Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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imma say this and its personal and close to home


if u get married and ur unhappy and ur wife aint treating u good but like shyt just cuz u got a damn kid with them dont mean u have to stay

get over that sure u gonna pay child support and not see kid as often as u like but ur happiness is more important for u and ur child cuz they will start to pick up on it as they get older

u can try to fight to be custodial parent for most part u wont win but no hurt in trying but u gotta go in like at least try but no u probably wont win so u dont get hurt as much

once u can accept u dont have ur kid u can leave her it will be painfully hard cuz u love that kid like no other but being that miserable and unhappy isn't good for the kid nor yourself u deserve better

just be there for that kid no matter what dont talk bad bout the mother even if u want too and even if it is true
when they are old enough then u can have that respectful talk bout her in put in perspective but even then dont go shytting on her be the bigger person u can say things too where they get the point tho

most dudes stay in these toxic ass relationships cuz of the kid or kids cuz they dont wanna leave them sometimes its a L u gotta take tho

hey shyt is vice versa for females too with them and have a toxic dude


i truly wish the system would favor guys more in getting custody not just automatically give em to the mom shyt isn't fair or right we have good father figures that have shytty mothers for kids they gonna have to realize that
 
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Turbulent said:
you said it breh. if the chicks that are already choosing you don't meet your standards, you only have two options. either re-evaluate your standards OR don't focus on women and just put in some work in yourself and invest in yourself. not even for women but just to become a better version of you. Perfect yourself wherever you need to in order to live better, feel better, etc. the better you become (in whatever you want to improve) the more attractive you become not only because of the actual improvements but also because of the natural confidence you will have. so more chicks will start choosing and you increase the odds of one of them meeting your criteria.

7 times out of 10, it's better to improve yourself than to change your standards. but there are cases when people have unrealistic standards or even standards that won't really contribute to your happiness. always good to re-evaluate your standards once in a while but not with a settling mentality, more with a "how does her being this or having that make me happier?" type of way.

example of a unrealistic standard: I need to have a chinese chick with natural blue eyes, blond hair 6 feet tall 110 pounds with a slim waist, thick ass and double D breasts and who makes 6 figures. this is a case where you might have to re-evaluate your standards and it doesn't mean you're settling.
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Turb :wow::blessed:

and i doubt i have unrealistic standards...matta fact, i don't even have requirements for a woman...she just gotta be decent/somewhat good looking in the face and have a body i'd wanna devour :manny: besides, i ain't thinkin long-term....but when that time comes, then i'll begin to be more selective.

My problem is i tend to sell myself short. People tell me i'm handsome, i'm a pretty boy and shyt...but i don't believe it. I mean, i'd like to, but liking and believing are 2 different things and feelings. So yea, you are right....i gotta do me. I gotta check out da game for some time and do me...until i get to a point where i am naturally confident and those :scust:thoughts become a thing of the past....i just hope i don't accidentally or unknowingly miss out on pu$$y in the process. :sadcam:
 
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MilesTailsPrower said:
What are the ways that a person can step up their conversation skills? not with just females, but with other people
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find a common ground, most people whom are even quiet usually break out of their shell when you try and discuss certain topics that they're heavily interested in and. Not everyone wants to discuss sports or specific genres of music and what not.
 
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Like semtex said, practice. Make sure you force yourself to get out of the house and be in social environments. Consider starting your own youtube channel or podcast just to get yourself more comfortable talking.
 
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I prefer to read books over podcasts. I've been reading mostly programming books lately, so I doubt they'd have general interest to most people here. Besides the Bible, the one book I do really enjoy that might have general interest is "Weapons of Mass Instruction". It pretty much talks about how the schooling system is used to turn students into consumers and people who are there to follow orders.
 
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kevm3 said:
I prefer to read books over podcasts. I've been reading mostly programming books lately, so I doubt they'd have general interest to most people here. Besides the Bible, the one book I do really enjoy that might have general interest is "Weapons of Mass Instruction". It pretty much talks about how the schooling system is used to turn students into consumers and people who are there to follow orders.
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This, Patrice o'neal talks on the opie and anthony show were cool to listen to and had some knowledge(the way a fat guy knew how to handle and get women) but i much prefer to read then listen to a podcast.
 
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