Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Fatboi1]

for one of the first times ever im on the receiving end of a chick always initiating contact and texting multiple times a day shyt is kinda make sure the effort and feelings are mutual brehs cause damn having someone you aint feeling like that constantly hitting you up is annoying as hell i can see why these bytches take so long with there replies

I'm going through that now and it's funny because the minute she takes a little longer to respond you'll appreciate the expedited texts more(If you're feeling her.)

This girl is breaking world records with texting and skyping. Girl is not even in the country and yet she texts me EVERY day morning and often at night before she sleeps and all throughout the day we're talking. Skype usually when she's home for hours and pretty much responds asap except once in a while. To date, she's texted and contacted me pretty heavily daily since the day I started talking to her back around late DECEMBER!

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

I'm going through that now and it's funny because the minute she takes a little longer to respond you'll appreciate the expedited texts more(If you're feeling her.)

This girl is breaking world records with texting and skyping. Girl is not even in the country and yet she texts me EVERY day morning and often at night before she sleeps and all throughout the day we're talking. Skype usually when she's home for hours and pretty much responds asap except once in a while. To date, she's texted and contacted me pretty heavily daily since the day I started talking to her back around late DECEMBER!

I wouldn't mind it if I was feeling the chick and saw a future with her but its always the ones I'm just trying to fukk sweating me this hard

 

[MikelArteta]

I'm going through that now and it's funny because the minute she takes a little longer to respond you'll appreciate the expedited texts more(If you're feeling her.)

This girl is breaking world records with texting and skyping. Girl is not even in the country and yet she texts me EVERY day morning and often at night before she sleeps and all throughout the day we're talking. Skype usually when she's home for hours and pretty much responds asap except once in a while. To date, she's texted and contacted me pretty heavily daily since the day I started talking to her back around late DECEMBER!

the thing with this is it should remind you always when a woman is into you, you don thave to do anything, shes in another timezone and lives another life work etc. but she still finds time to talk to you. while some dudes have girls living 5 min away who are "to busy" to evern reply to a text

 

[Nephilim_BC]

the thing with this is it should remind you always when a woman is into you, you don thave to do anything, shes in another timezone and lives another life work etc. but she still finds time to talk to you. while some dudes have girls living 5 min away who are "to busy" to evern reply to a text

This. One chick lives 5 minutes from me and works literally down the street from me. Girl I been speaking about before in this thread. Can't text back. But misses me. I told her quit hitting me up with her bs, then all of a sudden she has time to text me back (and fast)

 

[MikelArteta]

This. One chick lives 5 minutes from me and works literally down the street from me. Girl I been speaking about before in this thread. Can't text back. But misses me. I told her quit hitting me up with her bs, then all of a sudden she has time to text me back (and fast)

exactly my point, and especially in this day and age everyone has their phone on them 24/7, texting, whatsapp so man y avenues to reach someone, even at work people still text etc.

 

[Atlrocafella]

be fearless today brehs
Don't let these chicks control your emotions.

 

[MikelArteta]

In a relationship when things are going well and chummy, fuzzy feelings are in abundance and the emotional connection is being strengthened and growing. In times like these you may be promised the world and at that moment they may actually mean it. However what occurs when the high goes down, when the novelty wears off, the honeymoon period is over, life isn't peachy 24/7 and the real work starts......

People will tell you that they love you and will never cheat. People will tell you that they will be there for you through the good times and the bad. "I'll always be here for you don't worry". But it's so easy to boldly proclaim these views and thoughts when emotions are high and there are zero tough times, tests and temptations. However the temperament of an individual is verified how they manage when they are tested; when temptations arise, when sacrifices have to be made and when everything is not always sunshine and rainbows. And until situations like that occur you absolutely know nothing of their principles and where truly they stand.

 

[MikelArteta]

I have two stories this week

1. Some chick I grew up with who was engaged well now the engagement is over.

My sister met up with her and she told her the story. Guy was a "jerk", he had "no ambition", cant hold a job. He talked to other girls, she had to drive him everywhere, he was demanding.

I told my sister straight up, so wait she dated this guy for years, accepted when he got down on one knee, planned the wedding and everything and now all the bad faults just suddenly crept to the forefront? Of course my sister was like well he's a great actor and I just laughed. I told my sister last time I saw them together that I could tell this guy was so demanding because they were sitting in a row at church and he told her no we are SITTING HERE andi was like . But it's always funny after the fact that women will absolve themselves of everything, its not my fault for choosing a horrible person, I was swindled I didn't know better, like you didn't know he couldnt keep a job , you didn't know he was a known player?

2. my uncles fiance told my aunt that all he does is work and come home, eat and watch porn and then go to bed. Day after day

Yet they aren't married and she can leave but she "loves him" so she stays and complains.

 

[kevm3]

Investing too much thought or effort is simply a losing proposition. Once you learn to enjoy life without HAVING to have a woman constantly around you, the better. Why? Because modern women are simply unstable. They are here today, gone tomorrow and you never know when or why. It's simply because she's 'bored', but she'll tell you some nonsense about how she needs to grow or how she's become too busy.

You can be one of those dudes who are constantly emotional about it all and let these women take you on an emotional rollercoaster of brief periods of pleasure followed by anger and disgust when they discard you like yesterday's trash, or you can simply condition yourself to accept that most of these women probably won't stick around. "It's cool that she's here, but if she decides to disappear tomorrow, no huge deal because I've got tons of other things I'm doing."

Why don't you invest in women? Simply because as soon as she leaves, all the benefits, as meager as they may be, disappears as soon as she leaves. The less you worry about trying to keep women around or some secret technique to procure them and the more you place your focus on more stable elements of life, the better. If you find a great woman that sticks with you, that's a lovely thing. If you don't, it's still a lovely thing because you have so many other interesting things in life occupying your time that you aren't even concerned all that much.

 

[Fatboi1]

I'm about to travel to Japan in about a week .

The girl over there gonna just be an experience for the time being. I already told her that and she said so herself as she will be leaving JPN in a few years anyway to go study in AUS so she wouldn't be seeing me anyway. I told her straight up that I'm sure she'll probably find someone else before she leaves for AUS anyway and I'll probably be a passing memory and she's like "I don't know...". Best to just leave these situations to whatever happens.

 

[MikelArteta]

You never know what the future holds just go and enjoy yourself. My best vacay ever was in Van when I met that model spent a week and it was great.

Most people you meet in life are transient anyways focus on the now the future will work itself out.

Hope you have a blast

I'm about to travel to Japan in about a week .

The girl over there gonna just be an experience for the time being. I already told her that and she said so herself as she will be leaving JPN in a few years anyway to go study in AUS so she wouldn't be seeing me anyway. I told her straight up that I'm sure she'll probably find someone else before she leaves for AUS anyway and I'll probably be a passing memory and she's like "I don't know...". Best to just leave these situations to whatever happens.

 

[MikelArteta]

honestly brehs NEVER give up

I went through like 7 years of constant failure, failures in relationships, failures in my health, failures financially,heart failure, spiritually failure. Failure after failture.

And now im just marinating in success.

 

[Virtuous_Brotha]

is it possible to tell if a chick just being friendly or legit flirting?

 

[Ohene]

is it possible to tell if a chick just being friendly or legit flirting?

shouldnt really matter. if youre interested you take her friendliness/flirting to the next level and try to kick it with her.

if she accepts, perfect. if she declines, you get your answer and can keep it moving.

no penpalling with these hoes.

 

[LezJepzin]

Going to the annual company party tonight. shyts going to be piff. On a boat with live djs three bars on deck and dinner being served. I wanted to take this Becky I used to work with but it seemed like she wanted to take her friend too

Me- My work is having their company party Sunday night and I was wondering if you would like to be my date? Me and some co workers are probably going to hit the club afterwards.

Her - My friend and I were planning on heading to that club afterwards.

Me - I can only bring one date

Her- *long delay* Im going to a soccer game at 9:30 (the party starts at 8) .I'm sorry.

Me- Its cool. I just had an extra ticket and the girl I was supposed to take had something come up. (I'm lying about the other girl)

Her- Awe, that sucks. I'll probably see you at the club later then.

Me- Yeah, maybe I'll see you then.

I had the feeling that ol girl wanted her friend to go with her on some chaperone shyt

I had free passes for the club but I didn't tell her. I don't think Im going clubbing later after all . I got work in the morning and the night would turn into looking for her there. fukk that.

Hate how so many women nowadays would rather have their friends tag along on dates