Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Dealing with women is really a mental thing, IMO.

Luckily for me I have a father that kept me ahead of the game. Some of the things I learned were pretty simple, even if it took me a while to really learn them.

1) Always, always, always observe someones actions. fukk whatever comes from their mouth, use your eyes and your ears. For example, I had a girl that I knew for about 10 years about a month ago. When I came over shawty crib, she had no condoms. That right there was a sign that she wanted to trap someone. I still hit, but I had a condom that I used. Later, she tried to tell me that she wanted a bf but I could not commit to her no matter how long I knew her for. I did not know her on that level, and we only fukked once. Shawty sent me screenshots of my instagram asking about bytches, called me asking me about bytches, etc. Plus I already knew that she was a whore and only cared about what she wanted. She said she couldn't fukk me anymore without catching feelings, I said fukk it, cool. The funny thing is she ended up telling me that she didn't want to be with anyone anymore, which was fine with me. A week later I got a call that she was pregnant. Basically nothing she said mattered, the fact that fukked me and I knew about her past actions were all I needed to get outta that.

2) Women only want what they can't have. This doesn't mean you can't open up at all. This means you never give anyone everything. However, you should never make yourself emotionally available. 9/10 women want this because it gives them power. Once you emotionally invest in someone it's like being a puppet and giving them your strings. It will not work to your advantage. Women will always flock to someone who doesn't give them that power.

3) Always assume there are other men. Especially when dealing with someone attractive. It will be virtually painless in the long run when you assume you aren't the only one, specifically because you will not care about certain things. Women will tell you all sorts of things to try convince you that there is no one else, when in reality whenever they don't pick up that call or answer that text, it is because they are talking to that person.

4) Be true to yourself. This goes hand in hand with #2. If someone wants you to do something that personally goes against what you believe, then don't do it. The only time this is acceptable is when someone will do the same for you. Trust me, there is not a lot of women out here that will sacrifice for you, unless they sacrifice that for everyone. 9/10 when you tell a female no, they will want to fight for it or find you more appealing since you aren't a pushover.
 

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You pretty much already know what happened. "Homie" most likely was doing his thing and walked out with some dough after he was done. Sounds like she was chilling with some hood dude, and after he finished her off, he went in that purse.

9 times out of 10 when women pull that disappearing act, they got another man on the line. When it falls sour with him they come back on some sooo sorry tip. It's so amazingly predictable that it's like they are all reading off the same script.

They are. i remember a quote my dad use to tell me when i was growing up. When your 14 you think you know everything, but he told me
" It doesn't matter who a woman is or where she is from, they all went to the same school."
Being in high school it didnt make much sense. But now as a 33 year old man that shyt was so on point. Shout out to the real dads out there putting their son up on game
 

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The danger of messing with a emotional leech.



Early on they know how to be a reflection of you and they continue the act of being exactly who you want her to be so you click and fill fulfilled. It’s all an act to draw you in, you think you are being fulfilled but you actually being drained. They bring you to such a high that you will cling to those highs and when they finally reveal themselves and then you feel the constant lows. It’s like a rollercoaster; the rollercoaster nature made it so passionate, and of course you miss the highs of the rollercoaster. But the highs only felt so great because the lows were so low. People get addicted to the rollercoaster, and it causes them to repeatedly get paired with emotional leeches. Don't be that man.



Every time you deal with one of these women it will further cement conduits in your brain that what you experienced with her is love, except it’s not passion and the rollercoaster’s of emotions are not love.
 

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If you can walk away without showing anger and never look back as a man whenever disrespected, dumped, cheated on, flaked

You win

How do you win?

Because the majority of men she has dealt with have begged , pleaded, accepted disrespect, hung around and accepted demotion and breadcrumbs, got angry and lashed out. Compromised his values.

Yeah you may never hear from her again but who cares. Until the day she dies she will always think of the guy who didn't put up with her sh$t
 

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Help me with a Tinder opener

Matched with this dime ass bytch, help me with a opener brehs.

Her profile text says "Ur probably not my type"

I was thinking something along the lines of "ur right" to get the hook in. Dudes probably sweatin her talmbout yes I am, what yall think?
 

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what is this crap I keep seeing on people lips, It appears I see it on more women than men, had to do some googling and I guess they call it fever blisters or something like that, I saw 1 chick trying to cover it with a lot of makeup, but you cant put makeup on the lip
 

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Your not my type either I meant to swipe left

If a girl finds you attractive doesn't matter what you say


Help me with a Tinder opener

Matched with this dime ass bytch, help me with a opener brehs.

Her profile text says "Ur probably not my type"

I was thinking something along the lines of "ur right" to get the hook in. Dudes probably sweatin her talmbout yes I am, what yall think?
 
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