Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Music Fiend]

To all my relationship brehs/brehettes

what do you do when your girl says it's time for a change? for the past few weeks, she's been changing herself physically and doing things that she normally wouldn't in the first half of our relationship. shes a insecure chick, so she compares herself to others saying everyone has come out on their own and how she's still the same old boring person.

"craig now is the perfect time to make a change while we're young and don't have a career yet. we should be making mistakes right now. go crazy"

we have stood by each other and shes done right by me, but at this point i feel like it's me vs. us.

am I supposed to just go with the flow or am i gonna be sharing that girl soon brehs

Women speak. What she means is she is very bored with her life. She allso is indirectly saying you are too comfortable not only in the relationship but in your life. Once again, she prolly wants you to be more ambitious.

The thing about insecurity and trust me, I know, I used to be super insecure as a man. Insecurity doesn't just effect you. Youw ould think if someones insecure with themselves they will accept what they have. When its actually the opposite, insecure people want validation. More than likely she's finding faults with you because of her insecurity. People that stuggle to change themselves want to change others.

 

[kevm3]

To me it seems like she's bored and she's getting the idea that there may be entertainment to found 'outside' the relationship. Most guys would seek some way to save the relationship or something along those lines. I personally see apathy as the best solution. If she wants to go, let her go and keep on enjoying life. If you let her hook you into changing up and attempting to 'entertain her' to keep the relationship going, she's still going to leave eventually anyways, but she's going to have you doing a bunch of circus tricks in the meanwhile, all the while losing respect for you. To me, women are sort of like food. When it's spoiled, it's done for. When a woman start's checking out emotionally, better to be ready to move on.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Brehs this 18-year old is on my dikk heavy. I told y'all before about her and I was questioning what I was gonna do, it's just a mindfukk because she's so immature and just the way she looks at me is so very "high school love" kind of shyt but her body makes me

I know it's an easy slam dunk but when we talk I'm sitting there like and it makes it difficult. It feels like I'm talkin to a dumbass younger sister or something.

 

[MikelArteta]

To me it seems like she's bored and she's getting the idea that there may be entertainment to found 'outside' the relationship. Most guys would seek some way to save the relationship or something along those lines. I personally see apathy as the best solution. If she wants to go, let her go and keep on enjoying life. If you let her hook you into changing up and attempting to 'entertain her' to keep the relationship going, she's still going to leave eventually anyways, but she's going to have you doing a bunch of circus tricks in the meanwhile, all the while losing respect for you. To me, women are sort of like food. When it's spoiled, it's done for. When a woman start's checking out emotionally, better to be ready to move on.

yup
you can change and do seal tricks to maybe stretch out the lease for a little while longer, or you can just accept things for what they are.

Women rarely speak in black and white, ala @craigsagersuit ive been feeling different and i'm checking out emotionally because this is getting boring, instead they speak in grey. As I always say women want you to be confused, because in confusion you give them the benefit of the doubt.

 

[Swing]

"craig we should be making mistakes right now. go crazy"

 

[kevm3]

I think one of the greatest problem with women these days is that you never know what to expect from them. They simply pop up one day, disappear the next, might be cool for months, decide to throw everything away simply because they are 'bored' or feel they found some upgrade.

Like you might be talking to a chick and she's mad cool and everything and then she just disappears and doesn't contact you for a while, but then pops back up a month later or some such nonsense. Putting your happiness on a woman is a big mistake I find. They can complement your life, and that's only after you've found the right one.

 

[TRUEST]

To all my relationship brehs/brehettes

what do you do when your girl says it's time for a change? for the past few weeks, she's been changing herself physically and doing things that she normally wouldn't in the first half of our relationship. shes a insecure chick, so she compares herself to others saying everyone has come out on their own and how she's still the same old boring person.

"craig now is the perfect time to make a change while we're young and don't have a career yet. we should be making mistakes right now. go crazy"

we have stood by each other and shes done right by me, but at this point i feel like it's me vs. us.

am I supposed to just go with the flow or am i gonna be sharing that girl soon brehs

this is bad on so many levels its not even funny. i've been with enough girls to know when a statement like that comes out of the mouth of a chick, it's a wrap.

many many years ago, i remember my very first real girlfriend telling me "you are all i've known for the past year". i mean, i knew what time it was right then and there and i made her regret saying that weeks later.

 

[MikelArteta]

this is bad on so many levels its not even funny. i've been with enough girls to know when a statement like that comes out of the mouth of a chick, it's a wrap.

many many years ago, i remember my very first real girlfriend telling me "you are all i've known for the past year". i mean, i knew what time it was right then and there and i made her regret saying that weeks later.

yep
the writing is on the wall


but if you bring it up to her, she will say and do whatever to calm your fears as she continues to emotionally detach

we sohuld be making mistakes = we are young, we should be partying, drinking clubbing, sleeping around not being in a committed monogamous relationship.

 

[kevm3]

Yeah she most likely has some options she wants to explore, but she's giving it to him on friendly terms so she can slide back in if things don't work out. "I just want to have my fun, but when I'm ready to settle down, let me get back in contact with you."

 

[360dagod]

To all my relationship brehs/brehettes

what do you do when your girl says it's time for a change? for the past few weeks, she's been changing herself physically and doing things that she normally wouldn't in the first half of our relationship. shes a insecure chick, so she compares herself to others saying everyone has come out on their own and how she's still the same old boring person.

"craig now is the perfect time to make a change while we're young and don't have a career yet. we should be making mistakes right now. go crazy"

we have stood by each other and shes done right by me, but at this point i feel like it's me vs. us.

am I supposed to just go with the flow or am i gonna be sharing that girl soon brehs

Time has a way of lessening love

Its over breh

 

[MikelArteta]

I can look back now at every time i was given them deavors, and there was always a moment I knew it was over.

That feeling in your gut

 

[MikelArteta]

@Asantehene did you have a pension at your old gig?

 

[Ohene]

@Asantehene did you have a pension at your old gig?

nah. contract position
wouldnt have anyways

 

[MikelArteta]

nah. contract position
wouldnt have anyways

damn i have almost 20k
wonder how they gonna screw me over

 

[craigsagersuit]

yep
the writing is on the wall


but if you bring it up to her, she will say and do whatever to calm your fears as she continues to emotionally detach

we sohuld be making mistakes = we are young, we should be partying, drinking clubbing, sleeping around not being in a committed monogamous relationship.

damn..

all that talk about how she still truly love me, she doesn't see herself with anyone else, and she wants to work things out with me aint real?