Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[McPiff]

the girl that i've been with for 6 years and i are having a little situation. We've been living together for a year and a half and lately she's been talking about she wants to move in a bigger crib.

shyt is good and all, but lately i've been wanting to have my own crib and shyt, not for the fukkery but just because i want to be able to work on my stuffs at any moment of the day without having to worry about her..

I told her what i had on my mind and now she's hurt cause she thought we gon build our own family now.

i'm not sure if im doing the right thing brehs...i'm kinda lost

 

[MikelArteta]

the girl that i've been with for 6 years and i are having a little situation. We've been living together for a year and a half and lately she's been talking about she wants to move in a bigger crib.

shyt is good and all, but lately i've been wanting to have my own crib and shyt, not for the fukkery but just because i want to be able to work on my stuffs at any moment of the day without having to worry about her..

I told her what i had on my mind and now she's hurt cause she thought we gon build our own family now.

i'm not sure if im doing the right thing brehs...i'm kinda lost

you guys are married etc?

she probably wants teh bigger crib because shes at that point where she wants kids, are you planning on marrying? are you engaged?

with certain women after years with a guy and thers no ring etc. and time (bioogical clock) may be running out she may be testing to see if she's wasting time

 

[kevm3]

So I've been talking to this chick for a minute since the summer. Eventually I stopped talking to her during the school year and now we started sorta talking agaiin. So last night I go over to her apartment kicking it with her and her homies smoking and shyt regular college shyt. So her homies dip and we're chilling in her bed (I didn't make a move) and then her homies come back and shyt and we're smoking. So somehow in conversation her boyfriend pops up (she never told me) and now I find out this chick had a boyfriend. I know she likes me so it's just like damn, does this chick want me to take her from her boyfriend or what? Like... what do you guys think?

Whatever she's doing to her boyfriend, sooner or later she will be doing to you. The biggest mistake men make is ignoring a woman's character and in thinking that you, as a man, have some kind of supergame that can completely transform a woman's character. Mike Tyson, Hulk Hogan and several other rich, famous and super fit men have been cheated on, so don't think you're different. What you're experiencing right now is the new-negro smell, similar to the new car smell... In other words, because you're new, you're getting VIP treatment. Once she's been with you a while and starts getting bored, she'll be doing the EXACT same thing to you... chilling and smoking with another dude and talking about how you aren't satisfying her, etc.

 

[kevm3]

me and a girl who I been talking to since may just parted ways she was expecting too much.


not to mention her and a dude who she used to date are best friends
.........but the nikka is gay now


shorty was cool she was down to earth, sex was great, she always hit me up everyday to see how my day was going, no kids, graduated college, until Christmas I never spend a dime on this broad, the few times we went out she paid for herself when I insisted on paying, but this gay friend of hers was always going to be the main focus, plus she lives with the nikka right now

she always gets defensive when I ask her is her and her bf is fukking but she always says he is strictly gay

she even goes over his mother's crib to help her out so I was pretty convinced that dude was always going to be around regardless of the situation and he was going to come first.

im gonna miss the great sex and her company but I know I made the right choice.

I highly doubt that dude is full out gay. He's probably some bisexual and it's probably a 95% chance they are sleeping together. Women don't just go help out at a man's house for no reason. Be happy because you missed out on possible STDs that could have been passed your way.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

What you're experiencing right now is the new-negro smell, similar to the new car smell... In other words, because you're new, you're getting VIP treatment. Once she's been with you a while and starts getting bored, she'll be doing the EXACT same thing to you... chilling and smoking with another dude and talking about how you aren't satisfying her, etc.

Yep and don't take it personal either. I used to ask myself "what did I do? How could I have stopped this from happening?" but most of the time if this is the type of girl you are dealing with, that is who they are and it has nothing to do with who you are as a man. No need to concern yourself about making changes. It's a learning experience in how to judge a person's character.

 

[kevm3]

Same in Cuba as well a country where Americans are banned

Fine women are everywhere but no one is so thirsty for them

i remember going to a club and it was filled with beautiful latinas I was the only foreigner there and there was no thirsty dudes trying to spit game etc. everyone was just enjoying themselves

its crazxy when you travel how different the world is

That's exactly one of the reasons women act so much better over there. They don't have simps 'drinking their bathwater' and 'worshipping the ground she walks on.'

I can already an American dude walking into a club... looking around, catcalling to himself like, ''ahooooo woooooo mmmm sooo many fine girls in here." He'll walk up to a mami like, "Girl you so fineee, can I buy you a drink? Turn around for me." A lot of how women act is in direct response from the kind of attention they get from dudes, and dudes that worship them will have these women stepping all over men.

 

[kevm3]

That chick who claimed to be busy for a date till February posted up a picture of her and her home girl in a nightclub. I'm sure the picture is from last night.

The game being exchanged in this thread is gold.

This is exactly why you don't listen to simps. They would have told you something corny like, "DUDE you're invading her privacy! Why are you so insecure?"

Simps are essentially female worshipers, so they take on female characteristics for themselves and one of the most powerful traits of a female is mental manipulation... or in other words, making you feel bad for something SHE did. Checking her social media account possibly saved you years of wasted time.

This just confirms the point that women are never really that busy. They're just too busy for YOU. Great thing that you're moving on.

 

[McPiff]

you guys are married etc?

she probably wants teh bigger crib because shes at that point where she wants kids, are you planning on marrying? are you engaged?

with certain women after years with a guy and thers no ring etc. and time (bioogical clock) may be running out she may be testing to see if she's wasting time

Well i want her to be the mother of my kids, she's a down to earth chick, she stuck with me through the hard times, we had a few fights but we re still going strong.

We're not married nor engaged yet. She understands that i have some goals that i want to achieve before we start planning the family life but at the same time, she thinks that if i live on my own, we'll eventually grow apart.
I just want to do my stuff and work on my business and i feel like id be more productive if i live alone.
but i dont wan to take the risk of letting her go

 

[360dagod]

Well i want her to be the mother of my kids, she's a down to earth chick, she stuck with me through the hard times, we had a few fights but we re still going strong.

We're not married nor engaged yet. She understands that i have some goals that i want to achieve before we start planning the family life but at the same time, she thinks that if i live on my own, we'll eventually grow apart.
I just want to do my stuff and work on my business and i feel like id be more productive if i live alone.
but i dont wan to take the risk of letting her go

Breh, that wasn't the thing to say or even imply to her...You hurt her feelings breh

She been down for 6 years, don't do anything to rock that boat

How old is she??

 

[McPiff]

Breh, that wasn't the thing to say or even imply to her...You hurt her feelings breh

She been down for 6 years, don't do anything to rock that boat

How old is she??

i know but im honest i cant lie to her... i know she's hurt , she's 27

 

[360dagod]

i know but im honest i cant lie to her... i know she's hurt , she's 27

Fam, I understand you might have goals etc, but maybe you can find a way to incorporate her in there as well...

She 27, so I can understand her mindset..

You done opened a whole can of worms breh...You might be doing it for work purposes, but her mind aint thinking that..She prolly thinking you want "freedom"...Like side chicks etc...And it would be the same if the situation were reversed.

And she will find a way to throw this in your face if the situation comes up...

You might have fukked up breh

If I were you, i'd be thinking of how to rectify this potentially bad situation

 

[Fatboi1]

That Japanese chick(the one with the gym pic) is kind of weird. She been trying to introduce me to some guy she knows that's haitian(Like me) for reasons Idk. I realize she's trying to recruit me into some religious fellowship she practices but she kind of was blatant with it by just randomly giving me the address to a place in NY talking about for me to check it out. I do research on it and it's just another typical religious cult like following where members are encouraged subtly not to go outside of their teachings or whatnot. I politely told her that I'm not a religious person and she says it's fine and that I don't need to be religious. Since then I haven't heard a peep from her(it's only been one day but still..) Weird as hell

 

[360dagod]

That Japanese chick(the one with the gym pic) is kind of weird. She been trying to introduce me to some guy she knows that's haitian(Like me) for reasons Idk. I realize she's trying to recruit me into some religious fellowship she practices but she kind of was blatant with it by just randomly giving me the address to a place in NY talking about for me to check it out. I do research on it and it's just another typical religious cult like following where members are encouraged subtly not to go outside of their teachings or whatnot. I politely told her that I'm not a religious person and she says it's fine and that I don't need to be religious. Since then I haven't heard a peep from her(it's only been one day but still..) Weird as hell

and don't look back

 

[Fatboi1]

and don't look back

I just unfriended the dude on FB and I'm about to unfollow her and remove her from my contact program. I'm honestly sick of cult like people. I can respect someone's beliefs so long as they don't try and push theirs onto me. Trying to befriend someone and then recommending something I never asked for out the blue is . I don't like that behavior at all. It kind of creeps me out to see young, beautiful women getting suckered into mind control like groups that probably discourages independent thinking.

Luckily the other japanese chick is straight . No issues with her.

 

[International Playa]

This is exactly why you don't listen to simps. They would have told you something corny like, "DUDE you're invading her privacy! Why are you so insecure?"

Simps are essentially female worshipers, so they take on female characteristics for themselves and one of the most powerful traits of a female is mental manipulation... or in other words, making you feel bad for something SHE did. Checking her social media account possibly saved you years of wasted time.

This just confirms the point that women are never really that busy. They're just too busy for YOU. Great thing that you're moving on.

True, I have saved myself money by assessing her intentions before going on the first date. Some simps might say take her on a date and try convince her to like you. Hell Noooo!!!!

Men,we need to date smart in 2015. Some of these women will use you for free meals. Remember a few weeks ago, the Instagram model who exposed a dude for not paying the $700 date bill. That brother noticed he was getting played for a fool in the middle of the date and he jumped ship. In hindsight he probably should have saw it coming when the woman came to the date with her friends.