it. not even tinder

 

[Easy-E]

What changed

I'm actually doin' more life planning and it just don't "fit," anymore.

Nothing, but having kids (within wedlock), matches with me having a wife.

My father (divorced when I was 11) even told me that he wouldn't suggest I get married or have kids. He's always been critical of women, but, thought he'd atleast challenge me to change that status quo.

I'm starting feel; yea, I'll be "50 and by myself," but, better that than "divorced, 50, paying alimony/child/spousal support and by myself."

Granted I haven't met a woman to force me to contemplate it. So, I can't make plans for a prospect that doesn't exist. But, as of now; I'm planning to die never being married.

I could go in. But, I'll leave it at; gettin' older and having to realistically make plans about my 30's.

And it's hard to plan a fantasy.

 

[MikelArteta]

l be 30 this year

I've already wrote about how I even feel like dating,


I mean there is a part of me that wouldn't mind being married to a great woman and a little gremlin that looks like me. But I've yet to come across a woman I can trust.

Relationships require on-going communication, follow-up action to back-up promises made, a lot of trust, commitment and a desire to be together.

I can do that but few women can

Its sad maybe I'm messed up but it still is exceedingly hard for me to truly believe in the whole "always and forever" thing.

Now I go into a relationship expecting an expiry date, and unfortunately I have been proven right every single time. Where before I would have fought and tried to change to keep the girl from walking out the door, now I offer to hold it open for them


When I think about marriage/serious relationship its basically like homeland When Brody manipulat d Waldens pacifer and killed him

I'm actually doin' more life planning and it just don't "fit," anymore.

Nothing, but having kids (within wedlock), matches with me having a wife.

My father (divorced when I was 11) even told me that he wouldn't suggest I get married or have kids. He's always been critical of women, but, thought he'd atleast challenge me to change that status quo.

I'm starting feel; yea, I'll be "50 and by myself," but, better that than "divorced, 50, paying alimony/child/spousal support and by myself."

Granted I haven't met a woman to force me to contemplate it. So, I can't make plans for a prospect that doesn't exist. But, as of now; I'm planning to die never being married.

I could go in. But, I'll leave it at; gettin' older and having to realistically make plans about my 30's.

And it's hard to plan a fantasy.

 

[Easy-E]

l be 30 this year

I've already wrote about how I even feel like dating,


I mean there is a part of me that wouldn't mind being married to a great woman and a little gremlin that looks like me. But I've yet to come across a woman I can trust.

Relationships require on-going communication, follow-up action to back-up promises made, a lot of trust, commitment and a desire to be together.

I can do that but few women can

Its sad maybe I'm messed up but it still is exceedingly hard for me to truly believe in the whole "always and forever" thing.

Now I go into a relationship expecting an expiry date, and unfortunately I have been proven right every single time. Where before I would have fought and tried to change to keep the girl from walking out the door, now I offer to hold it open for them


When I think about marriage/serious relationship its basically like homeland When Brody manipulat d Waldens pacifer and killed him

1. I feel like I have to marry a black woman. She doesn't have to be American, but, I want to bring a black baby into the world. But, we know how that can be. And it limits my "pool."
   
2. My biggest issue--the stuff you pine about all the time--is the culture men and women are cultivated in modern times. It's just not conducive to "until death do us part." We try our best to use sex as the glue that keeps it together (see you gotta_____in the bedroom to keep your man/woman), but, we know that gets old because ppl still splitting.
3. I'm right at 25 and that's were people get set in their ways and jaded. Yea, there's a bunch of single women in ATL. But, how many of them are battle worn after trying to chase the same man along with 10 other women?

I know I need to step my game up. But, I'm not gonna grow into the principles that I believe I need to get deeper in (my spirituality, my talent as an artist, my finances) only to "have to" change because a woman feels my life's work should be her happiness.

Plus dealing with in-laws, extended family, goofy/nosy friends, her baggage (social, mental and financial).

Like another breh said in the "Why are you single thread?" I'm gonna need a woman to chase and cling to me and pitch a great sell before I think about marriage---geez, it's a lot.

I say all that knowing I have to be the "chaser" (not "chase-ee) and learn to create a screening process.

All in all; I'm no longer looking. If the woman "comes into my life," she'll have to be a good one to even begin to have me thinking that way.

 

[Fatboi1]

This one is practically worrying about me

This one i ended up talking to her for 3 hours on Skype and this is after i tell her im going to sleep. English pretty good and her personality is cool. She's attractive too

I don't even go out my way to talk to them. They just hit me up.

 

[MikelArteta]

You still have tour innocence though I wish I had mine


Sometimes the road of life goes well then triggers happen like a old War vet and its like being in a relationship I'll always be looking over my shoulder wondering , having reminders of deceit dishonesty and cheating.


And it might be a messed up tjjnf to say that's why I need a good woman who was raked across the coals to understand me.

1. I feel like I have to marry a black woman. She doesn't have to be American, but, I want to bring a black baby into the world. But, we know how that can be. And it limits my "pool."
   
2. My biggest issue--the stuff you pine about all the time--is the culture men and women are cultivated in modern times. It's just not conducive to "until death do us part." We try our best to use sex as the glue that keeps it together (see you gotta_____in the bedroom to keep your man/woman), but, we know that gets old because ppl still splitting.
3. I'm right at 25 and that's were people get set in their ways and jaded. Yea, there's a bunch of single women in ATL. But, how many of them are battle worn after trying to chase the same man along with 10 other women?

I know I need to step my game up. But, I'm not gonna grow into the principles that I believe I need to get deeper in (my spirituality, my talent as an artist, my finances) only to "have to" change because a woman feels my life's work should be her happiness.

Plus dealing with in-laws, extended family, goofy/nosy friends, her baggage (social, mental and financial).

Like another breh said in the "Why are you single thread?" I'm gonna need a woman to chase and cling to me and pitch a great sell before I think about marriage---geez, it's a lot.

I say all that knowing I have to be the "chaser" (not "chase-ee) and learn to create a screening process.

All in all; I'm no longer looking. If the woman "comes into my life," she'll have to be a good one to even begin to have me thinking that way.

 

[Grams]

Brehs how do you differentiate between a girl that's shy and a girl that wants no parts of you

 

[Ohene]

This one is practically worrying about me

This one i ended up talking to her for 3 hours on Skype and this is after i tell her im going to sleep. English pretty good and her personality is cool. She's attractive too

I don't even go out my way to talk to them. They just hit me up.

full body pics of both

 

[Ohene]

Brehs how do you differentiate between a girl that's shy and a girl that wants no parts of you

by trying to making plans with her