Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Opposites Attract

People with bad character traits want a partner with good character traits
Cheaters want a monogamous partner
Players want someone they can play
Liars want someone honest who will believe their lies
Manipulators want someone they can manipulate
Charmers want someone they can charm
Untrustworthy people want someone they can trust
I agree with this. :ehhh:

It seems like my best relationships are always females who are not like, with the exception of my ex. I always do best with hood chicks or birdbrains. Anyone else with a hint of intelligence tends to be argumentative and combative, and I can't stand females who love to debate.

Anyways that leaves me to my lest dilemma with the texting game. I always text a chick everyday, especially if Im really into her. They always respond for the next couple of days but sometime go on hiatus, especially when I haven't called them and had that talk yet. It's happening again. :sadcam: And I think this time should I change my strategy up a little bit? Bc if i dont text her then they won't txt back. But i was wondering what should be my next step though?
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I agree with this. :ehhh:

It seems like my best relationships are always females who are not like, with the exception of my ex. I always do best with hood chicks or birdbrains. Anyone else with a hint of intelligence tends to be argumentative and combative, and I can't stand females who love to debate.

Anyways that leaves me to my lest dilemma with the texting game. I always text a chick everyday, especially if Im really into her. They always respond for the next couple of days but sometime go on hiatus, especially when I haven't called them and had that talk yet. It's happening again. :sadcam: And I think this time should I change my strategy up a little bit? Bc if i dont text her then they won't txt back. But i was wondering what should be my next step though?
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Text these women when you feel like it. It's a waste of time to try to figure out the perfect frequency in which to text women. Just be somewhat regular about it, as in don't just disappear for a week and pop up a week or month later like everything is cool. Stop trying to hold on to broads you don't really have. If you have to carefully manage the exact frequency of texts when dealing with some particular woman, she isn't really feeling you that much.

It's headache inducing trying to 'strategize' over some woman. Either she's feeling you and makes it simple to deal with her or not. If you have to tip toe, it's probably better to keep it pushing and find another woman.
 

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Text these women when you feel like it. It's a waste of time to try to figure out the perfect frequency in which to text women. Just be somewhat regular about it, as in don't just disappear for a week and pop up a week or month later like everything is cool. Stop trying to hold on to broads you don't really have. If you have to carefully manage the exact frequency of texts when dealing with some particular woman, she isn't really feeling you that much.

It's headache inducing trying to 'strategize' over some woman. Either she's feeling you and makes it simple to deal with her or not. If you have to tip toe, it's probably better to keep it pushing and find another woman.

pretty much, just do what you want to do. The only reason I stop texting a chick is when I feel like its the end and I'll just leave with my dignity, and usually I'm right, but the whole waiting 3 days, or waiting a while to show im busy is corny game playing.
 

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pretty much, just do what you want to do. The only reason I stop texting a chick is when I feel like its the end and I'll just leave with my dignity, and usually I'm right, but the whole waiting 3 days, or waiting a while to show im busy is corny game playing.

Exactly. When you start with the game-playing, you're going to be confused the whole time. "What do I do next? What after that? How do I invoke this emotional reaction? She's not reacting exactly how I want, so then what do I do?" Men should NOT be reacting to women, going tit for tat, trying to precisely control their emotional state and keep them around by any means necessary. It's WAY too much work for way too small of a reward. As a man, YOU should choose when you hit her up and the frequency, and if she doesn't like it, oh well, she can be replaced. We should stop with all of these strategies and keep it simple and GIVE women an opportunity instead of trying to force them into your institution.
 

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Heading to San Diego for the next 6 months and then to Japan....not even tripping me and my girl haven't spoken in 3 weeks. :blessed:

That's how you do it man. Find a way to enjoy your life regardless of whatever woman you are dealing with is doing. If she goes cold and disappears, oh well, she can be replaced... but never let a woman cause you a ton of stress or have you worrying about her.

I used to sit around worrying about why this woman who supposedly loves me disappears for weeks without hitting me up. You learn pretty much a woman mouthing, "I love you" often doesn't amount to much. Now, screw all that worrying. You disappear for a week or two and I'm pretty much cutting you off and moving on. When you know what the game is, you know how to react accordingly and not sweat over someone who ain't sweating over you.
 

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Heading to San Diego for the next 6 months and then to Japan....not even tripping me and my girl haven't spoken in 3 weeks. :blessed:

if you had a girl you'd probably wouldn't have jumped at the opportunity that presented itself.

Ever since I've been single I've been to so many places, hope you enjoy it life can change in a instant!!!
 

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Heading to San Diego for the next 6 months and then to Japan....not even tripping me and my girl haven't spoken in 3 weeks. :blessed:

YOU JUST DONT KNOWWWWWWWW SONNNNNNN.........DAMMMMNNNNN...DIEEGGGOOOOO?....THENNNN JAPAN?....DAMNNNN

i think he already been before but i might have him mixed up with someone else

i wanna go back to the land of the rising sun :mjcry:

gotta buy my house first then ill go with my breh :ahh:
 

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It's crazy when you think of it how fast time is going, I remember it just seemd like yesterday the london olympics, posting in the thread, streaming the videos and :damn: next year will be the summer olympics again.

Think of all the chicks you were stressing over back then how many are still around or in your life?

I can think of faces but it's hard to put names to them, funny how life is.
 
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