um no you came in here condescending
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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um no you came in here condescending
Omg, I don't think I did. If you thought I was being condescending in my first post, it's inaccurate and I apologize. Giving a little input from a woman's perspective is all I was doing.
Urbanmiracle
Brooklyn the planet...
Some advice fellas
I was dating this chick for minute. Single mom her place. I thought we were hitting it off pretty well. Last date we just chilled at happy hour and we chilled at her place. Now she don't text or call a brother no more. She just got distant. I'm not going to chase her but still, shyt went cold turkey stupid fast.
I was dating this chick for minute. Single mom her place. I thought we were hitting it off pretty well. Last date we just chilled at happy hour and we chilled at her place. Now she don't text or call a brother no more. She just got distant. I'm not going to chase her but still, shyt went cold turkey stupid fast.
TrapHouse Rock
All Star
happened to me too recently, let it go. dont even matter the reason someone was distant, it'll probably happen again even if she starts responding again/initiating things (learned that one too
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Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Lol so where is the advice? I don't rock with single mothers in general. Diminishing returns in my opinion.
Straw Hat Luffy
Veteran
thread of the decade 
Rayzah
I'm Everywhere you ain't never there
Yo, I have noticed this a long time ago.. It used to piss me off at how people generalize everything into one of those category, I be like shyt is not black and white, we living in full 5k 4-d world out here....
Or you have the guys hit you with the, you just need to get over it and fukk a bunch of other women
that shyt aint that easy and it doesn't help nothing.. When a chick do you dirty or unfair or even if its a mutual break up, the LAST thing you want to deal with is another chick at this elementary ass advice..And yes you SHOULD feel a multitude of types of ways after a serious breakup, we aint that AI chick from EX machina....
Shout out to this thread, hopefully this has helped someone over the last few years. venting every once and a while is therapeutic..
Because your not a priority. And there's probably another guy. If your not a chicks number one you will be replaced, because your just a placeholder
If you were to call or text, you'd get a reply and some bs how she's been "busy" etc
If you were to call or text, you'd get a reply and some bs how she's been "busy" etc
Rayzah
I'm Everywhere you ain't never there
Women always say how they aren't flakey or aint about the Bullshyt...... until they are..."typical like a woman if you disagree with them and try to talk rational your now a hater, gay, angry, hurt, frustrated bla bla bla"
This statement alone tells your frame of mind. Thank you for verifying my observation.
They picking on you cause we have heard women say I would never do that, or I am good at communication or good friends, but either don't know what that means or just have a different understanding of what men consider good.. The problem is, women will do these things not knowing that they are fukked up, so to them they have a good record with how they handle these situations, but in reality they are who we complain about..
I'm.not saying become angry, cling to the past. But women want you to be like eeyore, where your heart is equivalent to his tail and it can keep on being pulled, gutted, used, stomped on and your just supposed to nail it back onand its all good.
Nah sorry , I know its the new era of appeasement brehs and simps will be like no biggie and all that ish to try and win favor but not me.
Nah sorry , I know its the new era of appeasement brehs and simps will be like no biggie and all that ish to try and win favor but not me.
Action Mike
All praise..
'Appeasement', thats another word you can throw at this generation. Where so caught up in the kumbaya vibe of today that brehs arent checking the women in their lives.
Girl go cold on you, and pops back up like nothing happened, and your happy to continue?
Nothing should pass a mans dignity, dont care if its the dime of my dreams.
'Is my dignity as a man on the line here?'
Ask yourself this question and you will never simp again.
Girl go cold on you, and pops back up like nothing happened, and your happy to continue?
Nothing should pass a mans dignity, dont care if its the dime of my dreams.
'Is my dignity as a man on the line here?'
Ask yourself this question and you will never simp again.
based on what you're saying, it seems like women can't win....damned if you do, damned if you don't. I do communicate nor do I keep a gang of men as friends. For me, when dating a man mental stimulation is important because I enjoy discussing various topics. I can see what some of you mean though.
But it's a different era, I like to call it the narcissistic-era because they're letting social media dictate what's hot and attention seeking is off the charts, all about what they can get without them (males and females) having to put in much effort regardless of the person's feelings for them. I have a co- worker who once told me men are good for two things; money and dikk. This is the same person who's come crying to me many times about their being no good men out there and asking will she ever find anybody. Ive given her advice but she's too stubborn to take it, I tell her be positive think positive, enjoy life and don't be asking a man who's not your husband to buy you a purse....That's why it's up to you to take care of yourself, like one guy I knew would say, these hoes ain't loyal. But neither was he.
I'm not trying to date at the moment because I have too much going on with work and whatnot, plus I'd rather be alone for a bit and travel which is a passion. I'm sure you've all heard this before. Things will only worst, I try to look at life positively but lately the reality of how the world actually works is starting settle in. If you're not ready the life will eat you alive, in many areas.
'Appeasement', thats another word you can throw at this generation. Where so caught up in the kumbaya vibe of today that brehs arent checking the women in their lives.
Girl go cold on you, and pops back up like nothing happened, and your happy to continue?
Nothing should pass a mans dignity, dont care if its the dime of my dreams.
'Is my dignity as a man on the line here?'
Ask yourself this question and you will never simp again.
theres never been in a time in history with as most single people as before, yet dudes still appease and stress like there isn't a surplus. If a woman is flaking and not treating you as apriority, she isnt special because tons of women will do that you.
Rayzah
I'm Everywhere you ain't never there
So here is what you did, you made a comment like women that do that is so rare, and all these dudes who are complete strangers to each other just so happen to date from that same small pool of rare women.. Like there is no way this type of behavior is normal.. I was just saying it is, and it may not be intentional, but too many woman do the up and disappear act
No I am not saying you cant win, I was just saying the reason you have all these people quoting you is because you came off like what those guys were saying happened to them was so rare and how that isn't the norm.. My point was women don't like to admit flaws on their end during a relationship, even when asked about past situation, they almost always say it the mans fault.. If you ask a man to explain his last 3 relationships, you are gonna get 3 completely different reasons.. So here is what