Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Brandsdale]

I mean, am I wrong for just tryna go grab a coffee or something with a chic, test her out to see what shes bout and what not, when it comes to dating? I dont see the point in going to dinner and all that shyt if I'm tryna get to know you and what not and nikkas acting like cheap dating is completely wrong and "black women" dont go to coffee shops or do minimal shyt like that

 

[Brandsdale]

deal with yourself, don't worry about dealing with them. nature will run it's course.

fate has a way of pointing you in the right direction or falling into your lap as long as you working towards it

 

[The ADD]

I mean, am I wrong for just tryna go grab a coffee or something with a chic, test her out to see what shes bout and what not, when it comes to dating? I dont see the point in going to dinner and all that shyt if I'm tryna get to know you and what not and nikkas acting like cheap dating is completely wrong and "black women" dont go to coffee shops or do minimal shyt like that

That's the best route.

If was single that would almost always be the first option.

 

[Panther]

I mean, am I wrong for just tryna go grab a coffee or something with a chic, test her out to see what shes bout and what not, when it comes to dating? I dont see the point in going to dinner and all that shyt if I'm tryna get to know you and what not and nikkas acting like cheap dating is completely wrong and "black women" dont go to coffee shops or do minimal shyt like that

Breh if a chick really wants to get to know you she will be fine with that. (As she should be)

Its sad but you gotta protect yourself from these jawns looking for a free meal, aint no chick gonna "guilt" me outta my money

 

[Brandsdale]

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Breh if a chick really wants to get to know you she will be fine with that. (As she should be)

Its sad but you gotta protect yourself from these jawns looking for a free meal, aint no chick gonna "guilt" me outta my money

That's what I'm saying. Whether i m not that into her and go the sex route or I end up really liking her this is my go-to tactic. Sometimes I'd sweeten the deal just a Lil if I'm really in the mood for something I.e, go to a demetres or something (I got a big sweet tooth) but that's only for myself. My friends were tryna act like dating this way is wrong and you gotta fully take her out and black women aint wit the coffee shops and what not

If I can't do something simple with you and shoot the shyt and just converse then its usually a red flag. My homie went on a date with some chic he knew from way back and even she hit him with the "all men should pay" balogna.

 

[Brandsdale]

That's the best route.

If was single that would almost always be the first option.

Save ya money breh

 

[sfgiants]

disabled okc - too much shyt going on there plus i was losing track of who i was talking to on there
got a good rotation going so i figured i'll put that shyt on ice for now. said it before and i'll say it again, okc >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

 

[The ADD]

Save ya money breh

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[MikelArteta]

Last date I went on I spent 7 bucks

I was tossed to the bushes after

Imagined if I spent like 40 or 50?

Screw that

I mean, am I wrong for just tryna go grab a coffee or something with a chic, test her out to see what shes bout and what not, when it comes to dating? I dont see the point in going to dinner and all that shyt if I'm tryna get to know you and what not and nikkas acting like cheap dating is completely wrong and "black women" dont go to coffee shops or do minimal shyt like that

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[MikelArteta]

I agree not bad currently talking to this mixed chick

disabled okc - too much shyt going on there plus i was losing track of who i was talking to on there
got a good rotation going so i figured i'll put that shyt on ice for now. said it before and i'll say it again, okc >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

 

[Ohene]

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That's what I'm saying. Whether i m not that into her and go the sex route or I end up really liking her this is my go-to tactic. Sometimes I'd sweeten the deal just a Lil if I'm really in the mood for something I.e, go to a demetres or something (I got a big sweet tooth) but that's only for myself. My friends were tryna act like dating this way is wrong and you gotta fully take her out and black women aint wit the coffee shops and what not

If I can't do something simple with you and shoot the shyt and just converse then its usually a red flag. My homie went on a date with some chic he knew from way back and even she hit him with the "all men should pay" balogna.

nikka dont bring me into this
all we did was go for wings...nothing extravagant lol. you right though. whoever is saying that bs dont listen to them. The girls who really fukk with you will be fine getting ice cream and going for a walk and then after getting to know you come to the crib and netflixing or torrenting some flicks.

Even the chick in question...you remember the first time me and her chilled she and I went to the library to kick it and the back to the crib to watch a movie.

When youre a good looking, genuine dude who is going places you're the prize. Girls know that and usually follow your lead

 

[MikelArteta]

nikka dont bring me into this
all we did was go for wings...nothing extravagant lol. you right though. whoever is saying that bs dont listen to them. The girls who really fukk with you will be fine getting ice cream and going for a walk.

thats the way it should be
demetere's, second cup, starbucks, waterfront.

or max swiss chalet

 

[Ohene]

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if a man commits to every woman his commitment is cheapen, his love is cheapen. Just imagine if your dating a guy (i think your a female) and he told you he has had 15 gfs in the past 6 months, how would you view him?

The same way most men don't want a woman who has a bunch of sexual partners its the same how women don't want a men who has committed and loved a bunch of women.

Commitment, a mans love are his male vagina so to speak, you give it away cheaply and to everyone

this is real talk man.

i be into a lot of girls for various reasons. One might have a pretty face, one might have a banging body, one might be smart, one might just be cool/down to earth, one might have similar interests to me...etc. I can talk to all these girls and have a slight interest but all of the girls mentioned will have a hard time getting me to say we're exclusive unless they have a decent blend of the qualities listed. Dealing with it right now to be frank. There's like 5 girls who are all good looking for the most part. One is smart and a good girl but is toooooo religious/prudish. One is wholesome and nice but is too shy/boring and I can go on. In my mind, i have no problem doing this because in all of these situations I was the one to initiate the contact in the first place and typically put in the most work early on so I'll rinse and repeat as I see fit. One even asked if I usually fall for girls quickly because we seemed to click so fast. My answer was no. I might be cool with a chick and enjoy their company but to fully fall for them and commit??? HARD PRESSED.

 

[MikelArteta]

this is real talk man.

i be into a lot of girls for various reasons. One might have a pretty face, one might have a banging body, one might be smart, one might just be cool/down to earth, one might have similar interests to me...etc. I can talk to all these girls and have a slight interest but all of the girls mentioned will have a hard time getting me to say we're exclusive unless they have a decent blend of the qualities listed. Dealing with it right now to be frank. There's like 5 girls who are all good looking for the most part. One is smart and a good girl but is toooooo religious/prudish. One is wholesome and nice but is too shy/boring and I can go on. In my mind, i have no problem doing this because in all of these situations I was the one to initiate the contact in the first place and typically put in the most work early on so I'll rinse and repeat as I see fit. One even asked if I usually fall for girls quickly because we seemed to click so fast. My answer was no. I might be cool with a chick and enjoy their company but to fully fall for them and commit??? HARD PRESSED.

, ive only giving my commitment and love away twice and both chicks had to work for it. Women want your commitment its why so many chicks are when they think they have it only to be played by a dude,

 

[Ohene]

, ive only giving my commitment and love away twice and both chicks had to work for it. Women want your commitment its why so many chicks are when they think they have it only to be played by a dude,

it never fails.
A girl (R) was actually telling me a story about this kind of thing yesterday. Essentially (R) likes this guy (G). Her friend (J) likes another guy (T). The guy her friend likes fukks with her but doesnt want to actually date her. J saw T kissing some other girl in a club...got mad and then made out with G to make T jealous. This is the game