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Mansur Brown - "Heiwa"
Beware though, rejection is a possibility. Don't let that define you or affect you in reaching out to a guy who you like.
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Beware though, rejection is a possibility. Don't let that define you or affect you in reaching out to a guy who you like.
SouthSac916
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I think a lot of this advice is bullshyt. Do what you want. You will win some and lose some. You don't read a book to learn how to ride a bike. So you don't read a bunch logical fallacies from guys on the Internet that can fukk your chance up. If it feels right okay if not
When it comes to relationships, sometimes the simple things matter the most. I think a woman hitting a man up shows she has some level of desire towards him, which is what all men want to field. Nobody ever wants to feel like they are doing all the work.
Not to beat on an old drum, I know if I was with a woman who never hit me up, just to even say hi or anything and only responded when I hit her up, I'd get the impression that she wasn't very interested in me. One thing a man wants to feel when dealing with a woman is that she's really into him... not so much to the extent to where she feels like she's hovering in the stalker territory, but it feels great when a woman you're dealing with just hits you up at some unexpected time telling you she is thinking about you.
Since you are coming from the perspective of a woman, I know that you feel the man should initiate the majority of times, and that is true, but if you stay with that attitude, you'll miss out on a lot of great opportunities.As long as you aren't thirsty in your initiations, you should be more than fine.
This and it's been a huge issue in past relationships. I feel like a light bulb just clicked with you guys have advised so far. I'm sure there are other areas but it's been the hint that guys have told me. I'm like if you say I'm so great and this and that where's the patience why give up on me. I didn't start to question until last guy I dated said something about my not calling enough, but the guy before him said it as well and the guy before him. I struck out three times. Recently I've met a new guy and I'll try my luck.
Wow you are so right. I did have the attitude that the guy should initiate always, but at the same time I didn't want to put myself too out there for fear of rejection or thinking I wasn't good enough etc. I would send a text or phone call here and there but they'd initiate 90% of the time. Waiting gets you nowhere, it's worse than simping. Thank you as well. You've been a great help. I'll
International Playa
Playa with a Passport
Guess who just texted me brehs... I don't know the name because the number isn't saved.@Emperor_ReinScarf @kevm3 sounds like someone I used to know from the context. They're saying something about wanting to be with me when they get back to nyc. Poor soul must have the wrong number. This looks like a MN area code.
Be very careful if you wanna mess with her, she might use you for a place to stay (rent free of course, lol) when she gets that job in NYC.
Action Mike
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I think a lot of this advice is bullshyt. Do what you want. You will win some and lose some. You don't read a book to learn how to ride a bike. So you don't read a bunch logical fallacies from guys on the Internet that can fukk your chance up. If it feels right okay if not
Breh what are you talking about?
It's like saying you don't need maths teachers, invent algebra by yourself out of pride when you have a chance to learn.
Even in person, brehs are hesitant to listen or give advice, it's usually dismissed with 'fukk that bytch'. Brehs will read video game reviews all day, but not even peep game on the opposite sex. People die over this shyt, simp murders happen.
Swamp-Thing
Avatar of the Green
Come on breh, don't fold. Stick to your word.
You are worried about her too much. Do the full 21 days and then CALL her, don't text. Ask her out if she answers your call and things sound kosher. Otherwise, move on for good, if nothing's changed.
I'm not even counting my days anymore, I'm just going to get back to her when I get back to her. She has no clue the next time I'll respond to her texts or pick up my phone. I just hope she doesn't come to my house because I won't answer the door.
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SouthSac916
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Experience has to come into play. You have to trust your instincts. I'm not saying advice is bad. What I said is the advice on this site isBreh what are you talking about?
It's like saying you don't need maths teachers, invent algebra by yourself out of pride when you have a chance to learn.
Even in person, brehs are hesitant to listen or give advice, it's usually dismissed with 'fukk that bytch'. Brehs will read video game reviews all day, but not even peep game on the opposite sex. People die over this shyt, simp murders happen.
. A lot of the guys on here are immature. Some are attracted to women that require lies and manipulation in order for the relationship to work. I talk to my uncles that are 40/50 plus years old. Not some guy on a computer screen. Even in real life guys will pass you some bullshyt. Yea you need algebra teachers and math tutors. But if you wanna master math you gotta buy the book and practices by yourself. Your gonna get problems wrong but it shows your weak spots so you can fix them. Experience is key.Yea I was thinking I'll hit her in like 2 more weeks on some "let's go out for drinks" and see where it gets me
Guess who just texted me brehs... I don't know the name because the number isn't saved.
Just say that you had to reflash your phone and lost all your contacts. Then you request who it is. shyt works like a charm
I'm a good looking Black male in Atlanta with a girlfriend.
Sometimes it gets so hard not to just flirt with these women down here. I'm a natural flirt and I hate knowing that I have to "behave" since I'm in a relationship.
I care about my girl and wont jeopardize what I got but damned if it doesn't get hard as fukk not to entertain these broads out here.
Sometimes it gets so hard not to just flirt with these women down here. I'm a natural flirt and I hate knowing that I have to "behave" since I'm in a relationship.
I care about my girl and wont jeopardize what I got but damned if it doesn't get hard as fukk not to entertain these broads out here.
If you think ten days of no contact will have her running back into your arms .
You break it you'll feel good for a little while then be wishing you didn't
You break it you'll feel good for a little while then be wishing you didn't