Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[TheArchitect]

This is true to certain degree. A woman can be difficult with other men, but there maybe a man who she knows personally and wouldn't dare test him and act irrational toward him like she does with other men. It could be the guy she always wanted to be with and waiting for the opportunity to bond with him while she rejects the other men or giving them a hard time. Gentlemen, it never worth your time to jump over hurdles to pursue a woman's interest and heart. If she gives any indication that she isn't interest or isn't matching your effort, it is best to leave her alone.

See, this is one reason I'm training myself mentally for the possibility of never having kids or "connecting" to anyone. I've never been anyone's number 1, and I'm probably too old to even build a connection like that with anyone. I kind of feel I maybe missed out on that part of life, so I'm just kind of in the field wandering around aimlessly...

I couldn't of been Ace Rothstein. Casino would of ended quiiiiite differently. You think you have something nice, than find it's some other fool she'll probably leave in a drop of a dime for, and she just kind of "settled" for you. Can you imagine the feeling of being played out like that? I try not to. It's infuriating/devestating....

That's the type of shyt that breeds supervillains...

 

[SchrodingersStrapped!]

Brehs .... been dating this new chick, intelligent and beautiful girl, shes an accountant and doesnt have facebook twitter or any of that shyt.

anyways, met her twice and both times shyt went very smooth imo .... but she doesnt give much away which makes it hard to know where I stand. She told me what she thinks of me and its all positive things, and time just flys past when we together .... she gives me absolutely no game confirmation though. Anyways talking on whatsapp last night (its always IM that is the start of fukkeries) ... I must have made a joke and referred to her as (her name) no.2 (we had previously been joking about how she thinks shes the only person with that name when I actually dated someone with that name before) ..... she got all weird from there and even said she doesnt think it will work :/ ... then she said we can talk about it tomorrow, havent messaged her since.

this is a complete 180 from how she was behaving the last few weeks I been talking to her, is it time for me to fall the fukk back and leave her alone? Or was I out of pocket ?

2015 and she don't have a fb , she giving you breh ... She's hiding something from you

 

[Atlrocafella]

I think one of my female friends that I've been cool with since high school is lowkey starting to feel me. We would check on each other time to time and have pretty good lengthy conversations on a range of things, never on some trying to holla. Now all of a sudden she's sending me goodnight text messages out the blue...I wouldn't mind dating her cause she's cool and very attractive, it could also be that it's cuffing sesson and she's tryna make a play so she won't be lonely for the fall and winter, either way I wouldn't mind if she wanted to go that route, I'm cutting down the list of females I'm dealing with now anyway, maybe the one closest to you that you never considered might be the dopest one for you. We gon see!

 

[Atlrocafella]

yup. I'm definetly giving when I care. That's why I'm not cool with a man who doesn't pay for things because I see that as him being selfish and trying to do the least amount to get the maximum results. I've bent over backwards in relationships. Now it's time for someone to do the same for me.

I got rid of my last ex because it was me covering everything 100%, I set up all the dates and events, Not that I would ask her to pay for anything if we went out, but the least she could do is cook for me when I don't feel like going out, she couldn't even do that. Both men and woman need to cut off leeches. These days I pay for the first date, than I will wait to see if the female will take initiative to set up the follow up. If she doesn't, it's bushes

 

[T-K-G]

brehs

if you are a typically laid-back/ somewhat indifferent type of nikka

do not


I repeat


do NOT, date a foreign chick unless she's from one of thosr industrialized world class cities like london or something or you WILL regret it

these broads be livin in these small rural places where everything is based around emotions and feeling, no troll, some countries ir areas legit dont believe in shyt like depression, adhd, etc.

because of this, they dont have any logical reasons to solve or deal with them

if you arent excessively emotional yourself, expect to get bombs drop on you daily

if you thought your american girl was OD on emotions.....I got a bridge to sell you


enjoying a book: WHY ARE YOU READING AND NOT TALKING TO ME, ARE YOU UPSET? TELL ME YOUR FEELINGS IN MY COUNTRY WE DONT DO THIS!

eaiting something that YOU bought for yourself: do u like it?

me: I it's okay

her: OKAY? WHAT IS THIS "OKAY"? WE DONT USE WORDS LIKE THIS IN MY COUNTRY DO YOU LOVE IT OR HATE IT?

:smhcraig: this shyt gettin stressful, i cant even concentrate on anything because my "concentration face" doesnt look happy enough to her might have to cut this one loose and scoop me a hoodrat to cleanse my palette of this fukkery this chick was snapping at me because i don't really lose my cool, what type of twisted creature would actually WANT to see you In a bad mood?

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

i remember a situation i dealt with where i gave this girl a ride to her job. about a 20 minute drive. we get to the place, i spent another 5 minutes looking for parking. when i finally find parking, we get out the car, and its cold out. so i grab my jacket and i put it on. and the girl had this heavy bag she was carrying and she asked me to carry it for her. im like cool, i did. then, she starts to feel the cold and she goes, i'm freezing, give me your jacket. i looked at her like you've got some nerve. i just drove u to your job, saved you uber fare, i'm carrying your heavy ass bag, and now u want me to give you my jacket? then she gets all pissy like, you're so selfish. you're the most selfish person i know. blah blah blah

so at this point, i just start to chuckle because, i learned, when dealing with unreasonable people, women especially, its best to say nothing and let ur actions speak for u. needless to say, i didn't give her my jacket. and i left her alone for a few hours to stew in her foolishness till she calmed down and called me back.

A lot of women will take your kindness for weakness dawg. After my last gf it really hit home for me that there's nothing worse than an ungrateful woman. I don't know why a lot of women are like this tho. Even my friends, they'll completely forget that I give them rides and be trippin over something light. smh

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

brehs

if you are a typically laid-back/ somewhat indifferent type of nikka

do not


I repeat


do NOT, date a foreign chick unless she's from one of thosr industrialized world class cities like london or something or you WILL regret it

these broads be livin in these small rural places where everything is based around emotions and feeling, no troll, some countries ir areas legit dont believe in shyt like depression, adhd, etc.

because of this, they dont have any logical reasons to solve or deal with them

if you arent excessively emotional yourself, expect to get bombs drop on you daily

if you thought your american girl was OD on emotions.....I got a bridge to sell you


enjoying a book: WHY ARE YOU READING AND NOT TALKING TO ME, ARE YOU UPSET? TELL ME YOUR FEELINGS IN MY COUNTRY WE DONT DO THIS!

eaiting something that YOU bought for yourself: do u like it?

me: I it's okay

her: OKAY? WHAT IS THIS "OKAY"? WE DONT USE WORDS LIKE THIS IN MY COUNTRY DO YOU LOVE IT OR HATE IT?

:smhcraig: this shyt gettin stressful, i cant even concentrate on anything because my "concentration face" doesnt look happy enough to her might have to cut this one loose and scoop me a hoodrat to cleanse my palette of this fukkery this chick was snapping at me because i don't really lose my cool, what type of twisted creature would actually WANT to see you In a bad mood?

Latin women are NOTORIOUS for this!

 

[Mr Hate Coffee]

Brehs .... been dating this new chick, intelligent and beautiful girl, shes an accountant and doesnt have facebook twitter or any of that shyt.

anyways, met her twice and both times shyt went very smooth imo .... but she doesnt give much away which makes it hard to know where I stand. She told me what she thinks of me and its all positive things, and time just flys past when we together .... she gives me absolutely no game confirmation though. Anyways talking on whatsapp last night (its always IM that is the start of fukkeries) ... I must have made a joke and referred to her as (her name) no.2 (we had previously been joking about how she thinks shes the only person with that name when I actually dated someone with that name before) ..... she got all weird from there and even said she doesnt think it will work :/ ... then she said we can talk about it tomorrow, havent messaged her since.

this is a complete 180 from how she was behaving the last few weeks I been talking to her, is it time for me to fall the fukk back and leave her alone? Or was I out of pocket ?

Drop it. It's a sign. You need a girl with a sense of humor. She's showing she doesn't have one. I'm telling you breh. I done dated a LOT of girls. After my major relationship I started exploring different girls to see what I missed out on. Pretty much an extensive research project

What I've learned is that a woman who can't take a joke in the beginning never will be fun to be around. You'll always have to watch your words. I'm a sarcastic nikka so I start cracking jokes early in the process... Some girls roll with that shyt with ease... some even come back with a witty remark. A girl who gets upset isn't worth the time. My last message to the chick you're talking to would've been "Lighten up." and that's it.

 

[MAGNETO.]

Stop thinking about it. My friend is 24, met this bad bytch at a bar who was 31. Then he's like "man it sucks she's 31 I only date girls 25 and under"
The fukk kinda shyt u young mothafukkas on
She ain't gona be expecting some outrageous shyt unless you make it seem like you're the type to treat bytches to fancy dinners n shyt. You can prob finesse a free meal or 5 out of her if you play your cards right.

Fam girl at work was getting the whole Happy Birthday treatment
thought she was my age 20 or older 23-24
When they bought out her cake and it had a 30 on it ....

 

[satireprod]

A woman's humor and ability to rock with your humor is an underrated aspect

 

[SchrodingersStrapped!]

Yo

brehs

if you are a typically laid-back/ somewhat indifferent type of nikka

do not


I repeat


do NOT, date a foreign chick unless she's from one of thosr industrialized world class cities like london or something or you WILL regret it

these broads be livin in these small rural places where everything is based around emotions and feeling, no troll, some countries ir areas legit dont believe in shyt like depression, adhd, etc.

because of this, they dont have any logical reasons to solve or deal with them

if you arent excessively emotional yourself, expect to get bombs drop on you daily

if you thought your american girl was OD on emotions.....I got a bridge to sell you


enjoying a book: WHY ARE YOU READING AND NOT TALKING TO ME, ARE YOU UPSET? TELL ME YOUR FEELINGS IN MY COUNTRY WE DONT DO THIS!

eaiting something that YOU bought for yourself: do u like it?

me: I it's okay

her: OKAY? WHAT IS THIS "OKAY"? WE DONT USE WORDS LIKE THIS IN MY COUNTRY DO YOU LOVE IT OR HATE IT?

:smhcraig: this shyt gettin stressful, i cant even concentrate on anything because my "concentration face" doesnt look happy enough to her might have to cut this one loose and scoop me a hoodrat to cleanse my palette of this fukkery this chick was snapping at me because i don't really lose my cool, what type of twisted creature would actually WANT to see you In a bad mood?

you moving to her rhythm breh .. Chicks from a traditionalist background , usually third world country bihs, need a little guerilla finesse - you need to be firm with her like this what the fukk we do in my country, and if you don't like it go fukk someone from yours

 

[T-K-G]

Yo

you moving to her rhythm breh .. Chicks from a traditionalist background , usually third world country bihs, need a little guerilla finesse - you need to be firm with her like this what the fukk we do in my country, and if you don't like it go fukk someone from yours

breh you dont think I do that?

sometimes I just feel bad when she cryin next to me cuz im playin metal gear n shyt i softened up a bit this past month tho cuz i thought she was past that phase

I had it locked down like that for a while then when we got serious she slipped back into it cuz now she has the "we're in a relationship now so you have to be considerate and think about "we" Iinstead of "you"" defense


to be fair it's nowhere near as bad as when we first met (It used to be even if I left the ROOM she'd catch feelings) but when she slips back into it she slips DEEP back into it

 

[SchrodingersStrapped!]

breh you dont think I do that?

sometimes I just feel bad when she cryin next to me and im playin metal gear n shyt i softened up a bit this past month tho cuz i thought she was past that phase

I had it locked down like that for a while then when we got serious she slipped back into it cuz now she has the "we're in a relationship now so you have to be considerate and think about "we" Iinstead of "you"" defense


to be fair it's nowhere near as bad as when we first met (It used to be even if I left the ROOM she'd catch feelings) but when she slips back into it she slips DEEP back into it

Breh she Latina or Asian ?? .... my ex was exactly like this (Latina) .. And I usually kept it G .. Like this is how we do ... There's also plus side to dating chicks like this , they spoil a breh good esp if they Asian ... you good off shorty ?? Better to have her a little fragile , than to have the progressive feminist type ... That's a whole different nightmare

 

[T-K-G]

Breh she Latina or Asian? .... my ex was exactly like this (Latina) .. And I usually kept it G .. Like this is how we do ... There's also plus side to dating chicks like this , they spoil a breh good esp if they Asian ... you good off shorty ?? Better to have her a little fragile , than to have the progressive feminist type ... That's a whole different nightmare

Im eating VERY well tbh, buys me shyt, cooks, cleans (I do that stuff too but Im always like that )

shyt she even down for a 3 way actively looking for girls she's attracted to right now


but in order to keep alladat shyt, i gotta cut my "me time" down to a MINIMUM or she goes straight exorcist status, head spinning crazy

i could understand if i was leaving the crib for personal space cuz it coulda been some"oh she think im cheatin" shyt

but i can literally be right next to her i appreciate the love but im a pretty independet type of nikka by nature so her bein OD clingy is getting to me

i usually read a ton, but it's taking me so long to get thru just one without getting into a fight over it


there's a such thing as too much passion brehs i cant imagine being on a roller coaster of emotions all day everyday

 

[SchrodingersStrapped!]

Im eating VERY well tbh, buys me shyt, cooks, cleans (I do that stuff too but Im always like that )

shyt she even down for a 3 way actively looking for girls she's attracted to right now


but in order to keep alladat shyt, i gotta cut my "me time" down to a MINIMUM or she goes straight exorcist status, head spinning crazy

i could understand if i was leaving the crib for personal space cuz it coulda been some"oh she think im cheatin" shyt

but i can literally be right next to her i appreciate the love but im a pretty independet type of nikka by nature so her bein OD clingy is getting to me

i usually read a ton, but it's taking me so long to get thru just one without getting into a fight over it


there's a such thing as too much passion brehs i cant imagine being on a roller coaster of emotions all day everyday

Breh she can be conditioned, using basic operant conditioning .. You have to reward her for giving you "me time".... So when she gives you that little bit of space ... Reward her for it .. Take her out , eat her out , do whatever she wants ... But when she start acting up don't go the extra mile ... Never tell her you need space though ..keep it psychological breh stay indifferent and you will keep and still have time for other shyt .. Usually when it looks like you don't give a shyt , Bih will try to get you to show emotion