If I was younger in that situation, I'd probably sit around and think of 'what I did wrong', how I can 'improve myself' and come at women better and probably hit her up some more trying to win her over. I'm very thankful I've learned that it's better to stop wasting time. Now, my mentality is more like whatever, time to move on. Not bothering changing myself, better to check if other women are feeling me more. If it's a drought right now with women, whatever, I got programming to do. I got life to enjoy.
The less you try to figure them out and the more you require them to get with the program or you move on, the better because you're not wasting your mind worrying about something which is probably nonsensical. "He didn't have that super swag I like." One thing I've realized as I've gotten older is that figuring out what exact reason women are doing something is pointless. Either they are with you or not. Either they stay in steady contact or not, etc., etc. If not, move on and no more worrying about a woman that's not in the mix.
Women are unpredictable in this day and age, so they are simply dessert, IF that. She's allowed to make my life better, but if she's not here, I'll still be fine and if she makes it worse, she has to get on.