Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[RealAssanova]

I'm getting at this chick who's a science student at my alma mater and came across an internship for people in her specific program and year this morning when I was looking to see if there were any job postings for accountants / financial analysts etc. Shes younger than me so earlier she was trying to pick my brain about my experience post grad and I told her I would put her up on game on how to make the best out of university. Thus when I saw the posting I figured hmmm, maybe she'd be interested.

But how fukked up is it that before telling her to check out the opportunity I thought to myself, "what if me telling her this leads her to think I'm some sort of nice guy, or putting her on because I want something in return? and I get friend zoned accordingly." I say this because people always have their guards up nowadays..

I still put her on because she's black and I like to see my nikkas prosper. Thus I will offer resume help if she asks and what not but its a shame what the dating game can to do somebody. shyt will have somebody holding themselves from doing a gesture just because they're afraid of how it might come across to the opposite sex.

"I'm not gonna call him tonight because I called him two nights ago. I'll look desperate if I do so it's his turn to call me." - But obivously you want to talk to dude if youre thinking about him, so why not just pick up the phone and call?

"I'm not gonna drive her to work even though its along the way. Do I look like a chauffer? fukk that shyt." - But if its on your way to work then is it really an issue? If anything those rides to work could be an opportunity to really get to know one another.

LOL not to sound all corny but this is just something I've observed over the years and I feel its a shame. This is why I feel as human beings (not just men, not just women) we should all strive to be a little more communal with one another but somewhere along the line in this dog eat dog world our social skills and compassion went down the drain. Think of all the opportunities people including you and I couldve missed out on as a result of having too much pride or being too meticulous with their social interactions. Job opportunities, networking opportunities, dating opportunities, opportunities to learn etc etc. It is ridiculous.

i am dealing with this same exact issue. Just went to a networking event on thursday...UFSC (urban financial group) and i got dis chick in my monday classes who also is majoring in finance...that i'm somewhat feeling and i think is feelin me too...that i might wanna put on game about this organization and invite her out to their next event with me and my dude.

We all of the same ethnic background too...but i'm on da fence...by doin this, would she start to look at me like a brother?

and for the record...the physical contact was broken 1st week of class....we graduated now to gentle arm strokes and i also have her in one of my groups for the semester.

 

[RealAssanova]

Women really do have short memories:

This chick I've been dating is a supervisor at my boys job. They aren't getting along at work and she takes it out on me. So in one hour it goes from hey I miss you to fukk off I don't wanna see you.

So I go through these motions








So I leave it alone. She calls: I ignore. She text I ignore. It got to the point where she forgot she said fukk off to me and got mad I was ignoring her text

Next thing I know she is at my door and she refuses to leave until I threaten to call the police. She spends the next day trying to convince me she was there to apologize but then tried to flip the blame saying when I do something wrong she quick to forgive but I can't do the same. These bytches b. I never tell her to fukk off or anything. But now she wanna see me before my two week business trip. I'm good though

yesssss breh!

 

[Ohene]

i am dealing with this same exact issue. Just went to a networking event on thursday...UFSC (urban financial group) and i got dis chick in my monday classes who also is majoring in finance...that i'm somewhat feeling and i think is feelin me too...that i might wanna put on game about this organization and invite her out to their next event with me and my dude.

We all of the same ethnic background too...but i'm on da fence...by doin this, would she start to look at me like a brother?

and for the record...the physical contact was broken 1st week of class....we graduated now to gentle arm strokes and i also have her in one of my groups for the semester.

put her on fam during a time you can go alone and maybe suggest yall go out for drinks or some shyt after. i've heard of that group by the way. my lazy ass needs to get back on my networking grnd

continue to make your move to prevent it lol. my situation is rough cause although this girl is from my city, she lives around campus in Hamilton so I wont be seeing her unless i head out there, schools done or i wait til reading week

 

[MikelArteta]

I kind of miss that innocece that thinking women were princesses and the love stories I would be fed how it all works out in the end

Its literally coming out of the matrix where the matrix will have you all wide eyed, sunshine and roses but now I know to much, I've seen to much.

 

[MikelArteta]

Hamilton

put her on fam during a time you can go alone and maybe suggest yall go out for drinks or some shyt after. i've heard of that group by the way. my lazy ass needs to get back on my networking grnd

continue to make your move to prevent it lol. my situation is rough cause although this girl is from my city, she lives around campus in Hamilton so I wont be seeing her unless i head out there, schools done or i wait til reading week

 

[Ohene]

Hamilton

hamilton is dope fam. perfect for a student campus.

i wouldnt wanna be in an upscale environment like U of T St George is. But Hamilton gives you the perfect mix of being urban while still having your own little community without being away from everyone like Waterloo or something. Hard to explain but I fukks with Hamilton lol

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Met a chick that was just my type at work. She was with her friends and we caught the vibe instantly.

Was able to give my # but found out shes moving to Cali

All I want is a petite redbone with a pretty face and "proper" personality

 

[MikelArteta]

I just look at Hamilton as the arm pit of Ontario



Any chick I've known from Hamilton has been a single mother, skank, crack head

hamilton is dope fam. perfect for a student campus.

i wouldnt wanna be in an upscale environment like U of T St George is. But Hamilton gives you the perfect mix of being urban while still having your own little community without being away from everyone like Waterloo or something. Hard to explain but I fukks with Hamilton lol

 

[MikelArteta]

What state you live in?

Met a chick that was just my type at work. She was with her friends and we caught the vibe instantly.

Was able to give my # but found out shes moving to Cali

All I want is a petite redbone with a pretty face and "proper" personality

 

[MikelArteta]

I just saw a movie on Netflix that reminded me of my life cept the happy ending in the last ten min

 

[Action Mike]

All I want is a petite redbone with a pretty face and "proper" personality

 

[Ohene]

I just look at Hamilton as the arm pit of Ontario



Any chick I've known from Hamilton has been a single mother, skank, crack head

lol thats why we as students dont be exploring like that farthest we'll go is ancaster, only time i'd go downtown is clubbing or to get my haircut.

but around campus and within a small radius I love that place. fukk the GTA...it aint ever did shyt for me

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Doesn't matter if they're booksmart, introspective or whatever, their inability to remove emotion from their thoughts is always going to make them less logical in arguments.

shyt breh, that was the last chick. She was intelligent, very booksmart, straight A student, honors, all that shyt and for a while I thought we were on the same level but you start to notice these lapses in logic and realize that booksmart does not mean she's mature or able to hold a real conversation about relationship issues.

 

[MikelArteta]

Hess village?

What's the black pop like at McMaster?

lol thats why we as students dont be exploring like that farthest we'll go is ancaster, only time i'd go downtown is clubbing or to get my haircut.

but around campus and within a small radius I love that place. fukk the GTA...it aint ever did shyt for me

 

[Ohene]

Feminists claim they want equality but what they really want is power without responsibility. They desire both male and female privilege consolidated into one, thus upsetting the gender balance. They want the privileges of being women (privilege such as being economically provided for, getting opportunities based on their beauty and protection from physical harm by others) as well as male privilege (authority, respect for having a career, to not be judged so harshly based on appearance etc) which is neither pragmatic nor realistic, it ignores the biological basis for how the genders perceive each other in the ignorance that "everything is a social construct!" and we are mostly "the same" when quite evidently this is not the case.

damn at the end

the fact of the matter is that while that girl does not teach her children/daughters to rely on men the media will for her.

her daughters will see damsel after damsel in disney movies getting saved and praised by male characters

her daughters will see teenage men woo girls in highschool to be their dates for the weekend; doing chores in the house to ask parents to borrow the car, working part time to get money for gas and dating, and doing all sorts of things to get the woman's attn in class.

her daughters will see dudes proposing to women in extravagant romantic ways, asking for their hands in marriage

etc etc.

the dude was right in a lot that he said. Men are taught to make women happy at an extremely young age. We get taken advantage of early on when reality hits the result is what we have today: a dating game full of vultures.