Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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but what exactly do I say....and this is definitely a conversation to have in person right

Just stop sleeping with her and let her know that you two better cut this thing short before too many feelings get involved, but you will be there for her as a friend.
 

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thats why i try not to mess with women from broken homes i know im being judgmental but if you've never seen the dedication and the ups and downs of marriage right in your face, you have the mentality that many of these women have, once the glow of the honeymoon fades they hop right into the next guy who offers that spark, they never seen loyalty of a woman to a man. I'm not saying broken women are :kony:, but hell women will judge me for my height and car, so what if i have my own standards.

And I'm done messing with women who aren't religious :pacspit:, I keep on going back to the bible verse "God is within her, she will not fail". Really only once in my life have I messed with a real christian girl and yeah I was young and stupid :snoop:


shyt the biggest skanks are religious.
go to the strip club and ask them hoes how many of em are Christian
 

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I dealt with this broad in '12 who would cut herself live on the phone with me saying nobody cares about her.
then she'd tell me to tell her I love her so she could stop.
:mindblown:


I never banged.

You made a wise choice in not doing that. If you sense a HINT of craziness, do NOT proceed. It's unbelievable how crazy and draining things can get.
 

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You made a wise choice in not doing that. If you sense a HINT of craziness, do NOT proceed. It's unbelievable how crazy and draining things can get.

I tried to hit later that year but she wouldn't respond.
I've met up with her once and felt her ass on the porch but that's about it.
this broad used to talk about being in a relationship and shyt.
:mjlol:
 

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Had a bad Somalian chick try to play a nikka as a trick....:wow:Put her in check in a respectful manner with logic with no name calling....saw the pain in her eyes as she stuttered and came with the generalization about black men and men in general.:banderas:


No matter how bad a female a chick is don't ever lose your morals and be willing to say what's needed. :sas2:
 

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Aye bruhs, lemme get y'alls take on a situation I got going on.

Had a Tinder date with a chick last week. It was okay, but she was wasn't really my type at all and I had no plans of ever seeing her again. She originally was saying she just wanted to be friends blah blah blah before we met, jokingly calling me her best friend, but me being the cocky nikka I am and knowing what I'm capable of I figured I could still smash even though she said that. During the date she was giving off the 'just friends' vibe, so I mentally hit her with the :camby: mid date, even though she was pretty sexy.

During the week after the date she would text me, and I was short...barely caring, and ignoring her most of the time if I was doing something. She texts me on Friday and somehow she ended up inviting me to her apartment. "Just to hang out" She said...nothing sexual. I wasn't doing anything that night so figured this is the last time I'm going to try to hook up with her. If this fails.....bushes.

I get there Friday and it's like she's a different girl. Funny, smart, just really enjoyably to kick it with. One thing led to another and I ended up getting her naked in bed after giving her a massage. I try to kiss her at first and she's like "no....best friends aren't allowed to kiss me"...but then a few minutes later she lets me kiss her. She did this with everything, she'd say no when I tried to take her bra off...then she took it off. She said no, when I started felling on her booty, then she let me feel on her booty. I try to finger her and she's bucks me off so I didn't try again after that. She was telling me earlier in the night how she tells dudes she just wants to be friends and not hook up on Tinder and they don't think she's serious, and she ends up throwing em in the bushes. I'm thinking to myself "you said you just wanted to be friends with me and I got you naked grindin your ass on my dikk" So I'm not sure what to believe. What do y'all think this chick's motives are?
 

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man nobody can say for sure. she probably doesn't want to 'come off as a ho' so she does that friend routine, but anyways, best avoid her. She sounds like the type that could end up 'regretting' her encounter with you and you know where that can lead.
 

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Aye bruhs, lemme get y'alls take on a situation I got going on.

Had a Tinder date with a chick last week. It was okay, but she was wasn't really my type at all and I had no plans of ever seeing her again. She originally was saying she just wanted to be friends blah blah blah before we met, jokingly calling me her best friend, but me being the cocky nikka I am and knowing what I'm capable of I figured I could still smash even though she said that. During the date she was giving off the 'just friends' vibe, so I mentally hit her with the :camby: mid date, even though she was pretty sexy.

During the week after the date she would text me, and I was short...barely caring, and ignoring her most of the time if I was doing something. She texts me on Friday and somehow she ended up inviting me to her apartment. "Just to hang out" She said...nothing sexual. I wasn't doing anything that night so figured this is the last time I'm going to try to hook up with her. If this fails.....bushes.

I get there Friday and it's like she's a different girl. Funny, smart, just really enjoyably to kick it with. One thing led to another and I ended up getting her naked in bed after giving her a massage. I try to kiss her at first and she's like "no....best friends aren't allowed to kiss me"...but then a few minutes later she lets me kiss her. She did this with everything, she'd say no when I tried to take her bra off...then she took it off. She said no, when I started felling on her booty, then she let me feel on her booty. I try to finger her and she's bucks me off so I didn't try again after that. She was telling me earlier in the night how she tells dudes she just wants to be friends and not hook up on Tinder and they don't think she's serious, and she ends up throwing em in the bushes. I'm thinking to myself "you said you just wanted to be friends with me and I got you naked grindin your ass on my dikk" So I'm not sure what to believe. What do y'all think this chick's motives are?

RUN:beli:

If you knew a chick for a while and she was bull shyttin, that's one thing...but you don't know this broad and she could be nuts
 

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RUN:beli:

If you knew a chick for a while and she was bull shyttin, that's one thing...but you don't know this broad and she could be nuts

exactly
just meeting a chick and she calls you best friend, and paying all these games already

lifes to short for crazy ass up and down chicks
 

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My situation is different though. Not looking to seriously date these hoes. I'm 23, looking for chicks who I can just kick it with and fukk...nothing more than that.

I'm working in southern Europe for a year right now and only have 5 months left out here. Want nothing from this girl but being able to chill with her and have her as part of my team. You're saying run like I'm trying to wife her or something. Just as a short term consistent smash you still think I should run?
 

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My situation is different though. Not looking to seriously date these hoes. I'm 23, looking for chicks who I can just kick it with and fukk...nothing more than that.

I'm working in southern Europe for a year right now and only have 5 months left out here. Want nothing from this girl but being able to chill with her and have her as part of my team. You're saying run like I'm trying to wife her or something. Just as a short term consistent smash you still think I should run?
Keep doing you and trying to fukk bruh. Dont put any thought into it
 

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when it comes to women sometimes you just have to do what feels right. as long as you aint simping...generally the less thought and thus effort you put into it the better
 

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Lesson learned. Should've had a backup plan ready in the waits.

It's a damn shame I gotta always have a plan B with these women. Don't even ask me how.

that backup plan (if its another chick) is bad karma. i try to set up multiple dates in the same day. i dont cancel because i believe its a very evil thing to do to someone.
Aye bruhs, lemme get y'alls take on a situation I got going on.

Had a Tinder date with a chick last week. It was okay, but she was wasn't really my type at all and I had no plans of ever seeing her again. She originally was saying she just wanted to be friends blah blah blah before we met, jokingly calling me her best friend, but me being the cocky nikka I am and knowing what I'm capable of I figured I could still smash even though she said that. During the date she was giving off the 'just friends' vibe, so I mentally hit her with the :camby: mid date, even though she was pretty sexy.

During the week after the date she would text me, and I was short...barely caring, and ignoring her most of the time if I was doing something. She texts me on Friday and somehow she ended up inviting me to her apartment. "Just to hang out" She said...nothing sexual. I wasn't doing anything that night so figured this is the last time I'm going to try to hook up with her. If this fails.....bushes.

I get there Friday and it's like she's a different girl. Funny, smart, just really enjoyably to kick it with. One thing led to another and I ended up getting her naked in bed after giving her a massage. I try to kiss her at first and she's like "no....best friends aren't allowed to kiss me"...but then a few minutes later she lets me kiss her. She did this with everything, she'd say no when I tried to take her bra off...then she took it off. She said no, when I started felling on her booty, then she let me feel on her booty. I try to finger her and she's bucks me off so I didn't try again after that. She was telling me earlier in the night how she tells dudes she just wants to be friends and not hook up on Tinder and they don't think she's serious, and she ends up throwing em in the bushes. I'm thinking to myself "you said you just wanted to be friends with me and I got you naked grindin your ass on my dikk" So I'm not sure what to believe. What do y'all think this chick's motives are?

u coulda hit that. see, i've noticed, when chicks invite me over to their house, chances are they wanna fukk. 99% of these chicks will give in the minute u give the illusion u about to bounce.

case in point. met up with some chick several months ago. went over to her house at night. whenever i try to feel up on her, she kept brushing me off. so after about 20 minutes of this, in my head, im like fucck it. looked at my watch and i let her see i was looking at my watch. then i just got up and started to walk out the house. she stopped me quickly and said why are u so impatient. long story short, i came back. sat on the couch and this time, whenever i touched her she didnt brush my hand off. we went in her bedroom a lil bit after that and i handled business.

another chick pulled the same thing. i tried grabbing her ass many times and she wasn't having it. i got up and was dead serious on walking out. she pulled me back. and this time, i more than grabbed her ass. i was fingering her and lil after that, we was fuccking.

now, with this situation u just described. i woulda did everything else u did, and if she still wasn't having it, i woulda had her give me a blow job. these days, a lot of girls consider a blowjob as nothing. they will tell u they never fucck on the first date but will end up succking u off, and yet they thinnk that make sense.

the point is, next time u are over a chicks house and shes acting standaoffish. get up and bounce. but dont do it in a angry, im pouting cause i aint got no ass, type of way. do it casually on some "aah fuccck this, i got another place i gotto be." it's an attitude women know how to read well.
 
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