Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[360dagod]

oh it is....gets very stressful and old....

i suppose you can say my morale has dropped considerably. its gotten to the point where i HATE when i develop any kind if attraction to a female, and automatically try and talk myself out of taking my "shot." the reason being that i simply feel the game isnt really for me, and it will all be yet another waste of time. all the bullshyt, jumping through hoops, fickleness, games...a nikka just can't fukk with it anymore.

sad part is im probably the easiest to please...dont ask for much at all...

this is why thots and hoodrats will always have a place in the game at some level...

Im really at the point where i just offer advice to the younger nikkas...

I've been at every point with a female from the sidepiece to the nikka who got one upped on..

The "game"itself isnt the issue..Its just the "energy"level to actually play it all the way thru

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

That the thing I don't know . It was all good just yesterday having a good time and shyt. She sent me this text talking about "I can't be that girl for you anymore". So I texted and tried calling her but she ignoring all my shyt . Shyt just came outta no where.

Can you describe the bold part in more detail? What, exactly, do you mean when you say "all good" and "good time"? Can you give examples?

 

[360dagod]

Me and my girl have had a mutual breakup and we're going to try to be friends. I already mentally checked out of the relationship for around a year or half year, but as recently as 2/3 months ago I had a break down when I realized it was over for some reason. That's not really relevant tho.

What's relevant is that she's having a party and said I'm invited, but she claims that I might see a "different side of her" at the party so beware.

I'm like I've seen you high, drunk, and sloppy before, so what that means? She like "don't be mad if I'm talking to other dudes at the party."

I been talking to a couple of females since the break up, so do I shyt on this bytch by bringing one of them with me to the party

I wanna shyt on her so bad

If you wanna shyt on her...Move on

Women love attention...Even if its negative..

With Women, the key is if it sounds illogical and dumb..do it

 

[Atlrocafella]

That the thing I don't know . It was all good just yesterday having a good time and shyt. She sent me this text talking about "I can't be that girl for you anymore". So I texted and tried calling her but she ignoring all my shyt . Shyt just came outta no where.

breh we've said this in the thread time after time, this type of shyt happens, the best thing to do is block her from your life immediately.

 

[ThaJoker23]

Can you describe the bold part in more detail? What, exactly, do you mean when you say "all good" and "good time"? Can you give examples?

So basically me and my girl went out yesterday for dinner and a movie. We go out like twice a every week. When I say all good I really meant that it was nothing out the ordinary. We was laughing, joking and overall having a good time. Took her back to the crib for some time. She spent the night and left like at 5 in the morning. I get to work and boom there's the text . I looked at my phone like . I tried calling and texting but no answer . I'm just confused at the whole situation breh.

 

[ThaJoker23]

breh we've said this in the thread time after time, this type of shyt happens, the best thing to do is block her from your life immediately.

You right breh. that's 2 years down the drain just like that.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

So basically me and my girl went out yesterday for dinner and a movie. We go out like twice a every week. When I say all good I really meant that it was nothing out the ordinary. We was laughing, joking and overall having a good time. Took her back to the crib for some time. She spent the night and left like at 5 in the morning. I get to work and boom there's the text . I looked at my phone like . I tried calling and texting but no answer . I'm just confused at the whole situation breh.

Yall go out twice a week? At whose request mostly? And who usually pays?

 

[360dagod]

You right breh. that's 2 years down the drain just like that.

how old is she?

 

[ThaJoker23]

Yall go out twice a week? At whose request mostly? And who usually pays?

Yes. We both kinda agreed to go out twice a week. I pay most of the time.

 

[ThaJoker23]

how old is she?

23

 

[360dagod]

23

She is still considered on the cusp of being young...

Prolly made a quick decision for a temporary benefit...Rather it means freedom or someone else..

Just gotta pick up the pieces and move on

 

[ThaJoker23]

She is still considered on the cusp of being young...

Prolly made a quick decision for a temporary benefit...Rather it means freedom or someone else..

Just gotta pick up the pieces and move on

You right breh

 

[DarkHorse23]

A little advice, if I may.

You started off well with making plans. Worst thing you can be is a text buddy so you immediately jumped into "let's get up" mode. Good. But you should never put the ball in her court. You just gave her home court advantage. You always wanna have the upper hand. It puts you in control and also it makes her respect you. She said she had to go to a wedding. Cool. That's her missing out on an opportunity to see you and that's how you have to see it. Instead of let me know when and where. That's giving her the lead and the decision making responsibility. Those are masculine traits that women LOVE to see displayed, feel me? It also makes you seem kinda desperate. Like whatever she says you just gon clear your schedule for her. Nah, son. "Oh cool, enjoy the wedding. Perhaps another time" and then you try again next weekend or the one after that. Can't let these chicks think you're on their schedule. You're supposed to be an interesting man leading a busy life. You're doing you, you're not thinking about her. She should feel lucky you made some time for her, not "yeah girl, I got this nikka at my beck and call."

The key is to make her want you. If she already has you, how can she want you?

Ok yeah I feel you. Yeah the reason I texted that was because I read(I'm not the most experienced) that if you start setting days and specific times that you them a better chance to flake or reject you, and by allowing them to choose the day/time more convinent for her then she's more likely to say yes( paraphrasing). I do agree with you though the whole "I'll be there" was a mistake and not a good look.

 

[360dagod]

You right breh

Just fall back for a bit and block her number...

You know your relationship better than else on here...

Whatever you felt you did wrong, even if it seemed right,has to be taken into consideration...

 

[DarkHorse23]

good point. but we're talking about a chick this dude has never met. i like how he put the ball in her court. but if u haven't met a girl, a week is way too long to be talking. i've had girls ask why u in a rush to meet so soon and my answer is always the same. just wanna make sure we vibe and dont waste each other's time. i may meet u and not like u. its really that simple

I have met her. She interns at the same radio station as me. I never see her though. She works in news and I work in Sales/promotion. We work two different schedule. It's a 10 week internship, I'll probably run into her 3 times this 10 weeks at the station if I'm lucky. The first time I saw her was on the 14th at the orientation. The second time was Tursday (22nd) when we had lunch with the GM, the last time will most likely be in November when the interns meet all again.