Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Loud Still Coolin]

You pretty much already know what happened. "Homie" most likely was doing his thing and walked out with some dough after he was done. Sounds like she was chilling with some hood dude, and after he finished her off, he went in that purse.

9 times out of 10 when women pull that disappearing act, they got another man on the line. When it falls sour with him they come back on some sooo sorry tip. It's so amazingly predictable that it's like they are all reading off the same script.

same bitter damaged women shoutin "men aint this" "they aint that" shorty gave me the vibe of a fraud feminist goin through it. . she claimed she was happily single also. i never even got to push up on it.
. lol these hoes always got invisible "homies" in the cut. and i already kno wassup with that. ive dealt with that WAYYYY WAYYY WaAAY back . so i jumpd ship. but im not losing no sleep or anything. whole ordeal was fresh and was only talkin 2 shorty for bout 2 3 weeks before the fukkery. just thought i share a story and thought it was totally funny. . ive dealt with triflon weirdo women countless times. but to hear one come out the woodworks she's been robbed and it was by who?? a "homie" ?? had me dum b1tch!!!! . just sharing this story cause i browse a lot of you'll stories and posted situations. and i just been asking myself. how do i da fukk do i meet these weirdos. the vanishing act is classic and common and nothing new to me OG i shared the story cause instead of gettin straight played or deaded by females like the rest its always more. my situations always end on some total rapid random fukkery . lol own crib no kids own job and claimin to have no drama whatsoever and now is out here in the cut stealin from you hoe???? really???? im just like why you even subscribe me b1tch!

and this was stage 1. but im all about first impressions and this was enough. talk is cheap.

im back to the basics i go brehs.


is regardless

 

[RealAssanova]

I'm getting at this chick who's a science student at my alma mater and came across an internship for people in her specific program and year this morning when I was looking to see if there were any job postings for accountants / financial analysts etc. Shes younger than me so earlier she was trying to pick my brain about my experience post grad and I told her I would put her up on game on how to make the best out of university. Thus when I saw the posting I figured hmmm, maybe she'd be interested.

But how fukked up is it that before telling her to check out the opportunity I thought to myself, "what if me telling her this leads her to think I'm some sort of nice guy, or putting her on because I want something in return? and I get friend zoned accordingly." I say this because people always have their guards up nowadays..

I still put her on because she's black and I like to see my nikkas prosper. Thus I will offer resume help if she asks and what not but its a shame what the dating game can to do somebody. shyt will have somebody holding themselves from doing a gesture just because they're afraid of how it might come across to the opposite sex.

"I'm not gonna call him tonight because I called him two nights ago. I'll look desperate if I do so it's his turn to call me." - But obivously you want to talk to dude if youre thinking about him, so why not just pick up the phone and call?

"I'm not gonna drive her to work even though its along the way. Do I look like a chauffer? fukk that shyt." - But if its on your way to work then is it really an issue? If anything those rides to work could be an opportunity to really get to know one another.

LOL not to sound all corny but this is just something I've observed over the years and I feel its a shame. This is why I feel as human beings (not just men, not just women) we should all strive to be a little more communal with one another but somewhere along the line in this dog eat dog world our social skills and compassion went down the drain. Think of all the opportunities people including you and I couldve missed out on as a result of having too much pride or being too meticulous with their social interactions. Job opportunities, networking opportunities, dating opportunities, opportunities to learn etc etc. It is ridiculous.

i am dealing with this same exact issue. Just went to a networking event on thursday...UFSC (urban financial group) and i got dis chick in my monday classes who also is majoring in finance...that i'm somewhat feeling and i think is feelin me too...that i might wanna put on game about this organization and invite her out to their next event with me and my dude.

We all of the same ethnic background too...but i'm on da fence...by doin this, would she start to look at me like a brother?

and for the record...the physical contact was broken 1st week of class....we graduated now to gentle arm strokes and i also have her in one of my groups for the semester.

 

[RealAssanova]

Women really do have short memories:

This chick I've been dating is a supervisor at my boys job. They aren't getting along at work and she takes it out on me. So in one hour it goes from hey I miss you to fukk off I don't wanna see you.

So I go through these motions








So I leave it alone. She calls: I ignore. She text I ignore. It got to the point where she forgot she said fukk off to me and got mad I was ignoring her text

Next thing I know she is at my door and she refuses to leave until I threaten to call the police. She spends the next day trying to convince me she was there to apologize but then tried to flip the blame saying when I do something wrong she quick to forgive but I can't do the same. These bytches b. I never tell her to fukk off or anything. But now she wanna see me before my two week business trip. I'm good though

yesssss breh!

 

[Ohene]

i am dealing with this same exact issue. Just went to a networking event on thursday...UFSC (urban financial group) and i got dis chick in my monday classes who also is majoring in finance...that i'm somewhat feeling and i think is feelin me too...that i might wanna put on game about this organization and invite her out to their next event with me and my dude.

We all of the same ethnic background too...but i'm on da fence...by doin this, would she start to look at me like a brother?

and for the record...the physical contact was broken 1st week of class....we graduated now to gentle arm strokes and i also have her in one of my groups for the semester.

put her on fam during a time you can go alone and maybe suggest yall go out for drinks or some shyt after. i've heard of that group by the way. my lazy ass needs to get back on my networking grnd

continue to make your move to prevent it lol. my situation is rough cause although this girl is from my city, she lives around campus in Hamilton so I wont be seeing her unless i head out there, schools done or i wait til reading week

 

[MikelArteta]

I kind of miss that innocece that thinking women were princesses and the love stories I would be fed how it all works out in the end

Its literally coming out of the matrix where the matrix will have you all wide eyed, sunshine and roses but now I know to much, I've seen to much.

 

[MikelArteta]

Hamilton

put her on fam during a time you can go alone and maybe suggest yall go out for drinks or some shyt after. i've heard of that group by the way. my lazy ass needs to get back on my networking grnd

continue to make your move to prevent it lol. my situation is rough cause although this girl is from my city, she lives around campus in Hamilton so I wont be seeing her unless i head out there, schools done or i wait til reading week

 

[Ohene]

Hamilton

hamilton is dope fam. perfect for a student campus.

i wouldnt wanna be in an upscale environment like U of T St George is. But Hamilton gives you the perfect mix of being urban while still having your own little community without being away from everyone like Waterloo or something. Hard to explain but I fukks with Hamilton lol

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Met a chick that was just my type at work. She was with her friends and we caught the vibe instantly.

Was able to give my # but found out shes moving to Cali

All I want is a petite redbone with a pretty face and "proper" personality

 

[MikelArteta]

I just look at Hamilton as the arm pit of Ontario



Any chick I've known from Hamilton has been a single mother, skank, crack head

hamilton is dope fam. perfect for a student campus.

i wouldnt wanna be in an upscale environment like U of T St George is. But Hamilton gives you the perfect mix of being urban while still having your own little community without being away from everyone like Waterloo or something. Hard to explain but I fukks with Hamilton lol

 

[MikelArteta]

What state you live in?

Met a chick that was just my type at work. She was with her friends and we caught the vibe instantly.

Was able to give my # but found out shes moving to Cali

All I want is a petite redbone with a pretty face and "proper" personality

 

[MikelArteta]

I just saw a movie on Netflix that reminded me of my life cept the happy ending in the last ten min

 

[Action Mike]

All I want is a petite redbone with a pretty face and "proper" personality

 

[Ohene]

I just look at Hamilton as the arm pit of Ontario



Any chick I've known from Hamilton has been a single mother, skank, crack head

lol thats why we as students dont be exploring like that farthest we'll go is ancaster, only time i'd go downtown is clubbing or to get my haircut.

but around campus and within a small radius I love that place. fukk the GTA...it aint ever did shyt for me

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Doesn't matter if they're booksmart, introspective or whatever, their inability to remove emotion from their thoughts is always going to make them less logical in arguments.

shyt breh, that was the last chick. She was intelligent, very booksmart, straight A student, honors, all that shyt and for a while I thought we were on the same level but you start to notice these lapses in logic and realize that booksmart does not mean she's mature or able to hold a real conversation about relationship issues.

 

[MikelArteta]

Hess village?

What's the black pop like at McMaster?

lol thats why we as students dont be exploring like that farthest we'll go is ancaster, only time i'd go downtown is clubbing or to get my haircut.

but around campus and within a small radius I love that place. fukk the GTA...it aint ever did shyt for me