this is just my
opinion, and I could be way off, but.....
Many women these days have "pieces of men". They'll piece together as many men as they need til they feel
somewhat complete.
Women you meet(especially on the internet) often have "situations" in the background. Probably 1 or 2 dudes. Often times these dudes are guys they're physically attracted to and WISH they could have a real relationship with. But the dudes aint having that b/c they know what she's about, so the chick just settles for a physical(sexual) relationship, a spot on his "team", and hope it develops further at some point. These dudes may take her out rarely to a comedy show/concert or something just to keep her hopes up, or make her think he cares..... but nothing more than that. But in her mind she's holding out hope.
1 dude on the side is "perfectly fine" for most chicks, 2 dudes on the side is "acceptable/ok". Any more than 2 and she may start to feel ashamed
So they got the dudes fulfilling the physical part, but she REALLY wants to feel special, so she starts looking for an extra dude to fulfill her "emotional/relationship" needs. This extra guy, she might be somewhat physically attracted to him, but she's moreso attracted to his qualities. He's a "nice" guy, probably educated, nice clothes etc . So to him, she'll act differently, she'll shy away certain topics(like sexual stuff), she'll put out a "good girl" image to make him view her in a different light. He's gonna be the one to talk on the phone, take her to dinner, movies, open car doors/flowers, etc. She may pay her way sometimes on a date, but he's really only there as another "piece" to make her feel ladylike. Deep down he knows she's probably frontin

and deep down she knows that he knows she's frontin

and b/c she knows he's still a man and he wants sex, she'll drop little sexual hints from time to time to keep him chasing the carrot, but she really doesn't need him for that b/c she has the other dudes for that.
She'll keep extra guy around but possibly still be searching for another extra guy with more money,
Ultimately, she long-term would hope extra guy has got some "sucker" in him and falls for her with little to no sex occuring, b/c once she does give it to him it'll be a wrap. Then if extra guy get's super serious she'll eventually cut the other dudes off and settle down w/ extra guy.