Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I don't know why but out of boredom I texted my ex on some bullshyt.

Basically nothing of substance came out of it. Just a how are you, I was thinking of you so I hit you up ordeal. It felt too friendly and safe so I ejected out the text once I caught myself texting just so. She sent the last text so I just left it there. If she don't hit me up again then:manny:

Honestly I feel like a sucka though :snoop:

if you feel likea sucka your not over her completely
 

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if you feel likea sucka your not over her completely
To put it clearly, I feel like "dumb" because I know she's getting her attention and fix from someone else and I'm here texting her like "I was thinking of you so I hit you up" and her response was to correct my sentence and laugh(I texted her in Japanese).
Then she mentioned how my Japanese is better and then I just told her what I've been watching and she goes "great!"
I didn't even reply I just let it go like I feel this conversation is friend zone stuff.
 

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Brehs! If you have any kind of caribbean roots, and you haven't checked out dream weekend, you aren't living. This shyt is the best time I've ever had. Women and good vibes are plentiful.
 

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Have any brethren come across any woman who likes to discuss finance and creating businesses? I'm noticing that is a rare quality in the women whom I encountered. I assuming it is my environment or maybe is not a common topic to discuss.

Don't look for women regarding that
 

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so this chick i've been texting for a few weeks (havent met yet) just blocked me on whatsapp because i wouldnt borrow her money and yesterday a chick i spoke with on tinder said i sounded white on a voicenote :what:
Chicks my age are something else man, got me sounding like im on some kent shyt but damn if you aint a hood dude or a hipster fakkit you dont stand a chance half the time.

breh i got the same prob and n1gga just turnt 23 :dead:

... just practice getting your voice deeper and speak slower in a natural way.

Eventually, your voice will be naturally deeper around strangers.

Around fam and my friends, my voice is unfortunately high as shyt.
 

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breh i got the same prob and n1gga just turnt 23 :dead:

... just practice getting your voice deeper and speak slower in a natural way.

Eventually, your voice will be naturally deeper around strangers.

Around fam and my friends, my voice is unfortunately high as shyt.
:leon:im 22 my voice aint even that soft breh i just dont be using too much slang in my vocab,bytch straight up hit me with the arent you hood at all?:what:
fuk it tho bytches who speak heavy slang have always been bad news in my experience,staying clear of bytches who use "bruh""cuz""nikka" etc :scust:
 

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Man I just realized a pattern here.... I'm always fukked over at the end of my relationships with chicks lately.. My most recent ex: We talked after we "broke up" because I wanted to keep that around in the situation I go to Japan I can have something easy to get at but a couple months later she meets new guy and claims he changed her life and he makes her happy and whatnot. She doesn't feel the same way anymore and then I NOW get mad at me even allowing a friendship to sustain after a breakup.

Chick before that was a EX that lived with me temporarily and I tried to open up to her and she just was :manny: and she was really into her other ex at the time. They live together now.

Chick before that I tried to get something poppin after failing to smash after sooooo many opportunities. Ended up losing her due to me just getting jealous at the end(Even though I didn't really like her like that.) She got a man now.

Chick before that was a friend of a relative that came to live with us for a while and for about 2 years I was smashing her pretty much every day and while she wasn't my official girl I had other chicks I talked to on the side since she was "friends" with other dudes who obviously weren't platonic as she tried to make it be. I don't think I "lost" as I got a lot of mileage out that p*ssy and she's with the "friend" now and has a baby by him and they live together.


:mjcry: I think my last two situations sucked especially my most recent one. Chick went from "loving" me to not having feelings anymore after a couple of months. :snoop: I feel jaded now.
 

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Only you can change patterns and routine, you keep associating with the same type of women regardless of her age, ethnicity etc., if I drink Pepsi, coke, rc cola, 355ml, a litre etc. there different brands and sizes but there all cola. It's easy to get caught up in the same pattern but at the end of the day the only consistent thing in every relationship is you.

The signs are always there but we don't want to see it most of the time.
 

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Only you can change patterns and routine, you keep associating with the same type of women regardless of her age, ethnicity etc., if I drink Pepsi, coke, rc cola, 355ml, a litre etc. there different brands and sizes but there all cola. It's easy to get caught up in the same pattern but at the end of the day the only consistent thing in every relationship is you.

The signs are always there but we don't want to see it most of the time.
:pachaha: you got an analogy for everything lol.
"Chicks are like Mass Effect, you can finish it one way or start a new game and recognize the moments where you should do something different to get what you want."
 

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Was with my ex yesterday and we got drunk and I almost fukked her. I didn't tho, she passed out and I left and went to philly to be with some other broad.

She coming back. She just want the summer
 
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