Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Just have to stop giving these women power over your emotions or mind you control it not them. If a chick doesn't reply to a text or you asking her out etc., you already wasted enough time on her cut your losses and move on.
 

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if religion is a vital part of her life and isnt of yours, or yours is totally different, you'll be wasting your time

Just to many things, different path.

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lol didnt see the tag.

its kinda true...its delicate tight ropewalk shyt. but meh...if a girl likes you enough theyll find themselves still with you. most religious ppl are hypocrites anyway
 

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I had a date on Friday, yesterday Saturday I just send a text no reply.

I remember being younger this used to frustrate me. I thought the date went well what did I do wrong, did I say something. Should I have done this or that. Then I realized there's nothing you can do, a woman feels you or not all that chemistry tingles emotional crap. And if she doesn't well.

You can always control how you react to situations remember that. Your out here worrying and pondering why isn't she replying etc. She's out there thinking of markel, or what the next pair of shoes she's going to by.
 

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I had a date on Friday, yesterday Saturday I just send a text no reply.

I remember being younger this used to frustrate me. I thought the date went well what did I do wrong, did I say something. Should I have done this or that. Then I realized there's nothing you can do, a woman feels you or not all that chemistry tingles emotional crap. And if she doesn't well.

You can always control how you react to situations remember that. Your out here worrying and pondering why isn't she replying etc. She's out there thinking of markel, or what the next pair of shoes she's going to by.
I showed her that thread you made and all the times you talk down on black women
 

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uughhh c'mon man, why you gotta do this? :scust:

A man doesn't say shyt like this
ehh, it looks worse in text than it actually is.

This girl called & had me on the phone for hours just the other night and had been texting me all week. So it's not like I'm just chasing her with no reason, b/c everything SEEMED to be ok. Now had it been just some random girl I met on POF/Tinder, & she didnt respond then I'd just leave it at that.
But I am just letting her know that it doesn't bother me one way or the other. Some women have an inflated ego as to think, "I don't want to hurt his feelings so I just won't answer...."

So eithe way, whether she legitimately forgot or suddenly changed her mind about me, I don't like being ignored, if I ask you a question I want an answer.:childplease:

I'm not gonna hit her up, but I will see her Mon or Tues., so on my end there's no awkwardness b/c I said what I wanted to say and there's no open-ended question floating out there. :manny:
 
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ehh, it looks worse in text than it actually is.

This girl called & had me on the phone for hours just the other night and had been texting me all week. So it's not like I'm just chasing her with no reason, b/c everything SEEMED to be ok. Now had it been just some random girl I met on POF/Tinder, & she didnt respond then I'd just leave it at that.
But I am just letting her know that it doesn't bother me one way or the other. Some women have an inflated ego as to think, "I don't want to hurt his feelings so I just won't answer...."

So eithe way, whether she legitimately forgot or suddenly changed her mind about me, I don't like being ignored, if I ask you a question I want an answer.:childplease:

I'm not gonna hit her up, but I will see her Mon or Tues., so on my end there's no awkwardness b/c I said what I wanted to say and there's no open-ended question floating out there. :manny:
you can't allow this happen:scust: After 10 min you should have said "hey, i gotta go. When are you free this week to hang out?" and go on from there. Her response will tell you whether she's real interested or not
 

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you can't allow this happen:scust: After 10 min you should have said "hey, i gotta go. When are you free this week to hang out?" and go on from there. Her response will tell you whether she's real interested or not

I've done that before, those sort of canned responses are good for certain situations, but every situation is different and I've actually know this girl for a few months. We just never went any further than casual convo in public.
 

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many women are like a fruit on a tree and many men will want to pluck them, day after day after day. However if the fruit does not get plucked there will be a day when the fruit withers and no one will want it. Women have their season but its not for long
 

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I always say if your writing paragraphs about a girl and she's not your girl your already losing.

You think she's talking to her girl about jadillac, or your on her mind?
 

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I had a date on Friday, yesterday Saturday I just send a text no reply.

I remember being younger this used to frustrate me. I thought the date went well what did I do wrong, did I say something. Should I have done this or that. Then I realized there's nothing you can do, a woman feels you or not all that chemistry tingles emotional crap. And if she doesn't well.

You can always control how you react to situations remember that. Your out here worrying and pondering why isn't she replying etc. She's out there thinking of markel, or what the next pair of shoes she's going to by.

i thought...:ohhh:


but you are black and so is she....:dwillhuh:

what happened breh? :patrice:
 

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Tell me if I'm right or wrong...


I've been dating my girl for 7 months & I work with her (40 hours a week).. I kick it with her on my breaks and lunches n sometimes give her a ride home...

Now I'll maybe see her outside of work the most, twice a week...

The shyt that makes me wanna break it off with her is like today, we had plans for her to come over n stay the night n she cancels...

She does this frequently too... I'd say maybe every other week....
 

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Tell me if I'm right or wrong...


I've been dating my girl for 7 months & I work with her (40 hours a week).. I kick it with her on my breaks and lunches n sometimes give her a ride home...

Now I'll maybe see her outside of work the most, twice a week...

The shyt that makes me wanna break it off with her is like today, we had plans for her to come over n stay the night n she cancels...

She does this frequently too... I'd say maybe every other week....
Why does she cancel
 
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