Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Alright brehs, I gotta question need some advice:

I think I'm bout to stop talking to this chick altogether.....I just dont think I can trust her, and though I tried to give myself the benefit of the doubt and be fair to her in regards to that, I pieced some signs together that tell me to just cut it off ASAP.

Problem is, I left my data cable for my phone at her place last time I was there... ....so I need to at least get that back. So I gotta play it cool/normal so I can get over there again.

Now, once I'm there:

1. Do I tell her? "Hey....this aint gonna work b/w us" Or something regarding that. I really dont feel like arguing about this though.

OR

2. Do I just go over there and leave like normal(although probably avoiding and any hug or kiss) and then just ignore her texts or calls, essentially disappearing?

Also, now that I'm looking back, I might have simped a lil or made myself appear too eager(I know...I know. SMH *lessons learned*)...but she was loving it at the time and was responsive.
Because of that, I wanna at least make sure I go out in the best way possible to make myself look like I'm leaving with the power. So that's why I'm leaning towards #2....

How long you've been with her? If its not long just disappear and ignore that's what women do when they are no longer interested early on.

No explanation is needed. Women don't like to be dumped, so its best to just ignore and disappear.

If you been with her for awhile then a text or over the phone should do.

Forget the data cable just another reason to see her one more time, and maybe change your mind after sex or something.

Personal example, I had clothes, my psp, my first 360 at my ex fiancée place when we broke up we neer spoke for like 3 months then she asked me out of the blue to come get my stuff I never replied. I was doing good finally moving on.

I bought new clothes a new psp and a new 360 but maintained my dignity and frame of mind.

Toss that data cable in the bushes and buy a new one and just disappear. Tr longer you keep a poisonous women in your life the longer they can infect you and indoctrinate you.

 

[Ohene]

Charlie Bell of all the people. It can happen to anyone

 

[MikelArteta]

Basketball Wives” Kenya Bell’s divorce with former NBA star Charlie Bell has been finalized and she is walking away a lot richer. The two have been intertwined in a nasty battle over money. Charlie wanted Kenya to be his support system claiming he doesn’t make any money right now through the NBA and Kenya wanted him to pay child support, because he does have seven-figures in savings.

This is how the final rulings were:

Kids: Charlie has to shell out $1,000/month in child support, but they’ll share custody of their two daughters. Neither party has to cough up spousal support.

Homes: Kenya scored the marital home in Michigan, along with the home bought for her parents. Charlie gets the condo in Vegas and the home he bought his parents.

Money: Kenya was awarded $780,000 cash from Charlie’s savings … leaving him with $656,000. She also gets half of the $670,000 from another account.

Here’s where Kenya wins big: she gets HALF OF EVERYTHING from the following: Charlie’s NBA 401k plan, his NBA retirement plan, his NBA pension, NBA welfare plan and NBA supplement benefit plan.”Charlie won’t get ANY money from Kenya’s stint with the VH1 reality show

http://egyptsaidso.com/celeb-break-u...anged-husband/

Get married brehs

 

[jadillac]

Basketball Wives” Kenya Bell’s divorce with former NBA star Charlie Bell has been finalized and she is walking away a lot richer. The two have been intertwined in a nasty battle over money. Charlie wanted Kenya to be his support system claiming he doesn’t make any money right now through the NBA and Kenya wanted him to pay child support, because he does have seven-figures in savings.

This is how the final rulings were:

Kids: Charlie has to shell out $1,000/month in child support, but they’ll share custody of their two daughters. Neither party has to cough up spousal support.

Homes: Kenya scored the marital home in Michigan, along with the home bought for her parents. Charlie gets the condo in Vegas and the home he bought his parents.

Money: Kenya was awarded $780,000 cash from Charlie’s savings … leaving him with $656,000. She also gets half of the $670,000 from another account.

Here’s where Kenya wins big: she gets HALF OF EVERYTHING from the following: Charlie’s NBA 401k plan, his NBA retirement plan, his NBA pension, NBA welfare plan and NBA supplement benefit plan.”Charlie won’t get ANY money from Kenya’s stint with the VH1 reality show

http://egyptsaidso.com/celeb-break-u...anged-husband/

Lets say she came up missing somehow....would he still have to continue to pay?
























































Chris Rock: "You might have to kill her!!"

 

[kevm3]

How in the world does she get MORE than half of his savings and then half of his pension and all of that? What in the world was she bringing to the table for that? And now that she's making money, he doesn't get any of that. Equality indeed.

 

[jadillac]

How long you've been with her? If its not long just disappear and ignore that's what women do when they are no longer interested early on.

No explanation is needed. Women don't like to be dumped, so its best to just ignore and disappear.

If you been with her for awhile then a text or over the phone should do.

Forget the data cable just another reason to see her one more time, and maybe change your mind after sex or something.

Personal example, I had clothes, my psp, my first 360 at my ex fiancée place when we broke up we neer spoke for like 3 months then she asked me out of the blue to come get my stuff I never replied. I was doing good finally moving on.

I bought new clothes a new psp and a new 360 but maintained my dignity and frame of mind.

Toss that data cable in the bushes and buy a new one and just disappear. Tr longer you keep a poisonous women in your life the longer they can infect you and indoctrinate you.

I'm pretty strong willed individual....even she's noticed it and mentioned it.
I can walk in and walk out w/o showing my cards or being weak for sex....I just wanna make sure I come out with the upperhand just for my own ego.

Oh and let me tell you this: The other night, outta the blue she texted me this weird ass question...I wish I'd saved the text message so I could screen cap it, but it went like this.....

Her: So, just a random question...have you ever had a scenario where you were talking to someone for awhile, but y'all had never actually met or hung out....but you wanted to tell them directly that you weren't interested anymore?

and maybe not directly say it, but just to make it clear? How would you handle that?

I'm sittin there reading it like Me: ....perhaps.....

Her: ...and how did that go/what was the outcome?

Me: Why you are asking me this weird question? If it's jst a random question, why all the specific parameters?

Her: You are reading too much in between the lines...Mr Analytical...

Me: (I forget what I said back...something semi-rude)

Her: OMG! A girl cant ask a question? I was just wondering how guys handle those type of situations.

I forget what I said after that, but it was something to where she knew I was mad and I kept harping on why she's asking me this sh*t. Then she quickly just changed the subject. But I still kept on....

That whole scenario was just strange...keep i nmind, this girl is 30 years old......and it makes me think she's talking to someone else that maybe she met online, doesnt like him much, and just wants advice on how to break it off best way possible....OR, she's talking to some other guy who she actually might kinda like, and maybe she's trying to get a males perspective on whether he likes her or not.

Maybe it was just a "random question", and I can't prove it otherwise, but So that's partly why I just need to cut it. I dont need this sh*t workin my mind.

 

[sixsixtwo]

Wouldn't you just love to come home everyday to this gem?

 

[I_Q]

Basketball Wives” Kenya Bell’s divorce with former NBA star Charlie Bell has been finalized and she is walking away a lot richer. The two have been intertwined in a nasty battle over money. Charlie wanted Kenya to be his support system claiming he doesn’t make any money right now through the NBA and Kenya wanted him to pay child support, because he does have seven-figures in savings.

This is how the final rulings were:

Kids: Charlie has to shell out $1,000/month in child support, but they’ll share custody of their two daughters. Neither party has to cough up spousal support.

Homes: Kenya scored the marital home in Michigan, along with the home bought for her parents. Charlie gets the condo in Vegas and the home he bought his parents.

Money: Kenya was awarded $780,000 cash from Charlie’s savings … leaving him with $656,000. She also gets half of the $670,000 from another account.

Here’s where Kenya wins big: she gets HALF OF EVERYTHING from the following: Charlie’s NBA 401k plan, his NBA retirement plan, his NBA pension, NBA welfare plan and NBA supplement benefit plan.”Charlie won’t get ANY money from Kenya’s stint with the VH1 reality show

Nothing found for Celeb-break-u Anged-husband

After reading that first ruling I started to think he got off easy but goddamn shyt just kept getting worse, that last paragraph is horrifying

 

[Swing]

I can walk in and walk out w/o showing my cards or being weak for sex

Maybe it was just a "random question", and I can't prove it otherwise, but

Im thinking, aint shyt random with these heauxs... maybe she's sensing that you're on your way out

 

[Juno]

Here's a gem concerning women.. Be kind and remember they are people with hearts that beat, and lungs that pump and not some object or label that the media relentlessly portrays them as. Literally they are mens other half.. Much respect for the ladies.

 

[Scustin Trillberlake]

"Charlie won’t get ANY money from Kenya’s stint with the VH1 reality show"



What's mine is mine what's yours is also mine.

 

[Atlrocafella]

Basketball Wives” Kenya Bell’s divorce with former NBA star Charlie Bell has been finalized and she is walking away a lot richer. The two have been intertwined in a nasty battle over money. Charlie wanted Kenya to be his support system claiming he doesn’t make any money right now through the NBA and Kenya wanted him to pay child support, because he does have seven-figures in savings.

This is how the final rulings were:

Kids: Charlie has to shell out $1,000/month in child support, but they’ll share custody of their two daughters. Neither party has to cough up spousal support.

Homes: Kenya scored the marital home in Michigan, along with the home bought for her parents. Charlie gets the condo in Vegas and the home he bought his parents.

Money: Kenya was awarded $780,000 cash from Charlie’s savings … leaving him with $656,000. She also gets half of the $670,000 from another account.

Here’s where Kenya wins big: she gets HALF OF EVERYTHING from the following: Charlie’s NBA 401k plan, his NBA retirement plan, his NBA pension, NBA welfare plan and NBA supplement benefit plan.”Charlie won’t get ANY money from Kenya’s stint with the VH1 reality show

Nothing found for Celeb-break-u Anged-husband

man this one kind of hurt my soul...I wonder how well a pre-nup would of worked in this case..

 

[jadillac]

Here's a gem concerning women.. Be kind and remember they are people with hearts that beat, and lungs that pump and not some object or label that the media relentlessly portrays them as. Literally they are mens other half.. Much respect for the ladies.

Neg

this weak ass post.

You do realize than 99.999% of us would love to fond a good woman instead of the rstchet ass ones ones who take advantage of kind hearted men who generally have nothing.but good intentions

Damn near any and every young man enters the dating game with the mindset you have ad women are ones who don't reciprocate. A mans natural inclination is be be nice and protective to a woman he likes....its women who pervert
things thus leaving a lot of men confused or heartbroken...saying things like, "I did everything she liked....I treated her like a queen everyday....and she cheated on me or just left me outta the blue for someone else"

Real talk, .00000001 of women wwnt a man with the mindset you described......the other 99 % say they do, but they really dont. Women will get "much respect", when they begin to give "much respect"

 

[winb83]

Here's a gem concerning women.. Be kind and remember they are people with hearts that beat, and lungs that pump and not some object or label that the media relentlessly portrays them as. Literally they are mens other half.. Much respect for the ladies.

I feel you but this world is a lion's den and you sound like bambi walking into it.

 

[jadillac]

I feel you but this world is a lion's den and you sound like bambi walking into it.

Literally. Even female lions only take/mate with teh alpha male lions who often act like dikks.

Humans in many ways are no different from animals.