Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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who still uses "papi" she could be a hoe
This broad already talkin bout cuddling and shyt. Smh.
This is in the bag. I just gotta get her over and with my schedule (only 1 day off, will be with my daughter), I'll need to plan my time wisely.
Was suppose to meet up/go on a date with this chick tonight but she quit replying to me out of nowhere about 4 or 5 hours ago. Would've been my 2nd date ever but now it's notand now i'm laying on my bed in the dark listening to Weeknd about to pop some pills
"I should've fukking rolled but I fukking rolled"
If she just disappeared on you after giving you her word, then what does that say about her?
Look at it this way, if she didn't do it this time, she'd do it next time, or the time after that. Better to find out now than before you waste money/time.
She might even text you tomorrow on some, "so sorry, something came up last night. Let's re-plan for another time"
Don't even sweat it. Just hit her back like, "ok, that's cool" and delete her number. Go find another one.
Stay up breh. I know that feel.Was suppose to meet up/go on a date with this chick tonight but she quit replying to me out of nowhere about 4 or 5 hours ago. Would've been my 2nd date ever but now it's not
"I should've fukking rolled but I fukking rolled"
Brandeezy
Superstar
Just looked at this bytch on instagram, a couple days ago she was on a date at the movies jdwjdsjdsjhjhfhjefjw
Chrishaune
Veteran
Don't worry about it breh......There's more women out there that will actually be interested in you. She's doing what you should be doing. Don't focus on one, but date more than one woman to find out what's best for you. Be honest with them about it too. It gets better, trust.
Yeah that chick is a choosie susie. It would be hell tryin to keep her entertained so she dont leave for the next nikka 
Meanwhile, I've cleaned up on POF. This last chicks number I got is a 9. Just a beautiful MFer.
If shes not a catfish (and all signs point to no), I'm deactivating my shyt. Five number exchanges and one smashed in 5 days is success to me. I'll have bout 3-4 bad bytches on the team and for a nikka with a 60 hour work week and has his kid on his days off, I cant juggle like a regular bachelor.
Meanwhile, I've cleaned up on POF. This last chicks number I got is a 9. Just a beautiful MFer.
If shes not a catfish (and all signs point to no), I'm deactivating my shyt. Five number exchanges and one smashed in 5 days is success to me. I'll have bout 3-4 bad bytches on the team and for a nikka with a 60 hour work week and has his kid on his days off, I cant juggle like a regular bachelor.
always hear them latinas are fertile as hell. please where a rubber lolThe Blasian chicks ex-dude that cheated just tried to make her choose. She said she chose me. This dude asked for my number so I told her to give it to him. She said, since he wont stop calling she'll just answer one last time when she comes over tomorrow night
The fact that this nikka is even in the picture at all will keep me from getting too deep into even tho shes bad as hell. She's gonna have to earn me even making her my main. I'll call it the Marathon List
This Dominican chick I recently exchanged #s with sounds even sexier on the phone. "Okay papi." "Yes papi" On the phone w/ her nowLives all the way out in fukkin Acworth
But she down to cook all these seafood dishes for me plus she's slim and pretty faced. The kicker:
Divorced, 29 years old w/ 4 damn kids!Age 7, 5, 3, and 1! Straight FWB status.
KravenMorehead™
Barrel Brothers.®
I didn't write this.
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
The Rejection of Existentialism
The sweet perfume of the Matriarchy that intoxicates its people is, essentially, existentialism. Language means things, and I grow suspicious when definitions of words are changed either deliberately or not. Tragedy today means something occuring that causes such anguish that there can be no easy way to comfort. Every unexpected death is considered a 'tragedy'. But tragedy actually means a choice is involved with the chooser reflecting on his poor choice. People, not knowing their literature, would see and read the "tragedies" and feel 'bad'. Hence, everything that makes us feel 'agony' that cannot be comforted is declared to be a tragedy. It is woman's definition of tragedy.
Ironically, choice is all the rage these days. But it does not mean what it used to mean. A difficult choice meant to accept difficult consequences in the form of suffering, disapproval of others, ostracism, punishment, guilt, and, in general, damnation. Without these tough consequences, choices have no meaning. It is accepting the consequences that gives Antigone her nobility and the unwillingness to do so that makes her sister Ismene less so.
The Matriarchy likes to speak much of the right to choice. What the Matriarchy is really saying is that there are no necessary consequences, that disapproval is only prejudice and guilt only a neurosis. "Do not worry," says the Matriarchy. "Political activism and psychiatry can handle it." We have no-fault divorces as well as no-fault car accidents (hmm, a connection between the two?). Society is now at the point of no-fault choices.
So what is the evil of Matriarchy? It is conflict. Conflict is the evil we must avoid, among the nations of the earth, among our neighbors, and among ourselves. When conflict appears in politics, for example, one is not to stand behind one's principles like a man. Rather, one must be "bi-partisan". If a conflict appears between nations, "diplomacy" must be used. With people, "communication" must be applied (or whatever else they call it). In within ourselves, a conflict emerges. But to feel comfortable in life is to live the life of a cow.
Reason-Revelation. Freedom-Necessity. Democracy-Aristocracy. Good-Evil. Body-Soul. Self-Other. City-Man. Eternity-Time. Being-Nothing. A serious life is being fully aware of the alternatives and thinking about them with all the intensity one brings to bear on life-and-death questions knowing that every choice is a great risk with necessary consequences that are hard to bear. The alternative is blind obedience to "The Way". People following "The Way" do not know any alternatives and their 'happiness' is surface only- they are literally bored to death.
Do you choose to marry... or not? Do you choose to have children... or not? Do you choose to spend your time pursuing the arts... or starting a business... or living a life of leisure? I prefer the "MGTOW" (Men Going Their Own Way) label over the "MRA" (Men's Right Activism). MGTOW has men making choices and living with them. These do include some men getting married and having children. But they are not follow "The Way" because they actually made a choice. I get the impression that MRA adheres to the conflict-resolution with political activism being the solution to the percieved problem: polical inequality (which no doubt legal issues have to be dealt with. But even if they are dealt with, happiness will not magically descend into men's hearts. Legislators cannot create happiness. That is up to us.)
Men are alarmed that the more they know about the Matriarchy and all, the more conflict they sense which can create suffering and agony not just within ourselves but between families, between individuals, and, ultimately, nations. But treat conflict as a source of inspiration, creativity, and strength just as the ancient artists and philosophers did. Like women, we men cannot have our cake and eat it too. But throwing off the shackles of existentialism, which is the existence of a cow, i.e. cowism (hah), our life becomes more enriched and the moments more intense and charged than anything of a conflict-free life. We suffer but we can also laugh. While you may not hear the residents of hte Matriarchy really in 'suffering' (they are on their prozac, their 'feelies' of movies, and other htings to become conflict-free), you also do not hear them laugh. When they do laugh, it is a weak and most pathetic laugh, nothing like the hearty belly-laugh of one intermeshed with life. When weak men laugh, they do a "ehh ehh ehh" artificial type laugh. It is scrawny and annoying. A hearty laugh that echoes the room, no one in the Matriarchy can do it.
The notion of choice and consequences does mean that one never feels at home on Earth. God is attacked today because He brings conflict: good vs evil, heaven vs earth, virtue vs sin, and so on. Jesus did declare that He did not intend to bring peace but "a sword" to divide brother against brother, family against family, and nation against nation. The notion of God is the notion of conflict. Since conflict is considered the only true evil today, God, and all the issues He brings, must be steamrolled into being conflict free. That is why God and religion is only practiced today, even among theologians, as agents of removing conflict. Of love and tolerance.
But without conflict, Love is also dead. Psychologists have put it to death. In its place has been sport sex and 'meaningful relationships'. Should it not be surprising that thanatology or 'death with dignity' is on the way to putting death to death? Coming to terms with the terror of death, Socrates' long and arduous education, learning how to die, will no longer be necessary. For death will not be what it used to be. What will replace it remains to be seen.
If you want out of a monotone existence, take choices and reflect on the conseqences. You will begin to experience the highs and lows of life. You will suffer. But you will also laugh. A wrong choice will spawn tragic thoughts. A right thought will spawn comedic thoughts. Now, life becomes more thrilling than theater. You will travel back to the Matriarchy Kingdoms and find people strapped to home theater set-ups staring passively at people acting the highs and lows of life.
When Maximus threw his weapon at the crowd in "Gladiator", he said, "Are you entertained!?" Well, are you? Are you going to be more entertained by merley existing and watching theater when not working or BEING theater and turning your life in mixes of tragedies and comedies?
Women always choose the former (which is why they are so movie and pop-culture obsessed). They seek boyfriends who are the latter (for it entertains them). Nice Guys and others who follow "The Way" are never interesting to them or anyone else. The nature of the Nice Guy is to avoid conflict at all costs.
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
The Rejection of Existentialism
The sweet perfume of the Matriarchy that intoxicates its people is, essentially, existentialism. Language means things, and I grow suspicious when definitions of words are changed either deliberately or not. Tragedy today means something occuring that causes such anguish that there can be no easy way to comfort. Every unexpected death is considered a 'tragedy'. But tragedy actually means a choice is involved with the chooser reflecting on his poor choice. People, not knowing their literature, would see and read the "tragedies" and feel 'bad'. Hence, everything that makes us feel 'agony' that cannot be comforted is declared to be a tragedy. It is woman's definition of tragedy.
Ironically, choice is all the rage these days. But it does not mean what it used to mean. A difficult choice meant to accept difficult consequences in the form of suffering, disapproval of others, ostracism, punishment, guilt, and, in general, damnation. Without these tough consequences, choices have no meaning. It is accepting the consequences that gives Antigone her nobility and the unwillingness to do so that makes her sister Ismene less so.
The Matriarchy likes to speak much of the right to choice. What the Matriarchy is really saying is that there are no necessary consequences, that disapproval is only prejudice and guilt only a neurosis. "Do not worry," says the Matriarchy. "Political activism and psychiatry can handle it." We have no-fault divorces as well as no-fault car accidents (hmm, a connection between the two?). Society is now at the point of no-fault choices.
So what is the evil of Matriarchy? It is conflict. Conflict is the evil we must avoid, among the nations of the earth, among our neighbors, and among ourselves. When conflict appears in politics, for example, one is not to stand behind one's principles like a man. Rather, one must be "bi-partisan". If a conflict appears between nations, "diplomacy" must be used. With people, "communication" must be applied (or whatever else they call it). In within ourselves, a conflict emerges. But to feel comfortable in life is to live the life of a cow.
Reason-Revelation. Freedom-Necessity. Democracy-Aristocracy. Good-Evil. Body-Soul. Self-Other. City-Man. Eternity-Time. Being-Nothing. A serious life is being fully aware of the alternatives and thinking about them with all the intensity one brings to bear on life-and-death questions knowing that every choice is a great risk with necessary consequences that are hard to bear. The alternative is blind obedience to "The Way". People following "The Way" do not know any alternatives and their 'happiness' is surface only- they are literally bored to death.
Do you choose to marry... or not? Do you choose to have children... or not? Do you choose to spend your time pursuing the arts... or starting a business... or living a life of leisure? I prefer the "MGTOW" (Men Going Their Own Way) label over the "MRA" (Men's Right Activism). MGTOW has men making choices and living with them. These do include some men getting married and having children. But they are not follow "The Way" because they actually made a choice. I get the impression that MRA adheres to the conflict-resolution with political activism being the solution to the percieved problem: polical inequality (which no doubt legal issues have to be dealt with. But even if they are dealt with, happiness will not magically descend into men's hearts. Legislators cannot create happiness. That is up to us.)
Men are alarmed that the more they know about the Matriarchy and all, the more conflict they sense which can create suffering and agony not just within ourselves but between families, between individuals, and, ultimately, nations. But treat conflict as a source of inspiration, creativity, and strength just as the ancient artists and philosophers did. Like women, we men cannot have our cake and eat it too. But throwing off the shackles of existentialism, which is the existence of a cow, i.e. cowism (hah), our life becomes more enriched and the moments more intense and charged than anything of a conflict-free life. We suffer but we can also laugh. While you may not hear the residents of hte Matriarchy really in 'suffering' (they are on their prozac, their 'feelies' of movies, and other htings to become conflict-free), you also do not hear them laugh. When they do laugh, it is a weak and most pathetic laugh, nothing like the hearty belly-laugh of one intermeshed with life. When weak men laugh, they do a "ehh ehh ehh" artificial type laugh. It is scrawny and annoying. A hearty laugh that echoes the room, no one in the Matriarchy can do it.
The notion of choice and consequences does mean that one never feels at home on Earth. God is attacked today because He brings conflict: good vs evil, heaven vs earth, virtue vs sin, and so on. Jesus did declare that He did not intend to bring peace but "a sword" to divide brother against brother, family against family, and nation against nation. The notion of God is the notion of conflict. Since conflict is considered the only true evil today, God, and all the issues He brings, must be steamrolled into being conflict free. That is why God and religion is only practiced today, even among theologians, as agents of removing conflict. Of love and tolerance.
But without conflict, Love is also dead. Psychologists have put it to death. In its place has been sport sex and 'meaningful relationships'. Should it not be surprising that thanatology or 'death with dignity' is on the way to putting death to death? Coming to terms with the terror of death, Socrates' long and arduous education, learning how to die, will no longer be necessary. For death will not be what it used to be. What will replace it remains to be seen.
If you want out of a monotone existence, take choices and reflect on the conseqences. You will begin to experience the highs and lows of life. You will suffer. But you will also laugh. A wrong choice will spawn tragic thoughts. A right thought will spawn comedic thoughts. Now, life becomes more thrilling than theater. You will travel back to the Matriarchy Kingdoms and find people strapped to home theater set-ups staring passively at people acting the highs and lows of life.
When Maximus threw his weapon at the crowd in "Gladiator", he said, "Are you entertained!?" Well, are you? Are you going to be more entertained by merley existing and watching theater when not working or BEING theater and turning your life in mixes of tragedies and comedies?
Women always choose the former (which is why they are so movie and pop-culture obsessed). They seek boyfriends who are the latter (for it entertains them). Nice Guys and others who follow "The Way" are never interesting to them or anyone else. The nature of the Nice Guy is to avoid conflict at all costs.
FreshFromATL
Self Made
The funny thing about that though is...if the girl is really feeling you, she'll reach out to you, you won't have to reach out to her. And best believe she'll sort through all 808 of those messages just to get to yours. When I was on there, on several different occasions, a girl has shown me the massive amount of messages they get but that ain't never keep them from responding to mine in a timely fashion. POF and other dating sites allow girls to step to who they like (something they would never do in real life). Hell I don't even send messages first, I just let the chick chose me and take it from there.
FreshFromATL
Self Made
Think I just had this happen to me over the past few days.
I mean, on one hand, you have to talk to them.....on the other hand, you can't talk too much.
Screw it, I don't care. lol
When I look back the women who have liked me...just liked me. I wasn't adhering to any sort of code, playing a role or trying to play a game. They just liked me.
If a woman stops liking you because you vibe with her too well, or you treat her nicely, then she's not really of sound mind to begin with. The women who wind up getting wifed or are in serious relationships are not on some bs like that.
But these other chicks will later one day be say, "I want a man to be my best friend first, before anything else"
Yep, if you ever at the point where you find yourself playing towards some "code" or mind game then you're on the wrong track. A girl that is in to you will be in to you. Cat's gotta stop wondering if they're doing the right or wrong thing because when the feeling is mutual, the "vibe" and interest will be there. Like somebody said in here, if you have to come here and write a paragraph on whether or not you've done something wrong because she ain't responding to you, you've already lost. Keep it moving and find someone that's into you.
TheBeigeBomber
#Fukkery
patrice o'neal gives me slef confidence. hes a prophet
Music Fiend
Superstar
whew! this gem right here boys will save you much pain.
This is why it's important to play your strengths. A lot of cats try to make their weaknesses into strengths and that's not exactly right. You should strive to make your weaknesses less weak. But not dedicate so much time into it that you don't continue to elevate your strengths.