Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Captain Crunch]

I would think being "friends" with someone for ten years I would have been treated better. This was the type of friendship that when her mom died I went to the funeral and all that.

The thing I've noticed tjroughout the years with women regarding friendship it's only when they are single lonely or their lives are in ruins and shambles do you hear from them .

Alright, so basically you wanted her to let you know "hey, I got a bf, so I can talk to you" response? I can respect that.

 

[MikelArteta]

u know what fukk that. i didnt read the whole story so if im wrong correct me. if you were friends with somebody that damn long nothing going on just cool u never fukked and she throw ur friendship out like that then she was never ur friend IMO.

no relationship or marriage should of stopped that. Sure she would stop the hanging out a lot less or the texting or phone calling i get that outta respect for the dude she with but to completely cut u off aint right on the real. sound like oh boy was FULL OF INSECURITIES and need to get over that shyt and man up be confident and trust her simple as that. if yall never smashed or did anything for that damn long he shouldnt have shyt to worry bout it though

thast the thing breh, never smashed, never even had those ideas it was strictly platonic, i mean she knew my ex fiance and we wee all cool and all that but now? this is one reason to me for the most part guys and girls can';t be friends there will be a time when they will have to decide between your friendship and their guy.

the most f'ed up things is sometimes at lunch i see her and she knows my car and she knows i work right infront of her condo but she acts like i don't exist

 

[MikelArteta]

I met this guy recently and he's really nice and sweet ttO me but im just not feelin him like that. After our first date we went back to his house to watch a movie and he went in his room and came out with no shirt ... No socks just ball shorts I'm like wtf?! I don't wanna see no nikka feet that I just met. He is always texting me smiley faces and hearts and askin if I miss him ... Mind you it's been less than 2 weeks since we known each other he's 29 I'm 23 maybe he's looking to settle down . I am too but I want it to happen naturally I feel like he's rushing he said he thinks about alot me I'm like what do u think about he said THE FUTURE in caps ... That scared the shyt outta me !!!

Thoughts?.... Will I be single forever with this I don't like nice guys attitude ?

once your 29-30 you'll be praying for that nice guy, so because dude is actually interested in you , it turns you off? btw what did you expect going back to his house on the first day? monopoly? men think of sex, in the past every time a chick invited me over i know i was going to smash, so you come out in the ball shorts so its easy access, i

if he was cold and abrasive you'd be complaining, if its only 2 weeks just cut the cord

 

[twan83]

thast the thing breh, never smashed, never even had those ideas it was strictly platonic, i mean she knew my ex fiance and we wee all cool and all that but now? this is one reason to me for the most part guys and girls can';t be friends there will be a time when they will have to decide between your friendship and their guy.

the most f'ed up things is sometimes at lunch i see her and she knows my car and she knows i work right infront of her condo but she acts like i don't exist

i can't even blame u if you mad at her bout that. Thats some salty ass shyt to do no joke. strictly platonic and u gotta get cut just cuz she got somebody she all in love with GTFO. She could of still been cool with you and cut back the contact but cut u off like u some random dude or some ex

u were her friend for 10 years thats a damn long time fam to be just cutting ties that easy and for those reasons aint shyt

I got a boy who ive known for bout 10 yrs and since he got married he dont even contact me and im his son god father. im over here like we aint gotta talk much but we family we best friends and u act like i dont exist just cuz u got married (my best nfl espn voice) COME ON MAN

 

[Nintendough]

Thoughts?.... Will I be single forever with this I don't like nice guys attitude ?

Unless you want to be in the position of calling a guy in a couple of years when your early 30's to find out "whats been going on" aka trying to get put on because you messed up in the early 20's, drop that attitude.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

Odd question but I am going to throw it out there anyway.

Have any of you guys been in the position with a girlfriend where she wants to have sex but you are too tired/burnt out and really just want to get some rest?

What was her reaction when you told her no?

 

[twan83]

Odd question but I am going to throw it out there anyway.

Have any of you guys been in the position with a girlfriend where she wants to have sex but you are too tired/burnt out and really just want to get some rest?

What was her reaction when you told her no?

ya and she will get over it to be honest there just some days where u need ur rest but there some days u should give her the D maybe half assed D but she can't get mad u said u were tired

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

I met this guy recently and he's really nice and sweet ttO me but im just not feelin him like that. After our first date we went back to his house to watch a movie and he went in his room and came out with no shirt ... No socks just ball shorts I'm like wtf?! I don't wanna see no nikka feet that I just met. He is always texting me smiley faces and hearts and askin if I miss him ... Mind you it's been less than 2 weeks since we known each other he's 29 I'm 23 maybe he's looking to settle down . I am too but I want it to happen naturally I feel like he's rushing he said he thinks about alot me I'm like what do u think about he said THE FUTURE in caps ... That scared the shyt outta me !!!

Thoughts?.... Will I be single forever with this I don't like nice guys attitude ?

Ahhh... he's not even being strategic with you.

Dude is so comfortable with his game that he's just laying it out all there (in more ways than one... eh heh heh).

But on the real.

Trust me when i tell you this;

He might not be your only option...


But you obviously ain't his only.


The way he brings you back to his place and shirts/socks off routine (i know that - only when a mothafukka don't give a shiit is when he's willing to put on such a show). The calls and texts stem from him doing that to a multitude of women simultaneous and seeing which one is naive enough to bite.


I was 29 a few months ago and was on that, "It's time to stop giving a fukk" mode, which essentially brought on certain attitudes/behaviors as expressed by the so called, "nice guy". But don't categorize him as such because he's anything but.

Don't mean to cockblock, but you're a poster here and i don't know him.

You may be repulsed by his actions... but it's game really (and as they say, its takes those who know it to realize it - aka game recognize game).

And he's gaming the shiit out of you and you think dude is tryna settle down. Don't confuse the two hun.

He really ain't ready to commit that. He's at the peak of his machismo (the right balance of sexual aptitude, wisdomic attitude and financial altitude) and right now - the game is being played at maximum occupancy and how he divi's up his prospect depends on how long they are able to retain his attention before he beats before moving on.


And right now, babe... you're not even a chess piece.


THis is checkers...


And he's not just double jumping... he's tripling up and is basically 4 steps ahead of you.


My suggestion to you?


Sit back, enjoy the ride... cuz fellas like that don't come around too often. He's here to show you a good time and swoon you, romance you and build you up to unprecedented levels of affection, admiration and exotic bliss.


The bar just got set yay high.

...it's just up to you whether or not you wanna grasp onto it and see what happens next.

Good luck.


;)


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[Shameonyou]

women talk so much shyt when they are around each other...its the most toxic shyt ever, they are literally unpleasant beings when you put them in a room and observe the shyt they talk about....its about nothing uplifting, and mostly gossip..this is not just black women, its women in general....


don't let misery keep you company...delete yourself from people that dont bring happy moods around you.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

women talk so much shyt when they are around each other...its the most toxic shyt ever, they are literally unpleasant beings when you put them in a room and observe the shyt they talk about....its about nothing uplifting, and mostly gossip..this is not just black women, its women in general....


don't let misery keep you company...delete yourself from people that dont bring happy moods around you.

Its truth....its sickening the stuff they talk about.They say men talk about nothing,but with brothas our convo's evolve. Reality tv,gossip. If im literally in a room of women and the convo turns into nonsense.I excuse myself

 

[RawDogBandit]

Alright fellas got a question.

So I recently got back in a relationship with my babymoms . We broke up on her terms last year while she was pregnant, I was trying to fight it the whole time, but she didn't trust me. So of course I was out doing my thing the whole time. Went on vacation(was suppose to be a surprise for her, but she broke up with me, so I took another female).

So of course she ask did I smash any females. I kept it real and told her I've smashed plenty. I asked once and she said no. So I took her word for it.

Well she brought it up again, and I asked. She said once() a few weeks before I came to visit. I was upset of course cause another nikka slid in and cause she lied. She said she's sorry for lying(started crying and shyt), but I shouldn't be upset cause we wasn't together.

Maybe its just me, but I hate the thought of it. It could be my pride, but right now I don't even feel like being with her. Plus when a female says once, hell usually it means multiple times. And if they lie once, they'll usually lie again. Am I tripping for wanting to dip or what?

 

[malbaker86]

I met this guy recently and he's really nice and sweet ttO me but im just not feelin him like that. After our first date we went back to his house to watch a movie and he went in his room and came out with no shirt ... No socks just ball shorts I'm like wtf?! I don't wanna see no nikka feet that I just met. He is always texting me smiley faces and hearts and askin if I miss him ... Mind you it's been less than 2 weeks since we known each other he's 29 I'm 23 maybe he's looking to settle down . I am too but I want it to happen naturally I feel like he's rushing he said he thinks about alot me I'm like what do u think about he said THE FUTURE in caps ... That scared the shyt outta me !!!

Thoughts?.... Will I be single forever with this I don't like nice guys attitude ?

He tryna smash. Don't get it twisted. If it's not happening the way you want it to happen....keep it movin

 

[malbaker86]

Alright fellas got a question.

So I recently got back in a relationship with my babymoms . We broke up on her terms last year while she was pregnant, I was trying to fight it the whole time, but she didn't trust me. So of course I was out doing my thing the whole time. Went on vacation(was suppose to be a surprise for her, but she broke up with me, so I took another female).

So of course she ask did I smash any females. I kept it real and told her I've smashed plenty. I asked once and she said no. So I took her word for it.

Well she brought it up again, and I asked. She said once() a few weeks before I came to visit. I was upset of course cause another nikka slid in and cause she lied. She said she's sorry for lying(started crying and shyt), but I shouldn't be upset cause we wasn't together.

Maybe its just me, but I hate the thought of it. It could be my pride, but right now I don't even feel like being with her. Plus when a female says once, hell usually it means multiple times. And if they lie once, they'll usually lie again. Am I tripping for wanting to dip or what?

You're not tripping fam. She tried to game you by "crying" cause she had to "come clean" about lying to you and what not; the sympathy angle. Y'all not even together and you have THESE doubts and she didn't even trust you the last time y'all were together? This a recipe for disaster.

You KNOW you don't want to be with her bruh.....follow your gut instinct.

 

[Nintendough]

@Rawdawgbandit

You asked a simple question and she decided to give you a fraudulent answer while you decided to take the high road and be honest. You have a reason to be upset.

 

[MikelArteta]

Rawdogbandit you have 1 life you should be in yor child's life but you don't have to be with her if you don't want to.

I don't have kids so I'll leave it to sharp and twan etc

But I'd never be with someone or try to make it work when I know it won't just because she's my baby moms