Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I can never find someone who's in the same situation as me. Most girls I meet are either still dealing with their EX or seriously talking to someone.
that's cuz there's so many dudes who spend all day hittin up these girls breh, even the good girls gone have atleast 2-3 nikkas tryna get in the mix :manny: just somethin u gotta deal with, if you had girls hittin on you all day you'd be the same
 

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if a relationship is streessing you out better to leave early than late imo
fuxk dat Im still tryna reap the benefits

i've done this dance before but hate doing it cuz I dont wanna hurt any feelings but she bouta catch that serious wave of indifference :win:


btw it wasnt stressing me out as much as the post/smileys seem :patrice: I just get annoyed when people dont make no damn sense
 

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u aint listenin to wat Im sayin :what:

I BARELY can watch tv/read a book/play a game because I gotta give ghis chick attention or she goes batshyt crazy. im talkin like for every 4-5 hours I spend kickin it with her, if a take an hour to do me, she wildin out about it

her only insecurity is that she needs in-your-face reassurance about liking her, and I have no problem doing that :manny:
but 18+ hours of my day doing that shyt? man hell naw :smhcraig::camby: she already admitted to being an attention whore so that's why I feel like this shyt never gonna end :why: might just cut my losses

To tell you the truth, I don't know why you're even with this chick. That kind of atmosphere is extremely unhealthy and I'd lose my mind being around someone like that 24/7. The mere fact you can't even have an hour to yourself without her going off should tell you all you need to know.

She needs some kind of professional help for her issues and you need to just walk away.
 

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Damn brehs... That chick has gone full ice Queen mode, I sent her a message saying i wanted to call her and had a few things to address, bytch just read the message and left me hanging. Why is it always the most legit, virgin type females that play the most games :upsetfavre:

Gotta chalk that up as a L and keep it moving. She clearly had more dudes in her roster.... I jus appreciate if a chick would tell you directly instead of just ignoring you and have u thinking for no reason. :francis:
 

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Damn brehs... That chick has gone full ice Queen mode, I sent her a message saying i wanted to call her and had a few things to address, bytch just read the message and left me hanging. Why is it always the most legit, virgin type females that play the most games :upsetfavre:

Gotta chalk that up as a L and keep it moving. She clearly had more dudes in her roster.... I jus appreciate if a chick would tell you directly instead of just ignoring you and have u thinking for no reason. :francis:

I seen it coming the minute I read your first post about her. I know her kind very well. They get off on playing these stupid ass games. Talking about "I don't think it will work out" because you called her (her name) number 2? :what:

Stuff like this is why I stay on my guard and have no expectations whatsoever.

I wouldn't even have bothered with her after that.
 

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I seen it coming the minute I read your first post about her. I know her kind very well. They get off on playing these stupid ass games. Talking about "I don't think it will work out" because you called her (her name) number 2? :what:

Stuff like this is why I stay on my guard and have no expectations whatsoever.

I wouldn't even have bothered with her after that.
It's crazy man, I knew in my hearts of hearts that this would probably happen but still I messaged her to see what's good. I just can't help simping chicks that I'm really into, it's like my calm and collected self just leaves the mind. It's the fact that we had such a good time together and she was starting to warm to me and really get comfortable and then bam, 180 in an instant, fukks up my mental. It's fukked up cos these chicks know that they're last of a dying breed so you got no room to slip.
 

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It's crazy man, I knew in my hearts of hearts that this would probably happen but still I messaged her to see what's good. I just can't help simping chicks that I'm really into, it's like my calm and collected self just leaves the mind. It's the fact that we had such a good time together and she was starting to warm to me and really get comfortable and then bam, 180 in an instant, fukks up my mental. It's fukked up cos these chicks know that they're last of a dying breed so you got no room to slip.

And they can sense that.

I hear you though. I guess I've been forced to have a hardened heart and outlook after my life experiences, but I know it ain't easy lol. It's just that when you mentioned how she doesn't give much away or lets you know where you stand, I knew it was dead in the water then and there. The thing is, you can never be fooled just because a chick smiles and jokes with you....that doesn't mean shyt to me. It's also not an indicator or whether she's a "good one" or not. Profession is irrelevant, intelligence matters to a certain degree, but I always watch their actions no matter what they tell me. I know what little things to pick up on once you crack through the facade.

You have to develop a relationship with yourself to the point where even if you were transported into the middle of nowhere for the rest of your life, you'd be a peace with yourself until the end.
 

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u aint listenin to wat Im sayin :what:

I BARELY can watch tv/read a book/play a game because I gotta give ghis chick attention or she goes batshyt crazy. im talkin like for every 4-5 hours I spend kickin it with her, if a take an hour to do me, she wildin out about it

her only insecurity is that she needs in-your-face reassurance about liking her, and I have no problem doing that :manny:
but 18+ hours of my day doing that shyt? man hell naw :smhcraig::camby: she already admitted to being an attention whore so that's why I feel like this shyt never gonna end :why: might just cut my losses
Lol I hope you two not living together because that's a lot of time being spent together just to be annoyed. If she admitted to being an attention whore why even keep entertaining her you two are obviously mismatched she's not going to change and neither are you. You already seem to know what time it is. If you have to ask the question you pretty much know the answer. Find someone less stressful and more independent.
 

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fuxk dat Im still tryna reap the benefits

i've done this dance before but hate doing it cuz I dont wanna hurt any feelings but she bouta catch that serious wave of indifference :win:


btw it wasnt stressing me out as much as the post/smileys seem :patrice: I just get annoyed when people dont make no damn sense
I think the emotional tone of your posts were pretty obvious because you seemed stressed initially about your situation and seemed to become even more agitated as you posted more. You say you're calm and collected but it was hard for me to tell through your communication on here. Some posters here are very consise and clear when they communicate but then you have ones that gives bits and pieces of vague information for you to put together and want to get belligerent when you're not telling them what they want to hear. If your posts are any indication of how you are in real life then you come across as someone not easy to discuss issues with, dismissive personality, in one ear and out the the other.
 
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Chumps who wife up :scust: single moms don't realise they a stimulus package and that's all ... Bihhs like this know they chumps breh .... My mans older brother wifed up a broad with 3 kids .. None of which was his, and now she's club hopping while this simp babysitting .. She calls it girls night out :ehh: and we know what that means .... Brehs never learn though :dahell:
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It's crazy man, I knew in my hearts of hearts that this would probably happen but still I messaged her to see what's good. I just can't help simping chicks that I'm really into, it's like my calm and collected self just leaves the mind. It's the fact that we had such a good time together and she was starting to warm to me and really get comfortable and then bam, 180 in an instant, fukks up my mental. It's fukked up cos these chicks know that they're last of a dying breed so you got no room to slip.

no homo but maybe before u do somethin stupid next time, rub one out and see where your mind's at .. that post nut clarity will never lead you astray. nh
also, im sure you've been told before but when you're talking to multiple women, even if it's just two, your perspective changes. just having an option when one girl flakes is very empowering.

lots of folks no longer use fb....me included

cosign i havent been on that weak shyt all year and theres articles everywhere showing how people (esp younger people) aren't fukkin with fb like that anymore.
 
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Damn brehs... That chick has gone full ice Queen mode, I sent her a message saying i wanted to call her and had a few things to address, bytch just read the message and left me hanging. Why is it always the most legit, virgin type females that play the most games :upsetfavre:

Gotta chalk that up as a L and keep it moving. She clearly had more dudes in her roster.... I jus appreciate if a chick would tell you directly instead of just ignoring you and have u thinking for no reason. :francis:

It's crazy man, I knew in my hearts of hearts that this would probably happen but still I messaged her to see what's good. I just can't help simping chicks that I'm really into, it's like my calm and collected self just leaves the mind. It's the fact that we had such a good time together and she was starting to warm to me and really get comfortable and then bam, 180 in an instant, fukks up my mental. It's fukked up cos these chicks know that they're last of a dying breed so you got no room to slip.

My nikka, what you encountered was this:

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What you need is this:

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So you can then see this:

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And determine if you are dealing with a clone of the real bytch or the original.

Because if you are dealing with the clone, some nikka is fukking the original while you are encountering resistance from her "fake" personality and as they say on here "You share that girl".

When a Woman's attention is divided I liken that to dealing with a side of her personality - But you aren't dealing with her whole self and she doesn't respect you enough to give you her whole undivided attention.

In the anime I am referring to a clone only has 1/10th the strength of the original. So if you're dealing with 1/10th of the bytch she considers your game weak and not worthy of the original. But this is not a fight you want to "win", the best thing you can do is leave the clone alone and ignore it.

Once the bytch has used the cloning technique you've already lost the game. Don't invest time or money into bytches that have a bunch of clones - Different personalities on Facebook, Twitter, IRL, phone constantly blowing up etc. She is spreading herself too thin and has no time for you.

Most bytches have at least 3, ( 1 for fam, 1 for friends and 1 for work etc.) but don't fukk with hoes that have anymore than that.
 

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no homo but maybe before u do somethin stupid next time, rub one out and see where your mind's at .. that post nut clarity will never lead you astray. nh
also, im sure you've been told before but when you're talking to multiple women, even if it's just two, your perspective changes. just having an option when one girl flakes is very empowering.



cosign i havent been on that weak shyt all year and theres articles everywhere showing how people (esp younger people) aren't fukkin with fb like that anymore.
Not gonna lie theres only been one time where ive had options and youre right, my prospective on these girls did change .... didnt give a fukk when one went astray and rather then simping to get them back, they come back themselves when they realise you dont give a fukk. its just getting that roster though :jbhmm:, not enough hours in the day to be setting one up.
 

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My nikka, what you encountered was this:

Clone_technique.png


What you need is this:

4575565-6103089817-12012.gif


So you can then see this:

latest


And determine if you are dealing with a clone of the real bytch or the original.

Because if you are dealing with the clone, some nikka is fukking the original while you are encountering resistance from her "fake" personality and as they say on here "You share that girl".

When a Woman's attention is divided I liken that to dealing with a side of her personality - But you aren't dealing with her whole self and she doesn't respect you enough to give you her whole undivided attention.

In the anime I am referring to a clone only has 1/10th the strength of the original. So if you're dealing with 1/10th of the bytch she considers your game weak and not worthy of the original. But this is not a fight you want to "win", the best thing you can do is leave the clone alone and ignore it.

Once the bytch has used the cloning technique you've already lost the game. Don't invest time or money into bytches that have a bunch of clones - Different personalities on Facebook, Twitter, IRL, phone constantly blowing up etc. She is spreading herself too thin and has no time for you.

Most bytches have at least 3, ( 1 for fam, 1 for friends and 1 for work etc.) but don't fukk with hoes that have anymore than that.
Dope analogy breh .... I have a feeling you may be on to something with this, I definitely feel that she was dating or at least talking to more dudes than just me ... and ive experienced it on the other hand too ... having broads to choose from and giving the bench pre-loaded messages stored in the brain rather then really engaging them.
 
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