she called me and we spoke for like a hour and she apologized etc., my pride is telling me to 
but i dunno brehs .
but i dunno brehs .
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If she apologized its all good. I mean if yall gonna be a item you gonna go through it. If it aint some kinda re occurring issues move past it and keep it rocking.she called me and we spoke for like a hour and she apologized etc., my pride is telling me to
Noooooooooo. Drop her....go back to the white girls!!!!!she called me and we spoke for like a hour and she apologized etc., my pride is telling me to
Been survying the board and i value the advice and gems ive picked up in here.
So heres my story.
Me and this chick from my school who i had a eye for exchanged numbers. We started talking she said she wanted to take things slow because she's been hurt and she's scared to trust men. I expressed to her i'm cool with that, and that i'm interested in looking for a relationship. She said she's interested in seeing where it leads as well, but she's scared cause she's dated men that did her wrong everytime. Same night we texting the convo slipped to sex and she was like she wanna swallow the whole D. Cool i'm with it. About 4-5 days later i slide by her crib smash. We still text talk and flirt around in school after etc. So the next weekend we had plans to link i hit her no response called twice no response. Go on IG and a mutual friend of ours liked a video which leads to her instagram and she's at a party posting videos and ignoring my text. So the next morning she says lost her phone. (BS) But i go with it, cause i can easily look to her social page for info if i want so why expose that. So we make arrangements and again she go's off with her friends, and says some bs excuse about she likes when a man makes plans and tells her lets go not wait or as for her to say she's available and how her time is limited so sometimes she will just go off with her friends. I peep the BS and cold turkey stop hitting her.. She didn't hit me i didn't hit her.. That weekend i went and bought a new car, and just started getting back to the scene and doing me. That monday she text me in class saying hey you remember me i said yea whats up u ok ? she said yea u ok ? i said yea i'm straight. Cut the small talk. I would see her around school after and give her a hey whats up and keep it moving. I start dating a girl who is our higher up in our field.
So a month goes by its finals week. I get a long text about how she missed me and she was dealing w/ family issues that's why she stopped talking to me so sudden but she wanted to let me know she missed me alot and how i was a perfect fit and she was scared cause i was too perfect. So i write back and express my words and she keeps prolonging the conversation, before you know it were back talking. So i asked had she slept with anybody since we stopped talking she said yes. She asked me i admitted i have. She asked me about the girl i was more seriously talking to and if she was still in the picture, i expressed no we are just figuring things out. So later on she expresses she more concerned because me and this other girl went on a date kayaking and she felt maybe there was strong feelings and kept inquiring about the girl. So now she's made a lot more attempts to be around me and see me. So this weekend she comes back to my house and we smash. Got her off multiple times and she's been extra clingy and affectionate.
Funny to me cause the 1st tim we was talking all we did was text and even then the texts where inconsistent and dry on her behalf. sometimes she would respond other times not. We probably talked on the phone like 3 times. Now the second time round she's been very consistent, call and face time everyday while she was away on vacation and showing alot of interest.
Thoughts ?
So heres my story.
Me and this chick from my school who i had a eye for exchanged numbers. We started talking she said she wanted to take things slow because she's been hurt and she's scared to trust men. I expressed to her i'm cool with that, and that i'm interested in looking for a relationship. She said she's interested in seeing where it leads as well, but she's scared cause she's dated men that did her wrong everytime. Same night we texting the convo slipped to sex and she was like she wanna swallow the whole D. Cool i'm with it. About 4-5 days later i slide by her crib smash. We still text talk and flirt around in school after etc. So the next weekend we had plans to link i hit her no response called twice no response. Go on IG and a mutual friend of ours liked a video which leads to her instagram and she's at a party posting videos and ignoring my text. So the next morning she says lost her phone. (BS) But i go with it, cause i can easily look to her social page for info if i want so why expose that. So we make arrangements and again she go's off with her friends, and says some bs excuse about she likes when a man makes plans and tells her lets go not wait or as for her to say she's available and how her time is limited so sometimes she will just go off with her friends. I peep the BS and cold turkey stop hitting her.. She didn't hit me i didn't hit her.. That weekend i went and bought a new car, and just started getting back to the scene and doing me. That monday she text me in class saying hey you remember me i said yea whats up u ok ? she said yea u ok ? i said yea i'm straight. Cut the small talk. I would see her around school after and give her a hey whats up and keep it moving. I start dating a girl who is our higher up in our field.
So a month goes by its finals week. I get a long text about how she missed me and she was dealing w/ family issues that's why she stopped talking to me so sudden but she wanted to let me know she missed me alot and how i was a perfect fit and she was scared cause i was too perfect. So i write back and express my words and she keeps prolonging the conversation, before you know it were back talking. So i asked had she slept with anybody since we stopped talking she said yes. She asked me i admitted i have. She asked me about the girl i was more seriously talking to and if she was still in the picture, i expressed no we are just figuring things out. So later on she expresses she more concerned because me and this other girl went on a date kayaking and she felt maybe there was strong feelings and kept inquiring about the girl. So now she's made a lot more attempts to be around me and see me. So this weekend she comes back to my house and we smash. Got her off multiple times and she's been extra clingy and affectionate.
Funny to me cause the 1st tim we was talking all we did was text and even then the texts where inconsistent and dry on her behalf. sometimes she would respond other times not. We probably talked on the phone like 3 times. Now the second time round she's been very consistent, call and face time everyday while she was away on vacation and showing alot of interest.
Thoughts ?
She's not worth another thought. You barely knew her and she is so afraid of getting hurt, but she is already talking super sexual with you? She's already lying to you and going to parties? If you're going to med school and you come out as a doctor, you'll have way too many better options with women than spending time with her.
you got put on lay away from the jump breh
Why? People cant be hurt anymore from past relationships and admit to it?
Sounds like you were a back up plan from the get go, and its really nothing wrong with that. The lying and fronting you should watch out for. But if she holding you down now
Just Tread carefully.Either she really was dealing with some heavy family stuff or she's mad emotional.
Also when a girl see's you with another girl we instantly become more desirable to them, I hang with my sister alot and people always think we are a couple
I swear I get flirted with twice as much when I'm out with her as opposed to going out alone or with the homies.Fine byt yoy just said he should have bushed before he got to see her actions. Hence my comment.
The words never matched the actions. She's playing her position now it's just weird to me. Is it because she knows i was dealing with two different females in higher status and i had them feeling me, is she clocking my instagram and seeing i just started doing me after we stopped talking. Or like i straight told her i feel like it didn't work out with who she was talking to while i was gone and she felt i was the safe option to come back to.
Its probably a bit of all of the above honestly.
I cant speal for other girls but im very respectful of people relationships. Some people do jot respect boundaries.Sounds like you were a back up plan from the get go, and its really nothing wrong with that. The lying and fronting you should watch out for. But if she holding you down now
Either she really was dealing with some heavy family stuff or she's mad emotional.
Also when a girl see's you with another girl we instantly become more desirable to them, I hang with my sister alot and people always think we are a couple
Like other dude said prob a little bit of it all.. if you wanna put up with her go for it
reminds me, I had some docs in my family, one was reallllllllly lame and just weird growing up. Dude was feasting just cause he was in medical school, I'm sure you'll be fine my dude.
Question is having sex part of dating? I just shocked at the causal sexual encounters with someone you are not being exclusive with. Is that normal?