Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Scustin Trillberlake]

I think Win and myself had a small discussion about street games vs meeting women through a social circle. I think I might run a street game experiment within the next month just to see what type of results I get. I might do this. Post a youtube vid for the coli and everything. We should actually all do this. Make a goal or something.

Approach 20 women by Oct 15th. Post how many phone numbers you get, how many times you get laid, and how many women out of the 20 are interested in a more serious relationship.

Who is down?

 

[Ohene]

I think Win and myself had a small discussion about street games vs meeting women through a social circle. I think I might run a street game experiment within the next month just to see what type of results I get. I might do this. Post a youtube vid for the coli and everything. We should actually all do this. Make a goal or something.

Approach 20 women by Oct 15th. Post how many phone numbers you get, how many times you get laid, and how many women out of the 20 are interested in a more serious relationship.

Who is down?

I'm down breh. However my getting laid numbers will be lower. I usually dont go in for the kill in such a short period. I oughta though

 

[illadope]

I think Win and myself had a small discussion about street games vs meeting women through a social circle. I think I might run a street game experiment within the next month just to see what type of results I get. I might do this. Post a youtube vid for the coli and everything. We should actually all do this. Make a goal or something.

Approach 20 women by Oct 15th. Post how many phone numbers you get, how many times you get laid, and how many women out of the 20 are interested in a more serious relationship.

Who is down?

Haha I'll try this

 

[Rayzah]

Picking women up off the street is you see a woman walking on the sidewalk and maybe you pull up next to her in your ride and holla at her or you're walking around in the mall and you go up to her and just start hollaring at her. Or you're at a gas station and you just hollar at the girl and it's your first time seeing her. This is in context of something long-term. There is plenty of one nighter type material doing that, but I personally would avoid attempting anything more than a woman you've met in that manner.

One rule I hold in my mind is that my looks and my game is not unprecedented. I'm not doing something that hasn't been done before and I'm not the only good looking guy out there. If I can just up and approach a woman who has never met me, knows nothing about me and is just comfortable enough to move and groove with me, that raises up red flags in my mind. The only thing she knew about me was she felt how I looked and maybe she enjoyed a minor conversation with me. How many other guys that she thinks looks good and have a little bit of conversation can do the exact same thing?

From my observations, the best women usually are the sort of out of way gems that don't go out much, but you meet them through mutual friends or maybe at some sort of place you frequent and the two of you may not immediately hit it off but eventually grow comfortable with each other.

Can meeting a woman that you street approached work and you end up with a quality woman? Yeah, it can, but I wouldn't say that is a high probability way of doing things.

I have always felt this way.

 

[illadope]

I wanted to send a pic of my stuff to a few girls last weekend but then I was like nah...haha

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Gotta put you cats on to some stuff. If your dating a woman and she is more then 15 mins late on the 1st date.Major red flag and cut your losses.I say 15 mins because of the famous "15 minute" rule in college. Give her time in case of traffic,other stuff etc.... but if you keep getting texts after 15 mins saying "be there in a few", "give me a sec",she is trollin and you need to keep it moving. Back when I first came into the game,I would wait a half an hour,just because I couldnt wait to see her and how good she would look.I was young at time,now I realze my time is way more valuable.

 

[Swing]

This chick told me her mother kept calling her a whore when she still lived at home and she "doesn't know why"

 

[MikelArteta]

I don't do cold approaches or pick ups I exited the game but in the past nope not because I'm shy or scared.

Why? I don't know her, the only thing that attracted me is her looks, I was the type to sit back an watch for days even weeks where I could evaluate her tendacies, her body motions, before I step up.

By coldly approaching and spitting pick up lines you are giving her the power already, I don't.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk breh!

 

[winb83]

Picking women up off the street is you see a woman walking on the sidewalk and maybe you pull up next to her in your ride and holla at her or you're walking around in the mall and you go up to her and just start hollaring at her. Or you're at a gas station and you just hollar at the girl and it's your first time seeing her. This is in context of something long-term. There is plenty of one nighter type material doing that, but I personally would avoid attempting anything more than a woman you've met in that manner.

One rule I hold in my mind is that my looks and my game is not unprecedented. I'm not doing something that hasn't been done before and I'm not the only good looking guy out there. If I can just up and approach a woman who has never met me, knows nothing about me and is just comfortable enough to move and groove with me, that raises up red flags in my mind. The only thing she knew about me was she felt how I looked and maybe she enjoyed a minor conversation with me. How many other guys that she thinks looks good and have a little bit of conversation can do the exact same thing?

From my observations, the best women usually are the sort of out of way gems that don't go out much, but you meet them through mutual friends or maybe at some sort of place you frequent and the two of you may not immediately hit it off but eventually grow comfortable with each other.

Can meeting a woman that you street approached work and you end up with a quality woman? Yeah, it can, but I wouldn't say that is a high probability way of doing things.

this sort of attitude is why traditional dating only really takes place inside a man's already defined social circle of work, school, previous school and mutual friends.

to me and this is just me personally if a woman has never met you and looks you over and deems you worthy of at least talking to and contact information is exchanged it really makes no difference how the meeting occurred unless it started at a questionable place. if you see a woman at Walmart and get her number cause she looked fly to you there's nothing wrong with that.

also to me my ideal woman is one that's totally outside my social circle. the deeper into your own social circle you date the harder it is to make a clean break if need because yall know the same people. also the worse the blow back will be if you break it off because again yall know the same people. women also love to run their mouth so date inside your social circle and everybody will know your business.

 

[Ohene]

this sort of attitude is why traditional dating only really takes place inside a man's already defined social circle of work, school, previous school and mutual friends.

to me and this is just me personally if a woman has never met you and looks you over and deems you worthy of at least talking to and contact information is exchanged it really makes no difference how the meeting occurred unless it started at a questionable place. if you see a woman at Walmart and get her number cause she looked fly to you there's nothing wrong with that.

also to me my ideal woman is one that's totally outside my social circle. the deeper into your own social circle you date the harder it is to make a clean break if need because yall know the same people. also the worse the blow back will be if you break it off because again yall know the same people. women also love to run their mouth so date inside your social circle and everybody will know your business.

dap this nikka

 

[winb83]

I don't do cold approaches or pick ups I exited the game but in the past nope not because I'm shy or scared.

Why? I don't know her, the only thing that attracted me is her looks, I was the type to sit back an watch for days even weeks where I could evaluate her tendacies, her body motions, before I step up.

By coldly approaching and spitting pick up lines you are giving her the power already, I don't.


Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk breh!

you're walking up to her with the attitude that "hey you seem interesting, you caught my eye. here i am if you're interested too then let's exchange contact info and see where things go."

by sitting back and observing a woman you don't personally know you can't gather too much information that's important. you won't learn the really important stuff until you start interacting with her. even then it takes a long time to get a good picture of who you're dealing with. you could deal with a female personally for months and not have a clear picture of who she is fully and this is first hand from interacting with her knowledge. what can you really gather by observing her at a distance that's of high value?

what yall are saying is basically if you were in the mall headed to a store you like and you saw a shirt you liked the look of in a window of a store you've never been in you'd pass it up and just go to your usual store because you only by clothing at stores you frequent at. even if you do that for a reason it takes away a variety of options from you because you can now only pick from whatever those stores present you. if its not at that store even if it fits your taste perfectly you won't get the opportunity to choose it.

 

[Just like bruddas]

Yall guys think way too much bout this stuff. I think thats the biggest problem.


If she's feeling u then ya approach game doesnt matter. its a hit and a miss

 

[Ohene]

ive never understood the whole, "oh he only approached me cause he thinks i'm attractive and wants to fukk"

so what?

why would I go for somebody that I am not in the least bit attracted to. Cmon Reincar thats female logic. Approach the girl, get to know her, if shes cool...nice. If she is rachet, flakey, or a bird....bounce her. It really costs you nothing so I do not see the issue

and good analogy winb. theyre essentially saying, I dont know how the shirt will look on me or if I have any shoes/jeans that would go well in combination. Go in and try the shirt on and then make that decision.

 

[winb83]

Yall guys think way too much bout this stuff. I think thats the biggest problem.


If she's feeling u then ya approach game doesnt matter. its a hit and a miss

an approach itself is almost meaningless. it doesn't empower a woman or even mean you want her. going back to clothing if you walk up to a shirt and pick up the hanger have you empowered or committed to wanting that shirt? are you locking into buying it? naw you just saw something that caught your eye and decided to investigate it a bit. you might pick it up and decide naw and put it back on the rack.

too many guys feel like if they approach a woman it means they want her and they have something to lose if she rejects them.

you go to a used car lot and you might approach 15 cars. it means nothing, doesn't even mean you want the car. somehow there people seen the real value of an approach but when it comes to approaching women men act like its got a much higher value.

 

[MikelArteta]

we differ