Shameonyou
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Never ever take a chick that wants u after she just got out of a relationship seriously
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Tony_Siegel
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Can we get an alternative basketball/NBA metaphor for dealing with these woman to B?
What's yall opinion on chicks with close older brothers? I tend to realize that they are some of the best broads to deal with. They tend to have a better understanding of how to deal with men.
so its 1 and done no matter what even if married etc?
I call these chicks and other women that just appear out of the blue pop-ups. Out of nowhere they just come and be all over you. They are just looking at you as a rest haven to rejuvenate until they can get back with their ex or whatever else they are trying to do.
The 2 Strike Rule
I use what I call the 2 Strike Rule. This rule requires that:
The first time you call to ask her on a date she gives you a reasonable excuse. (strike one)
The second time you call (at least a week later) she gives another excuse, and in neither instance does she suggest an alternative time and/or place. (strike 2)
If 1 = true and 2 = true than 3 = NEXT!
There are a couple points I would like to stress on these rules.
If her first excuse was UNreasonable (see my example above) then you NEXT her immediately - she doesn’t get a second call.
If on the second call she is very apologetic and cannot suggest a specific time and place because she is really busy but gives a very strong indication that she wants to go out - AND both her excuses are rock solid... wait a week and then repeat step 2. However, a maximum of 3 strikes is allowed.
If you reach the 3 strike mark, no matter what the situation, that slip of paper with her number on it gets turned to ash.
Now, some of you might think that these rules are a bit harsh (maybe some of you will think they are a bit lax?) but here is my justification for these rules, and a basis for everything that follows the first successful date...
An Investment Strategy
In this analogy, I have equated girls with investment funds/stocks/whatever you want to call it. Your time is money. You’ve heard that phrase before right?
You have all this money that you would like to invest so that you can reap the profits (i.e., whatever you want from girls, be it sex, LTR, whatever). However, if you throw your money away you’ll have nothing left to invest with and get no profits.
You have a limited supply of time (money) and it is up to you to choose where to invest it - every investment is a risk. So, if you are a smart investor you don’t put everything in one fund!!!! This is key, do not spend all your time and effort going after a single girl. This is infatuation, and if the market crashes, you lose big time.
Each fund individually has a 100-fold higher probability of taking your money than giving you a profit.
How do you counter this seemingly insurmountable probability?
By investing small amounts in a large number of funds! The profitability of each fund individually may be poor, but the chances of scooping a profit on at least one of your funds is much higher!
But you want to come out on top overall right? You can’t afford to get a profit from one account and lose all your cash on the other 50, as you still end up in the hole. Never fear... this is why we have the 2 strike rule!
The 2 strike rule is my method for determining when each market is about to fall out from under you before you have invested too much. If you hit 2 strikes, SELL! Toss the number, recover what is left in the fund, save yourself from investing more time and effort into a losing proposition! You have several other accounts that have better odds of reaping a profit, and new ones come along every day!
You must believe that you are valuable, that your time is a commodity. Don’t give it away. This goes for any interaction you have after the first date also. (Heck, I use it as a judgment scale with my guy friends too!) If you put your time and effort into helping another person, and the next time you need a favor they shaft you, NEXT them like you would a chick! You are too valuable to let other people leech off you.
If you are in a relationship where she wants to call all the shots, doesn’t want to do the things you want to do, and is not giving you your due rewards for your efforts... NEXT.
To all the new DJs, if you’ve read the bible you should know that you have to be a man and not let other people step on you or give you s**t. Yet, coming from the world of AFCism, we are all tempted to give people another chance, to assume that they mean well, that maybe just maybe she will say yes on the 5th time you call her because she seems so nice to you whenever you talk to her.
Once you give someone one more chance, it’s a slippery slope and what’s the harm in giving them another? And pretty soon you are finding yourself chasing this girl that never wanted you in the first place but just couldn’t say no.
It’s handy to have set of concrete rules to follow. 2 strikes, that’s it guys. Don’t give them any more than that. Remember, if she has a high interest level she will make it easy for you!!!!
I use what I call the 2 Strike Rule. This rule requires that:
The first time you call to ask her on a date she gives you a reasonable excuse. (strike one)
The second time you call (at least a week later) she gives another excuse, and in neither instance does she suggest an alternative time and/or place. (strike 2)
If 1 = true and 2 = true than 3 = NEXT!
There are a couple points I would like to stress on these rules.
If her first excuse was UNreasonable (see my example above) then you NEXT her immediately - she doesn’t get a second call.
If on the second call she is very apologetic and cannot suggest a specific time and place because she is really busy but gives a very strong indication that she wants to go out - AND both her excuses are rock solid... wait a week and then repeat step 2. However, a maximum of 3 strikes is allowed.
If you reach the 3 strike mark, no matter what the situation, that slip of paper with her number on it gets turned to ash.
Now, some of you might think that these rules are a bit harsh (maybe some of you will think they are a bit lax?) but here is my justification for these rules, and a basis for everything that follows the first successful date...
An Investment Strategy
In this analogy, I have equated girls with investment funds/stocks/whatever you want to call it. Your time is money. You’ve heard that phrase before right?
You have all this money that you would like to invest so that you can reap the profits (i.e., whatever you want from girls, be it sex, LTR, whatever). However, if you throw your money away you’ll have nothing left to invest with and get no profits.
You have a limited supply of time (money) and it is up to you to choose where to invest it - every investment is a risk. So, if you are a smart investor you don’t put everything in one fund!!!! This is key, do not spend all your time and effort going after a single girl. This is infatuation, and if the market crashes, you lose big time.
Each fund individually has a 100-fold higher probability of taking your money than giving you a profit.
How do you counter this seemingly insurmountable probability?
By investing small amounts in a large number of funds! The profitability of each fund individually may be poor, but the chances of scooping a profit on at least one of your funds is much higher!
But you want to come out on top overall right? You can’t afford to get a profit from one account and lose all your cash on the other 50, as you still end up in the hole. Never fear... this is why we have the 2 strike rule!
The 2 strike rule is my method for determining when each market is about to fall out from under you before you have invested too much. If you hit 2 strikes, SELL! Toss the number, recover what is left in the fund, save yourself from investing more time and effort into a losing proposition! You have several other accounts that have better odds of reaping a profit, and new ones come along every day!
You must believe that you are valuable, that your time is a commodity. Don’t give it away. This goes for any interaction you have after the first date also. (Heck, I use it as a judgment scale with my guy friends too!) If you put your time and effort into helping another person, and the next time you need a favor they shaft you, NEXT them like you would a chick! You are too valuable to let other people leech off you.
If you are in a relationship where she wants to call all the shots, doesn’t want to do the things you want to do, and is not giving you your due rewards for your efforts... NEXT.
To all the new DJs, if you’ve read the bible you should know that you have to be a man and not let other people step on you or give you s**t. Yet, coming from the world of AFCism, we are all tempted to give people another chance, to assume that they mean well, that maybe just maybe she will say yes on the 5th time you call her because she seems so nice to you whenever you talk to her.
Once you give someone one more chance, it’s a slippery slope and what’s the harm in giving them another? And pretty soon you are finding yourself chasing this girl that never wanted you in the first place but just couldn’t say no.
It’s handy to have set of concrete rules to follow. 2 strikes, that’s it guys. Don’t give them any more than that. Remember, if she has a high interest level she will make it easy for you!!!!
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Can we get an alternative basketball/NBA metaphor for dealing with these woman to B?
...women are like NBA Players. The older they get,the more wear&tear (mentally-physically emotionally) im not saying all women over 30 are bad. You might get a gem who is still serviceable (Grant Hill). Most men prefer the young one who can be a franchise player (Russell Westbrook). Once they get between 25-30,they feel the need to ask for more,when in fact everything is going good for them (Joe Johnson contract demand) and some have baggage like kids or divorce (Brandon Roy injury). This is why its best to dont go after the divas and train a bench player who can eventually grow (Manu Ginobli)
A woman with b*stard children has as much right to bytch about not being able to find a good mate as a man who won't bathe or work a job has. What good is one to the other. You MUST BE INSANE if you think that most men would want to take in some used skank and her hellions.
The old contract was: I (the man) provide safety and security and you (the woman) provide hot sex, hot meals and the guarantee that the rugrats are mine. In return for this there was mutual adoration and respect. How hard is that to understand? Hot singlemoms are for sportfukking silly rabbit!
The old contract was: I (the man) provide safety and security and you (the woman) provide hot sex, hot meals and the guarantee that the rugrats are mine. In return for this there was mutual adoration and respect. How hard is that to understand? Hot singlemoms are for sportfukking silly rabbit!
.**Western women are adulterous and cheating far more than they will ever let on, but now that it's fashionable to brag about it to their sisters, rumors spread like wildfire that usually won't be contained.**Now messing around is "kewl" with women who have no problems comparing notes and being proud of their slutdom.**So much for being clandestine.**True, women are also responsible for their behavior, but a loyal woman, more often than not, sounds like an oxymoron.
But nothing hurts as much as betrayal of the heart.
Let's face it.**When women do fall for someone else, they have already cheated in their hearts to begin with.**To me, that's what cuts right to the core.**The worst feeling is knowing that she has a serious emotional bonding with another man than you.**I've already been there; the one I'm talking about claims she never slept with him while we were together (although I still called it bullshyt---though she still protested that after we had called in quits and started seeing a bum).**The monkey/branch analogy is not lost on me; my skank example wouldn't have jumped ship if she hadn't had another waiting in the wings.**
Now, as much as it seems shallow, I can understand a woman trying to jump to the Bigger, Better, Deal; a guy that has great social standing, looks like Brad Pitt, reeks of confidence and suave, has plentiful financial backing, a house that's practically a mansion, the latest style in clothes, cars, and what not . . .** yes, I would be pissed off and even have to seriously resist the urge of chucking both of them down the steps or off the balcony outside my residence, but I still could understand that if not forgive her right off the bat, and sever contact with her shortly after.**This skank, however, downgraded for another "model;" unemployed, small-time drug addict, with a beerbelly, evicted from his apartment . . . deep down she wanted, as Alonso coined, the sad sap could be manipulated enough to push around for her petty needs.**She also never felt she could never live up/keep up with me . . . insecurity, and as well as a need for someone she could passive-aggressively control, led her to that nadir.**
Indeed, once a cheater, always a cheater.**And if you can't trust a woman with that in marriage, you can't trust her with anything.
But nothing hurts as much as betrayal of the heart.
Let's face it.**When women do fall for someone else, they have already cheated in their hearts to begin with.**To me, that's what cuts right to the core.**The worst feeling is knowing that she has a serious emotional bonding with another man than you.**I've already been there; the one I'm talking about claims she never slept with him while we were together (although I still called it bullshyt---though she still protested that after we had called in quits and started seeing a bum).**The monkey/branch analogy is not lost on me; my skank example wouldn't have jumped ship if she hadn't had another waiting in the wings.**
Now, as much as it seems shallow, I can understand a woman trying to jump to the Bigger, Better, Deal; a guy that has great social standing, looks like Brad Pitt, reeks of confidence and suave, has plentiful financial backing, a house that's practically a mansion, the latest style in clothes, cars, and what not . . .** yes, I would be pissed off and even have to seriously resist the urge of chucking both of them down the steps or off the balcony outside my residence, but I still could understand that if not forgive her right off the bat, and sever contact with her shortly after.**This skank, however, downgraded for another "model;" unemployed, small-time drug addict, with a beerbelly, evicted from his apartment . . . deep down she wanted, as Alonso coined, the sad sap could be manipulated enough to push around for her petty needs.**She also never felt she could never live up/keep up with me . . . insecurity, and as well as a need for someone she could passive-aggressively control, led her to that nadir.**
Indeed, once a cheater, always a cheater.**And if you can't trust a woman with that in marriage, you can't trust her with anything.
Woman is a violent and uncontrolled animal, and it is useless to let go the reins and then expect her not to kick over the traces. You must keep her on a tight rein . . . Women want total freedom or rather - to call things by their names - total licence. If you allow them to achieve complete equality with men, do you think they will be easier to live with? Not at all. Once they have achieved equality, they will be your masters . . ." -- Cato the Elder 234-149 B.C. quoted in Livy’s ‘History of Rome
Let her do all the talking, woman love to talk. The less she knows about you on the first date the better.
Let me guess restaurant as a movie?
To much money
