Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[EA]

Problem is people keep reaffirming utter nonsense, especially when it comes from women... because they want that woman's affection. Relationships require commitment, which means staying together IN SPITE of emotional ups and downs. Women are taught to be impulsive, or in other words, act on their immediate emotions. In order for something to work, you have to stick it out, and that's simply not being taught.

This line of think is exactly what I'm wrestling with right now. Given I'm the type that only talks to one girl at a time, I don't see how I'm supposed to get into a meaningful relationship if it's socially acceptable for my girl to keep her options open or look for an emotional spark elsewhere whilst we're going through our ups and downs. There's a lack of accountability.

 

[ProfessionallyTrill]

Honestly brethren, don't even trip over these women. No need to get angry at their antics. Realize the breed you are dealing with in this time period and adjust your mentality accordingly. You can't expect a kid to talk rocket science, but if you came upon the rare one that could, you'd be astounded. Don't expect super loyal women in this day and age, but if you find one, appreciate the rarity. Everything comes from setting your expectations accordingly.

If a woman flakes, it should be no big deal, because you've set up in your mind that there was a high possibility that she would and you simply had interchangeable plans and you won't miss a beat in enjoying your day.

Lesson learned. Should've had a backup plan ready in the waits.

It's a damn shame I gotta always have a plan B with these women. Don't even ask me how.

 

[MikelArteta]

This line of think is exactly what I'm wrestling with right now. Given I'm the type that only talks to one girl at a time, I don't see how I'm supposed to get into a meaningful relationship if it's socially acceptable for my girl to keep her options open or look for an emotional spark elsewhere whilst we're going through our ups and downs. There's a lack of accountability.

have to find a good girl, which peeps sig isn't that easy.

I'm the same as you I only focus on a girl at a time, im not into this multi dating, talking to ten different brehettes

but its not because its stressful or whatever, just that rarely do I come across women who meet my standards so when I do and actually want to get to know her, its rare.

but just look at desirous thread and thats what your dealing with basically, women of today want a gaggle of men, want to keep all their social media accounts and alwas seem at a beckons call ready to detach from you and attach to someone else right away.

 

[MikelArteta]

thats why i try not to mess with women from broken homes i know im being judgmental but if you've never seen the dedication and the ups and downs of marriage right in your face, you have the mentality that many of these women have, once the glow of the honeymoon fades they hop right into the next guy who offers that spark, they never seen loyalty of a woman to a man. I'm not saying broken women are :kony:, but hell women will judge me for my height and car, so what if i have my own standards.

And I'm done messing with women who aren't religious , I keep on going back to the bible verse "God is within her, she will not fail". Really only once in my life have I messed with a real christian girl and yeah I was young and stupid

 

[Womb Raider]

dont blame you, save yourself
theres hotlines and rehab instead of being a emotional tampon

It sucks tbh.

I remember you questioning whether you should continue on with her or stand on your principles. You knew the right choice, and now you are seeing it verified. One of the most uncomfortable and draining things to deal with is a woman who uses suicide and depression and holds it over your head. Be very careful in how you eject, but you know that you need to part.

Tbh, I'm really not sure how to do it.

 

[MikelArteta]

It sucks tbh.


Tbh, I'm really not sure how to do it.

she will prob be fine, i remember my ex fiance was always on that suicidal tip, suicide and depression, crying over getting a 93 in school and ish that type of messed up type broad, every day she'd tell me how thi sis the end and all that.

Its manipulation tactics, give her a 1-800 number, check up as a friend once in a while and don't make your life harder than it is imo

my ex fiance is still alive today, smiling with her masters making over 6 figures at a bank

 

[EA]

have to find a good girl, which peeps sig isn't that easy.

I'm the same as you I only focus on a girl at a time, im not into this multi dating, talking to ten different brehettes

but its not because its stressful or whatever, just that rarely do I come across women who meet my standards so when I do and actually want to get to know her, its rare.

but just look at desirous thread and thats what your dealing with basically, women of today want a gaggle of men, want to keep all their social media accounts and alwas seem at a beckons call ready to detach from you and attach to someone else right away.

I'm learning to cut my losses early with girls that clearly aren't for me so I've got more chances of finding a good girl and being able to build with her at a pace I like but I'll be lying if I said it isn't frustrating when you meet 3/4 girls in a row and all of them have problems that are too much to deal with or they have red flags.

As hilarious as the Desirious thread is, I'm pretty sure that it's more commonplace than a lot of us would like to imagine. The saddest part of that story isn't even her being active on Tinder, it's her boyfriend supposedly being ok with it. We honestly can't expect women to hold themselves accountable if the men closest to them won't even do it.

 

[Womb Raider]

she will prob be fine, i remember my ex fiance was always on that suicidal tip, suicide and depression, crying over getting a 93 in school and ish that type of messed up type broad, every day she'd tell me how thi sis the end and all that.

Its manipulation tactics, give her a 1-800 number, check up as a friend once in a while and don't make your life harder than it is imo

my ex fiance is still alive today, smiling with her masters making over 6 figures at a bank

But what would she be trying to manipulate me for? She even told me to feel free to walk away from the situation after learning this about her. I'll still be close to her but I can't keeping fukking her. I don't have that in me.

 

[MikelArteta]

But what would she be trying to manipulate me for? She even told me to feel free to walk away from the situation after learning this about her. I'll still be close to her but I can't keeping fukking her. I don't have that in me.

just be a friend then

 

[Womb Raider]

just be a friend then

but what exactly do I say....and this is definitely a conversation to have in person right

 

[TRUEST]

Just got out the shower. Got the call...

FLAKED.

GTFOH


My homie needta hit me back. I'm hittin Compound or somethin. fukk this.

the one thing i've realized with this flaking business is, chicks flake a lot when you haven't fuccked them. after u've fuccked, i've found that they never do and if they have to cancel for wahtever reason, they are quick to suggest other times to meet up.

the reason i bring that up is, whenever u do meet a chick and u fucck, dont fucck her thinking haa, i'm hitting it now, im sure i'll be hitting it again. nah. u goto fucck her like thats the last time u gon fucck. so when she leaves that night, u have engraved urself in her head.

but i'll tell you this, if a chick flakes u, the best thing u can do is.....SAY NOTHING!!!!!

her: hey, sorry i cant make it tonight
you:
an hour later
her: you there?
you: who's this?
her:it's like that?
you: huh?
her: whatever
you:
next day or a couple of days later
her: hey
you: what's good
her: what you doing tonight
you: <you close the deal here>

that's what silence gets you. if you haven't fuccked a chick yet, never ever display ur anger to her when she flakes. that reeks of desperation. matter of fact, only time i flip out on chicks for flaking or being late is when we going out to eat. outside of that, i hit them with the silence.

 

[Papa LaBas]

DELETE

 

[Mr210]

Ever been with a chick and she had major surgery

 

[MikelArteta]

Silence is golden

the one thing i've realized with this flaking business is, chicks flake a lot when you haven't fuccked them. after u've fuccked, i've found that they never do and if they have to cancel for wahtever reason, they are quick to suggest other times to meet up.

the reason i bring that up is, whenever u do meet a chick and u fucck, dont fucck her thinking haa, i'm hitting it now, im sure i'll be hitting it again. nah. u goto fucck her like thats the last time u gon fucck. so when she leaves that night, u have engraved urself in her head.

but i'll tell you this, if a chick flakes u, the best thing u can do is.....SAY NOTHING!!!!!

her: hey, sorry i cant make it tonight
you:
an hour later
her: you there?
you: who's this?
her:it's like that?
you: huh?
her: whatever
you:
next day or a couple of days later
her: hey
you: what's good
her: what you doing tonight
you: <you close the deal here>

that's what silence gets you. if you haven't fuccked a chick yet, never ever display ur anger to her when she flakes. that reeks of desperation. matter of fact, only time i flip out on chicks for flaking or being late is when we going out to eat. outside of that, i hit them with the silence.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I remember you questioning whether you should continue on with her or stand on your principles. You knew the right choice, and now you are seeing it verified. One of the most uncomfortable and draining things to deal with is a woman who uses suicide and depression and holds it over your head. Be very careful in how you eject, but you know that you need to part.

I dealt with this broad in '12 who would cut herself live on the phone with me saying nobody cares about her.
then she'd tell me to tell her I love her so she could stop.



I never banged.