Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Dilema brehs. I know if a woman says she busy you immediatly cut her off

Met this 20 year old chick on New years eve, she wont return my texts, but she will call back if she misses my calls. On the phone convo flows effortlessly for like 40-45 mins. Or if she cant talk, she will text that she is busy. I asked her out, she like it will have to be in February because she got 4 deadlines in January, she is currently in college.Whats your take? Is she worth pursuing?

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if a woman is into you no matter how "busy" she is she would make time for you, more than likely there is another dude in the picture whose a priority and your just the emotional tampon option

Just look you are the only person initiation, women wont flat out tell you to leave them alone, they use subtle hints the gray area,

what do i alwas tell people if your writing paragraphs and unsure and you never even been out on a date, you never even kissed, had sex to EJECT

delete the number and get on with life

 

[MikelArteta]

Nah she doesnt, her bff told me she single. Her bff encouraged me to go for her. Im sure she talking to more guys tho. Thats expected in dating 2015

women will tell you whatever you want to hear

 

[International Playa]

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and all other strikes

if a woman is into you no matter how "busy" she is she would make time for you, more than likely there is another dude in the picture whose a priority and your just the emotional tampon option

Just look you are the only person initiation, women wont flat out tell you to leave them alone, they use subtle hints the gray area,

what do i alwas tell people if your writing paragraphs and unsure and you never even been out on a date, you never even kissed, had sex to EJECT

delete the number and get on with life

Cool, got the point, thanks for the advice.

 

[MikelArteta]

Cool, got the point, thanks for the advice.

its hard breh trust me we've all been there, you'll see it when a woman is totally into you nothing else matters.

in your gut you know but we all try to rationalize maybe she really is busy, maybe school, this and that it takes 2 seconds to send a text, 24 hours in a day she can easily meet up if she wants to

People always have time for people they view as value.

 

[Fatboi1]

Dilema brehs. I know if a woman says she busy you immediatly cut her off

Met this 20 year old chick on New years eve, she wont return my texts, but she will call back if she misses my calls. On the phone convo flows effortlessly for like 40-45 mins. Or if she cant talk, she will text that she is busy. I asked her out, she like it will have to be in February because she got 4 deadlines in January, she is currently in college.Whats your take? Is she worth pursuing?

Bullshyt.com/cambygetout

Nobody is that busy.

 

[Ohene]

dead it breh. She got 4 deadlines, yet chillin with you would only take 1-2 hours tops in a 24 hour day. Besides, you haven't even gone out yet and she already put up this blockade? You now either need to pre-occupy your time with other women or something else entirely, but this isn't happening. Tell her cool, and go ghost.

don't begin to overanalyze shyt, begin to question shyt, give her the benefit of the doubt (like @Emperor_ReinScarf always said)...just tell her cool, and move on.

Also, don't ever let women dictate how shyt will happen. Ever.

lol...pretty much.

nikkas kill me with that shyt. I went through half my university career working part time (10-20 hrs a week) and still managed to graduate with distinction and get scholarships every now and then. Even experienced working a new full time job during the last two months of my whole university career. Not to mention extracurriculars and partying. I still Never had a problem sending messages/emails to ppl, never had a problem kicking it with homies or girls, never had a problem living life. There are 24 hours in a day...squeezing in time for somebody youre interested in is never that difficult.

 

[MikelArteta]

When your feeling a woman you will believe any bs she sends your way

lol...pretty much.

nikkas kill me with that shyt. I went through half my university career working part time (10-20 hrs a week) and still managed to graduate with distinction and get scholarships every now and then. Even experienced working a new full time job during the last two months of my whole university career. There are 24 hours in a day...squeezing in time for somebody youre interested in is never that difficult.

 

[Ohene]

When your feeling a woman you will believe any bs she sends your way

i dont blame homie. its just a shame how ppl act nowadays. It aint even just women...youll have family members do the same shyt to you breh.

My mom grinds hard as hell, is 63 years old....can barely use an Iphone (she asked me how to use the internet/safari 2 days ago after having the phone for like 2 years already).

But guess what...when I have a question for moms and text her she always replies promptly.

Can we expect a random chick to prioritize us as much as mom? Of course not...but it still puts things into perspective.

 

[MikelArteta]

Women are so caught up with emotions, that spark, tingles, butterflies

All that ish is just novelty and dies fast

Dedication is what's needed to survive

 

[RealAssanova]

Nikkaz in here need to realize, the women of today....the women of 2015 are pure and utter trash. Feminism, media, corporations fukked it all up. Women don't even realize this...and why should they? No nikka is gonna ever say no to a woman and until this stops, which doesn't look likely, shyt will only get worst.

I mean, i cannot even love the woman today the way that i want, because i'll most likely be viewed as boring, safe and therefore probably cheated on. Therefore, i almost always gotta be someone i ain't to get to even get some attention...let alone dates/sex. How fukked up does that sound?

but that is the reality that we live in.

With that being said, brehs, i beg ya'll stop chasing these women. Stop asking questions about situations and shyt and realize the woman you are talking about and women in general in the west are not worth a drop of your resource. Work hard to be the best MAN you can be. SWEAT BREHS. SWEAT Then enjoy your life.

Save money up then book tickets to travel
Save money up and purchase a gym membership
Save money up and open up a business

If you do along the way deal with women, i'd avoid getting into a relationship with them and invest AS LITTLE as possible. Also, do not have any expectations. This is the most important thing more than anything when it comes to dealing with women.

 

[nalej]

I totally get how you shouldn't waste time with a girl that doesn't want to give you their time. However when you meet someone initially like JB for example, you gotta put some effort into it to let the girl have a chance to get to know you. Can't expect every girl to be falling head over heel over you from the jump. Also I don't think you can just stop talking to someone the first couple times they say they are too busy. All of us have been too busy to do something before.

All I'm saying is make you know that is really the case because you make that choice cause you might pass up something that was worth it in the long run.

 

[RealAssanova]

I totally get how you shouldn't waste time with a girl that doesn't want to give you their time. However when you meet someone initially like JB for example, you gotta put some effort into it to let the girl have a chance to get to know you. Also I don't think you can just stop talking to someone the first couple times they say they are too busy. All of us have been too busy to do something before.

All I'm saying is make you know that is really the case because you make that choice.

put effort into what exactly? women?

the minute you do that its over. You put effort into the gym? = muscles; effort in school? = good grades; effort in your business? = profit

You put effort into women and you can get the opposite of the desired outcome that you want and its simply the fact that women cannot be controlled, irrational and not logical. So no, i don't put effort into women/a woman. I am non-chalant about em and quite frankly don't give a fukk about getting to know em' and what not.

 

[nalej]

put effort into what exactly? women?

the minute you do that its over. You put effort into the gym? = muscles; effort in school? = good grades; effort in your business? = profit

You put effort into women and you can get the opposite of the desired outcome that you want and its simply the fact that women cannot be controlled, irrational and not logical. So no, i don't put effort into women/a woman. I am non-chalant about em and quite frankly don't give a fukk about getting to know em' and what not.

Bruh there is a difference between playing it cool and not giving a fukk. So you really expect every girl you meet to just fall over you with you making no effort to engage and get to know you better? Even if you have girls doing that I'm pretty sure that isn't the type of girl you would want something long term with.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I agree with @nalej you need to put in a little bit of effort to get to know someone better but I think the mistakes we all make is when we put too much thought and focus into one girl. She might be the baddest or she might have all these little qualities that you are into but you must talk to other women and always have a plan B or plan C. You can't get caught putting too much effort into one broad because if it doesn't work out it will just haunt you more and you'll ask yourself "why the fukk I waste all that time?"

Like @Emperor_ReinScarf says, most of these women are NOT special. Ain't shyt special about these broads. I had to learn the hard way just like everyone else. There are a lot of good actresses out there. That's why I'll never commit for the long term again unless I'm 100% sure about her.

 

[MikelArteta]

Effort,?

A woman likes you or they don't, the old a woman can tell if she wants you in 20 seconds of meeting you.

You put effort into a woman if she likes you, as in effort in asking her out or to meet up and if she says no then delete and move on.

All that chasing acting like a seal doing tricks, making her jealous playing games is corny.