Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

Feminists claim they want equality but what they really want is power without responsibility. They desire both male and female privilege consolidated into one, thus upsetting the gender balance. They want the privileges of being women (privilege such as being economically provided for, getting opportunities based on their beauty and protection from physical harm by others) as well as male privilege (authority, respect for having a career, to not be judged so harshly based on appearance etc) which is neither pragmatic nor realistic, it ignores the biological basis for how the genders perceive each other in the ignorance that "everything is a social construct!" and we are mostly "the same" when quite evidently this is not the case.

damn at the end

the fact of the matter is that while that girl does not teach her children/daughters to rely on men the media will for her.

her daughters will see damsel after damsel in disney movies getting saved and praised by male characters

her daughters will see teenage men woo girls in highschool to be their dates for the weekend; doing chores in the house to ask parents to borrow the car, working part time to get money for gas and dating, and doing all sorts of things to get the woman's attn in class.

her daughters will see dudes proposing to women in extravagant romantic ways, asking for their hands in marriage

etc etc.

the dude was right in a lot that he said. Men are taught to make women happy at an extremely young age. We get taken advantage of early on when reality hits the result is what we have today: a dating game full of vultures.

 

[EA]

shyt breh, that was the last chick. She was intelligent, very booksmart, straight A student, honors, all that shyt and for a while I thought we were on the same level but you start to notice these lapses in logic and realize that booksmart does not mean she's mature or able to hold a real conversation about relationship issues.

Some of the biggest bird brain statements I've heard came from a girl that did the same course as me in university. I remember one time when she said she didn't like a particular girl because she was promiscuous, I responded with "But aren't some of your friends promiscuous?" & she replied with "Yeah, but at least they're discrete about it." I sat there looking like and thinking "bytch you do a Maths degree and probably just said the dumbest thing I ever heard"

 

[Ohene]

Hess village?

What's the black pop like at McMaster?

man the black population is kinda small. You almost have to get plugged into it from other people or else youll be lonely / stuck around white people. In my first few years thats how it was...up until my senior year where i came back to school not really knowing anybody and after bagging some black girls iI'd get invited to parties and stuff. I had that mysterious thing going for me cause girls wouldnt see me at social gatherings or club meetings like the rest of the other black folks.

its a very small population though that consists mainly of Nigerians

 

[MikelArteta]

sounds like most universities in Canada

Nigerians and ghanians

man the black population is kinda small. You almost have to get plugged into it from other people or else youll be lonely / stuck around white people. In my first few years thats how it was...up until my senior year where i came back to school not really knowing anybody and after bagging some black girls iI'd get invited to parties and stuff. I had that mysterious thing going for me cause girls wouldnt see me at social gatherings or club meetings like the rest of the other black folks.

its a very small population though that consists mainly of Nigerians

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

What state you live in?

GA now and all these hoes are on that fake shyt plus down here the ass is king.

I'm a slim tall basketball built (nh) and like them small/proportionate. I've never been a "thickness over all" person

 

[jadillac]

brehs, ignore the "bytch", "ho" & "Pimpin" language, and listen to what this dude is saying from purely a male/female psyche standpoint.

He's a pimp but SOME the stuff he says is applicable for dealing w/ women out here.

Listen from 10:55 on.

 

[RealAssanova]

put her on fam during a time you can go alone and maybe suggest yall go out for drinks or some shyt after. i've heard of that group by the way. my lazy ass needs to get back on my networking grnd

continue to make your move to prevent it lol. my situation is rough cause although this girl is from my city, she lives around campus in Hamilton so I wont be seeing her unless i head out there, schools done or i wait til reading week

i can't go with her alone and ditch my nikka...he was da one dat put me on with this organization last semester in da 1st place....

he already thinks i shud move to her ASAP so i can put him on game with of her friends....but i'm taking my time.

we gonna exchange digits soon...but i don't wanna press her for em....

 

[Ohene]

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[jadillac]

brehs, always keep in mind, if a chick WANTS to hang out w/ you, she will. She will make time, do whatever she has to.

I've had chicks drop their plans during the day and drive 30 miles to meet w/ me for a freaking movie. So if they want to they will.

The point is, if they tell you they're "busy/booked up or tired", put them on the "hot seat", so to speak. Meaning they get 2 times or so to use that excuse then after that, cut them off (unless u really know for a fact she's legit busy). Don't ask them anymore if they want to hang out, b/c then ur playing yourself and stroking their ego. But all they're doing is basically saying they don't prioritize YOU as being important enough, but they don't wanna cut you off just in case they're lonely or bored sometime, you'll be around.

Don't be an option, period.

 

[jeh]

I just saw a movie on Netflix that reminded me of my life cept the happy ending in the last ten min

What movie on Netflix

 

[MikelArteta]

What movie on Netflix

Definitely, Maybe

 

[MikelArteta]

brehs, always keep in mind, if a chick WANTS to hang out w/ you, she will. She will make time, do whatever she has to.

I've had chicks drop their plans during the day and drive 30 miles to meet w/ me for a freaking movie. So if they want to they will.

The point is, if they tell you they're "busy/booked up or tired", put them on the "hot seat", so to speak. Meaning they get 2 times or so to use that excuse then after that, cut them off (unless u really know for a fact she's legit busy). Don't ask them anymore if they want to hang out, b/c then ur playing yourself and stroking their ego. But all they're doing is basically saying they don't prioritize YOU as being important enough, but they don't wanna cut you off just in case they're lonely or bored sometime, you'll be around.

Don't be an option, period.

 

[jeh]

Definitely, Maybe

sounds interesting.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Feminists claim they want equality but what they really want is power without responsibility. They desire both male and female privilege consolidated into one, thus upsetting the gender balance. They want the privileges of being women (privilege such as being economically provided for, getting opportunities based on their beauty and protection from physical harm by others) as well as male privilege (authority, respect for having a career, to not be judged so harshly based on appearance etc) which is neither pragmatic nor realistic, it ignores the biological basis for how the genders perceive each other in the ignorance that "everything is a social construct!" and we are mostly "the same" when quite evidently this is not the case.

fukk!, he hit her with that Ether in the end and she couldn't even get the words out her mouth

 

[MikelArteta]

sounds interesting.

wasnt bad at all reminded me of my life, dude had 3 major relationships and was recanting all of them

i was like oh sh8t its my life, cept i don thave the beautiful ending