Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[jadillac]

what's funny is, this can happen to you slowly.....and you may not notice it til weeks later.

Because at first the woman is all in, she's calling you all the time, wanting to chat, etc. Then slowly it slows down, then may pick back up a bit, then slow down again.....but you don't notice it, until you play it back like a time-lapse.

Then ur like , "she's been puttin me off"

Now you have feelings and wanna give her the benefit of the doubt

 

[MikelArteta]

what's funny is, this can happen to you slowly.....and you may not notice it til weeks later.

Because at first the woman is all in, she's calling you all the time, wanting to chat, etc. Then slowly it slows down, then may pick back up a bit, then slow down again.....but you don't notice it, until you play it back like a time-lapse.

Then ur like , "she's been puttin me off"

Now you have feelings and wanna give her the benefit of the doubt

breh i know i posted a few pages back, how i had vacation days and was thinking of wher to travel and my friend who i hanged out with in the summer told me to come back so i did booked my trip she knew, then a week before I told her and she said she was "busy", travelled 3000 miles 5 hours was there for 5 days, she was texting me every day I was there, i even brought up hey im in your area and she went dead silent , later on i find out it was a guy dunno why she couldnt be honest but its true that im busy = straight bs.

of course your ego will keep telling you shes busy, she just had other plans but its all bs

 

[MikelArteta]

@ all of this

its all mind games like what lawyers and detectives play, your on the stand or in the interrogation room and they warm you up first with softees then use whatever you say or how you act to their advantage

 

[EffYou]

fukk!, he hit her with that Ether in the end and she couldn't even get the words out her mouth

I knew he was going to ether her when he started smiling while she was "whining/crying".

This b*tch doesn't know how to argue for shyt, could you imagine a guy getting away with interrupting,complaining, and not saying anything logical to counter his researched arguments(bytch was basically emotional).
-"Women are at their sexual primes at 35" you keep telling yourself that hoe

-"Ask any woman if she would choose her car over her children and she'd take the kids any day,where as i would question a lot of men out there" this hoe...

When he said women live longer because when guys are married to women like her they just want to die sooner (she rebuttals "you're divorced she left you! lets bring that to the table) wtf? She really going to hit him with that low blow?

At the end when he calls her out for her alimony , Not CHILD SUPPORT! ALIMONY, money the guy is forced to pay her for her just being in his life."but but but i have 3 children!" In a sad whiny voice, that triggers beta males that there is a Vagina in distress(another way females manipulate men).

Hoe basically got the ether she deserved

 

[EffYou]

@ all of this

How can she slap bro?




“If you want to tell people the truth, make them laugh, otherwise they'll kill you.”

Feminism isn't about equal rights, it's about more rights for women. It's killing this country.

I am thankful to patrice o'neal for opening my eyes to the battle we are currently facing against women. Guys in this society can keep up the charades, while the divorce rate sky rockets. How come in other countries around the world where traditional marriage is still followed there is less divorces/ the women are happier.
If a woman thinks she is better than you she can't respect you, if she can't respect you she can't love you. Women love men differently to the way men love women. Woman's love is based on adoration, adoration is a concentrated amount of respect. Respect is derived from power. Be powerful if you want to be loved, or you will never be loved. You will be held in contempt for being weak.

 

[jadillac]

breh i know i posted a few pages back, how i had vacation days and was thinking of wher to travel and my friend who i hanged out with in the summer told me to come back so i did booked my trip she knew, then a week before I told her and she said she was "busy", travelled 3000 miles 5 hours was there for 5 days, she was texting me every day I was there, i even brought up hey im in your area and she went dead silent , later on i find out it was a guy dunno why she couldnt be honest but its true that im busy = straight bs.

of course your ego will keep telling you shes busy, she just had other plans but its all bs

damn breh.

You should've told her about herself, in no uncertain terms let her have it. I've done it before, made a chick cry and was PROUD as f*ck that I did it.

You have nothing to lose, and she likely may even like you afterwards given these chicks mindsets

 

[MikelArteta]

damn breh.

You should've told her about herself, in no uncertain terms let her have it. I've done it before, made a chick cry and was PROUD as f*ck that I did it.

You have nothing to lose, and she likely may even like you afterwards given these chicks mindsets

i just said cool, even talked to her when I got back, then I changed my number once the new year started, no prior warning nothing. I don't have facebook, instagram, twitter etc. so she can't find me and i'm not that guy who caves and contacts she will never hear from me again.

Ain't said a word to my ex fiance going on 8 years now, ain't said nothing to my last ex been more than a year, once im done im done

My power has always been silence, women want you to get angry and react they long for the back and forth. They want to throw everything back at you, i dont have time for that.

 

[jadillac]

this is just my opinion, and I could be way off, but.....


Many women these days have "pieces of men". They'll piece together as many men as they need til they feel somewhat complete.

Women you meet(especially on the internet) often have "situations" in the background. Probably 1 or 2 dudes. Often times these dudes are guys they're physically attracted to and WISH they could have a real relationship with. But the dudes aint having that b/c they know what she's about, so the chick just settles for a physical(sexual) relationship, a spot on his "team", and hope it develops further at some point. These dudes may take her out rarely to a comedy show/concert or something just to keep her hopes up, or make her think he cares..... but nothing more than that. But in her mind she's holding out hope.

1 dude on the side is "perfectly fine" for most chicks, 2 dudes on the side is "acceptable/ok". Any more than 2 and she may start to feel ashamed


So they got the dudes fulfilling the physical part, but she REALLY wants to feel special, so she starts looking for an extra dude to fulfill her "emotional/relationship" needs. This extra guy, she might be somewhat physically attracted to him, but she's moreso attracted to his qualities. He's a "nice" guy, probably educated, nice clothes etc . So to him, she'll act differently, she'll shy away certain topics(like sexual stuff), she'll put out a "good girl" image to make him view her in a different light. He's gonna be the one to talk on the phone, take her to dinner, movies, open car doors/flowers, etc. She may pay her way sometimes on a date, but he's really only there as another "piece" to make her feel ladylike. Deep down he knows she's probably frontin and deep down she knows that he knows she's frontin and b/c she knows he's still a man and he wants sex, she'll drop little sexual hints from time to time to keep him chasing the carrot, but she really doesn't need him for that b/c she has the other dudes for that.

She'll keep extra guy around but possibly still be searching for another extra guy with more money,

Ultimately, she long-term would hope extra guy has got some "sucker" in him and falls for her with little to no sex occuring, b/c once she does give it to him it'll be a wrap. Then if extra guy get's super serious she'll eventually cut the other dudes off and settle down w/ extra guy.

 

[kevm3]

A lot of modern women have this concept they call the 'gaggle', which is pretty much their version of a harem of men, all of which fit some individual purpose. One guy is there for thrills and entertainment. Another is there for financial resources, dinner, etc., another is there to fix things up, to listen to her problems, etc.

http://thechart.blogs.cnn.com/2012/06/14/every-woman-needs-a-gaggle-of-men/

That’s the premise of "The Gaggle," a new book from Jessica Massa, who, along with Rebecca Wiegand, runs the website “WTF Is Up With My Love Life?!”

According to Massa and Wiegand, every woman - single or not - should have her own gaggle, a group of guys that occupy different roles in her life.

“You probably have a gaggle of friends, who all play different roles and fulfill different needs for you,” explains Massa. “You might call one friend to go shopping versus another friend when you’re upset versus another friend when you need a serious professional opinion. Your romantic gaggle is just another piece of the much larger, long-term puzzle of how you structure the relationships in your life to feel full, happy and loved.”

http://thechart.blogs.cnn.com/2012/06/14/every-woman-needs-a-gaggle-of-men/

That's the problem with relationships these days. All of those roles should be fulfilled by her husband, but instead, they got a roster of dudes, each for a specialized purpose.

 

[jeh]

this is just my opinion, and I could be way off, but.....


Many women these days have "pieces of men". They'll piece together as many men as they need til they feel somewhat complete.

Women you meet(especially on the internet) often have "situations" in the background. Probably 1 or 2 dudes. Often times these dudes are guys they're physically attracted to and WISH they could have a real relationship with. But the dudes aint having that b/c they know what she's about, so the chick just settles for a physical(sexual) relationship, a spot on his "team", and hope it develops further at some point. These dudes may take her out rarely to a comedy show/concert or something just to keep her hopes up, or make her think he cares..... but nothing more than that. But in her mind she's holding out hope.

1 dude on the side is "perfectly fine" for most chicks, 2 dudes on the side is "acceptable/ok". Any more than 2 and she may start to feel ashamed


So they got the dudes fulfilling the physical part, but she REALLY wants to feel special, so she starts looking for an extra dude to fulfill her "emotional/relationship" needs. This extra guy, she might be somewhat physically attracted to him, but she's moreso attracted to his qualities. He's a "nice" guy, probably educated, nice clothes etc . So to him, she'll act differently, she'll shy away certain topics(like sexual stuff), she'll put out a "good girl" image to make him view her in a different light. He's gonna be the one to talk on the phone, take her to dinner, movies, open car doors/flowers, etc. She may pay her way sometimes on a date, but he's really only there as another "piece" to make her feel ladylike. Deep down he knows she's probably frontin and deep down she knows that he knows she's frontin and b/c she knows he's still a man and he wants sex, she'll drop little sexual hints from time to time to keep him chasing the carrot, but she really doesn't need him for that b/c she has the other dudes for that.

She'll keep extra guy around but possibly still be searching for another extra guy with more money,

Ultimately, she long-term would hope extra guy has got some "sucker" in him and falls for her with little to no sex occuring, b/c once she does give it to him it'll be a wrap. Then if extra guy get's super serious she'll eventually cut the other dudes off and settle down w/ extra guy.

True. Women will string along these guys, put them on the back burner and make them a option instead of a priority. These aren't women or young lady, they still girls. I say that because they treating those guys I "labeled" above as......boy toys. But here's the trick or how we come out on top. Let them pay they bills, and simp, spending all their time, money, good jokes and resources on them. Because eventually, she will come around. And you the man that you are handling business, traveling, stayin in shape, putting family first, and doing what you like to do in order to succeed. They all come back around, and guess what....that value they thought they had dropped. A sucker is born every minute no doubt. But those trick Simps are necessary in the food chain, the thugs, the unproductive, nothing as nikkas, they actually make our jobs easier by weeding out or as emperor like to say screening the good from the bad. Respect, influence, honesty and communication are just a few things important in getting to know these women. But be careful of the good actress or the wolves in sheep clothing. You fukk around and think she a sweet gurl, didn't do your homework on her, u hit, get her pregnant and she flip that switch on you. Ask her, like how she feel about kids, wedlock N married with kids. If she say we'll two people can live separate but still be parents. Homie. Really, she just want that check. Lot of em do. It's they meal ticket, the ones fortunate enough to know who they child father is. Lot of them out here fellows. Let's use our heads on our shouldersite before the one between our legs no homo

 

[jadillac]

A lot of modern women have this concept they call the 'gaggle', which is pretty much their version of a harem of men, all of which fit some individual purpose. One guy is there for thrills and entertainment. Another is there for financial resources, dinner, etc., another is there to fix things up, to listen to her problems, etc.

That's the problem with relationships these days. All of those roles should be fulfilled by her husband, but instead, they got a roster of dudes, each for a specialized purpose.

Pure foolishness.

Women don't understand that the makeup of a man's mind is territorial. Most male species of any type are territorial. The majority of human males are not gonna want to knowingly share a woman with other men unless he's just a total loser. And if she's hiding it from him b/c it's "none of his business", then that's a poor character trait to have.....because what else is she hiding?

These women are setting other women up to be single, lonely based on the exception & not the rule. That dude who is there now in the role of an occasional date might be the best dude for her in the long run, but when he finds out she messing 2-3 others, he's gonna

 

[kevm3]

Pure foolishness.

Women don't understand that the makeup of a man's mind is territorial. Most male species of any type are territorial. The majority of human males are not gonna want to knowingly share a woman with other men unless he's just a total loser. And if she's hiding it from him b/c it's "none of his business", then that's a poor character trait to have.....because what else is she hiding?

These women are setting other women up to be single, lonely based on the exception & not the rule. That dude who is there now in the role of an occasional date might be the best dude for her in the long run, but when he finds out she messing 2-3 others, he's gonna

I think one of the big problems is women are immune from criticism in this society. Modern dads are raising 'princesses' instead of teaching their girls what's necessary to make them a high quality, moral woman that are worthy of becoming a wife. The same thing with mothers. Mothers are teaching their daughters that "empowered" feminist drivel, which really isn't empowering them, but leading them down a path of perpetual singlehood.

 

[kevm3]

Man I'm glad at least this generation is waking up and some are realizing what effects moral degradation has on society. It'll be a tough effort to undertake, but one well worth undertaking. This is a spiritual battle.

 

[Days of Future Piff]

Man I'm glad at least this generation is waking up and some are realizing what effects moral degradation has on society. It'll be a tough effort to undertake, but one well worth undertaking. This is a spiritual battle.

On point

For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. ~Ephesians 6:12

 

[MikelArteta]

this is just my opinion, and I could be way off, but.....


Many women these days have "pieces of men". They'll piece together as many men as they need til they feel somewhat complete.

Women you meet(especially on the internet) often have "situations" in the background. Probably 1 or 2 dudes. Often times these dudes are guys they're physically attracted to and WISH they could have a real relationship with. But the dudes aint having that b/c they know what she's about, so the chick just settles for a physical(sexual) relationship, a spot on his "team", and hope it develops further at some point. These dudes may take her out rarely to a comedy show/concert or something just to keep her hopes up, or make her think he cares..... but nothing more than that. But in her mind she's holding out hope.

1 dude on the side is "perfectly fine" for most chicks, 2 dudes on the side is "acceptable/ok". Any more than 2 and she may start to feel ashamed


So they got the dudes fulfilling the physical part, but she REALLY wants to feel special, so she starts looking for an extra dude to fulfill her "emotional/relationship" needs. This extra guy, she might be somewhat physically attracted to him, but she's moreso attracted to his qualities. He's a "nice" guy, probably educated, nice clothes etc . So to him, she'll act differently, she'll shy away certain topics(like sexual stuff), she'll put out a "good girl" image to make him view her in a different light. He's gonna be the one to talk on the phone, take her to dinner, movies, open car doors/flowers, etc. She may pay her way sometimes on a date, but he's really only there as another "piece" to make her feel ladylike. Deep down he knows she's probably frontin and deep down she knows that he knows she's frontin and b/c she knows he's still a man and he wants sex, she'll drop little sexual hints from time to time to keep him chasing the carrot, but she really doesn't need him for that b/c she has the other dudes for that.

She'll keep extra guy around but possibly still be searching for another extra guy with more money,

Ultimately, she long-term would hope extra guy has got some "sucker" in him and falls for her with little to no sex occuring, b/c once she does give it to him it'll be a wrap. Then if extra guy get's super serious she'll eventually cut the other dudes off and settle down w/ extra guy.

@kevm3 posted this here or was it at sohh i dunno i just have it saved as a draft

One thing a man needs to realize is that women LIE all the time. They stay playing roles for different dudes. You sit down with the freak of the neighborhood and get to talking it up with her and you'll start thinking she's mad cool and she'll have you believing, "Man they were wrong about her. They don't know about this GEM I have right here. They are just jealous because she's not giving them any play." .

When it comes down to it, most modern women got two categories they will put men in that they actually deal with. He can be that raw guy or he can be that romantic guy. The raw guy is the one who can stop in whenever, and she'll do whatever with him... she'll make time for him, but it ain't really no relationship. He doesn't have to spend a dime or even much time with her. On the other hand, she will have the romantic negro, the one who she will play prim and proper with and act like she doesn't do this or that with. He'll be the one taking her to dinner and listening to all her problems. She'll be friendly and cordial with him, but she won't be available for him on the weekends and will randomly be busy at unpredictable times. When he asks what she's doing, it'll always be how busy she was or how something came up... and that was because she was chilling with that the other guy that came raw with it or at least with her girls looking for that dude. She might tell you, "I want to take it slow... I don't want my heart broke and I just want a man I can love" to the romantic dude, but then you'll see her post random statuses on facebook talking about "ugh worst day ever... never make someone a priority when you're only an option" in reference to that dude that comes through but is smart enough not to lock her down.

As soon as a woman is ready to make a move, her boyfriend of however long is either just someone she is 'talking to' or 'seeing', or she magically got all kinds of problems with him, aka he doesn't pay enough attention to me, etc. Instead of that being her boyfriend, he's just that dude that I've been getting to know. That's what women call friendly fellas.
These days it's better to be a woman's problem than her problem solver.


Some women are always searching for an upgrade... and on another hand they are always searching for new men, not necessarily to upgrade, but to round out their team. They may have found their goalie, but now they are looking for their defenseman.

For example, she will feel lonely, feel like cuddling, and need of affection, so she'll search for one guy to handle that and keep him in that role. When she has that and feel he's secured, she'll still be with him, but then search for some side guys for thrills, aka the additional excitement of a new and unpredictable man.

In essence, she'll seek security from one man and give him affection, nice compliments, utter words of "love" etc., every now and then to keep him for emotional and physical security, but she'll have a completely different dude in which she'll show a completely different, nasty side to.

A lot of women she will have two sides she will display with a man... Miss Sweet and Miss Freak. One for the dude she wants to cuddle with and then another for the dude she knows she can't draw into a relationship, but will knock her socks of between the sheets. .