Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

The only special woman will be the one you marry and sticks by you, everyone else is not special and replaceable.

 

[RealAssanova]

Bruh there is a difference between playing it cool and not giving a fukk. So you really expect every girl you meet to just fall over you with you making no effort to engage and get to know you better? Even if you have girls doing that I'm pretty sure that isn't the type of girl you would want something long term with.

maybe what i wrote was confusing. What i meant to say was, ofcourse i wouldn't mind putting in some work to get the girl, but anything beyond that and she is tossed in the bushes.

 

[RealAssanova]

The only special woman will be the one you marry and sticks by you, everyone else is not special and replaceable.

mom 1st and foremost, sisters...then the woman you marry. But that woman gotta be top grade.

 

[MikelArteta]

I meant outside family.

The way I see it if a chick leaves, cheats, flakes, or I have no feelings for her she's not special

Because there are women on every street corner who will reject you and use you and women I have no feelings for

Only thing "special" is a emotional connection which once killed makes them not special.

Its like seeing a hot girl at the mall you see her and look and eh get on with your day

What's the difference between her and say your girlfriend? Nothing just a emotional connection.

mom 1st and foremost, sisters...then the woman you marry. But that woman gotta be top grade.

 

[MikelArteta]

I need to write about that

Its true breh its true

The a$$hole, drama filled player loser gets loyalty, fidelity , she runs back to him time and time again

The safe stable guy who doesn't play games and is honest and caring is blah this is boring

I'll never change who I am though I just don't throw my pearls before swine anymore


These chicks stay with ray ray for 3 years and in two months you get that I I think we should be friends talk

Nikkaz in here need to realize, the women of today....the women of 2015 are pure and utter trash. Feminism, media, corporations fukked it all up. Women don't even realize this...and why should they? No nikka is gonna ever say no to a woman and until this stops, which doesn't look likely, shyt will only get worst.

I mean, i cannot even love the woman today the way that i want, because i'll most likely be viewed as boring, safe and therefore probably cheated on. Therefore, i almost always gotta be someone i ain't to get to even get some attention...let alone dates/sex. How fukked up does that sound?

but that is the reality that we live in.

With that being said, brehs, i beg ya'll stop chasing these women. Stop asking questions about situations and shyt and realize the woman you are talking about and women in general in the west are not worth a drop of your resource. Work hard to be the best MAN you can be. SWEAT BREHS. SWEAT Then enjoy your life.

Save money up then book tickets to travel
Save money up and purchase a gym membership
Save money up and open up a business

If you do along the way deal with women, i'd avoid getting into a relationship with them and invest AS LITTLE as possible. Also, do not have any expectations. This is the most important thing more than anything when it comes to dealing with women.

 

[Atlrocafella]

I get what @nalej is saying. The initial stage, you do make the effort to let a girl know that you are interested, if you are indeed interested. But early on, brehs got to recognize when the chick is about the BS, and cut that shyt off ASAP. Shorty already don't return your text, and she's telling the nicca that he got to wait until February?? that's straight bullshipt , Like @Emperor_ReinScarf says, if she's interested, she will make the time, even if its for a quick coffee. If ya azz ain't the CEO of a fortune 500 company, or the President of the United States, you not that fukkin busy. Fall back and when she's ready, if you're still feeling her, than kick it, but end the pursuit now.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

It's easier to move on once you figure out that the new girl you're talking to is making you feel the same way as your ex did when y'all first met. It took me a while to realize it but I've probably never actually been in "love". I've cared about women, I care about what happens to them, I miss them, that kind of thing, but if another girl can make me feel and the girl after that can make me feel then what are we really discussing? I value their companionship but most of the time what they are offering is something I can find anywhere..

 

[MikelArteta]

My effort is asking once then discarded

Once you meet a woman who is into you for what you offer you'll wonder why you wasted all the time and effort trying to get s chick to like you

Women know right of the bat if they like you or not trust me.

 

[MikelArteta]

People mistake love for infatuation all the time especially women

I've had about ten women in my life tell me they love me, some as soon as a few weeks

I've only loved two women in my life and by love I mean I was going to marry one and the second one I saved from homelessness twice even though she destroyed my life.

But yes strong feelings can be mistaken for love but they usually get overwritten when you meet someone new

It's easier to move on once you figure out that the new girl you're talking to is making you feel the same way as your ex did when y'all first met. It took me a while to realize it but I've probably never actually been in "love". I've cared about women, I care about what happens to them, I miss them, that kind of thing, but if another girl can make me feel and the girl after that can make me feel then what are we really discussing? I value their companionship but most of the time what they are offering is something I can find anywhere..

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

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[MikelArteta]

She will be a distant memory however hope you don't get caught up with this new broad while your not fully over your ex

Quick recap. I found out my girl was cheating on me like 2 1/2 weeks ago. I had suspected it and so I had been starting to get something going with someone else. This didn't quite prepare me to hear the truth from her. I was still upset. I still couldn't believe it and I ended up cutting off contact with the other girl also. I needed some time to figure out myself and figure out why this happened. In the end, I didn't really figure out much except that the bytch was crazy and avoided confrontation like the plague. She rather cry on someone else's shoulder, the next nikka that was going to tell her what she wants to hear.

For about a week or more I went back and forth in my head and it ate away at me. I couldn't stop thinking about it and how I was did wrong. But then it clicked. I talked it through and I realized all the crying to myself and worrying and not eating wasn't the answer. I just needed to say fukk it and move on. Nothing I could do.

A few days ago I met someone new. We're not dating, it's just in the early stages but it made me laugh... When I talk to her and we're chillin and laughing and shyt, choppin it up, the LAST thing on my mind is the girl who cheated on me. It's still only been like close to three weeks but I've already begun to put her out of mind. I can just imagine how I will feel about her in another three weeks or six months or a year. She will be a distant memory. I'll forget what she even looks like. And I won't care.

fukked up but I'm learning how to move on just as quickly as they do.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

She will be a distant memory however hope you don't get caught up with this new broad while your not fully over your ex

I'm just taking it real slow. So far it's been great but you know how that goes. If she gets cold on me, so be it. I just find it fascinating how quickly I'm forgetting about someone I thought I loved. Weird.

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm just taking it real slow. So far it's been great but you know how that goes. If she gets cold on me, so be it. I just find it fascinating how quickly I'm forgetting about someone I thought I loved. Weird.

because you didn't really love
however be weary i thought many times i was over my ex and thens ome days just fell down back into the hole, everyone heals differently.

It's why i advocate to everyone to follow my guide, cut all contact, dele and block them everywhere

the older you get and the more experiences you have the easier it gets.

Although I wouldn't wish my life on anyone, every experience has made me stronger, i remember the first few times i dealt with heartbreak i was like

now when a chick leaves or depart its like ,

im still human rejection still burns but i know its for the best. I always say better now than with 2 kids and a house

 

[MikelArteta]

we just here to help brehs i've been through it all, engagement, being cheated on, lied to, flaked, heard every line in the book, i've made every mistake chased, poured out my heart, stuck around, accepted friendzone.

I've dated women from all walks of lifes, from models, to lawyers, doctors, to retail workers, to unemployed, i've been all around the world

I'm not just speaking out my ass trust me i've been there in every situation you can imagine

 

[Fatboi1]

The audacity of this text is just

This is from my ex's friend(I don't think they that cool).

I haven't spoken to this girl in several months! I come home and my cousin telling me she came upstairs asking for me to see if I can come down and fix the computer in my ex's room .

She called me but I ain't even see it nor called back.

I just replied "Nah I'm busy" and kept it moving.

is wrong with these chicks?? Who she think I am to just do her a favor like that when she ain't even fukking with me??