Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Turk]

All the bullshyt and games you have to deal with makes it not even worth it. I don't have time for this shyt. I'mma just stay single forever

 

[RealAssanova]

She's renting a basement

2 minutes away

too close for comfort breh. I like to keep chicks i'm fukkin with at an arm's distance...incase the inevitable happens.

 

[360dagod]

She's renting a basement

2 minutes away

This will either turn out really well or really bad...
It hasn't even been a year yet and she already taking big steps

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

I run into this chick once a week for the last month and the conversation is always good but brief. She's real attractive, I can tell she's intelligent. Sometimes she comes right up and is asking a million questions and joking around, trying to get to know me a little more.

Today I see her and it's more like "hey how's it goin "

I was just gonna ask for her number too next time I saw her but that reaction had me like

 

[Atlrocafella]

Cuffing season got these chicks coming out of everywhere , "you ran across my mind today" ass women

 

[twan83]

I really dislike that I'm attracted to a person personality more so than the physical over all. I mean in the long run it'll be good when I settle down, but for now trying to get to know women on a deeper level 1st is a headache and if I actually like them its even more annoying because I'm a really upfront dude.


that seems to really throw and turns women off, you'd think it'd be the other way around.

nothing wrong with that i was the opposite back in the day looks first then personality
would be with the baddest females too having fun hitting it and all

then when u wanna get past the dating phase to the serious phase i couldn't broads couldn't bring shyt too the damn table but a damn headache and good looks

as i got older i said focus on the personality more than the looks always works best for me
sure i gotta have some sort of attraction but its not got to be a fukking big deal too me at all just want to be treated right and enjoy ur damn company nothing more

if anything u could expand ur horizon and try different types of females maybe the opposite too see whats up for some people opposites work best for them then similar taste

 

[TrapHouse Rock]

I was just telling a breh how indifference will make her work for your attention .. Sometimes the other way too though

it's unreal how indifference goes a long way. there's this one chick and it's not even on purpose because i'm about a lot of things in life and it drives her crazy how i can come into the gym, wave at her, and not engage in conversation. or how i don't see her a lot and bullshyt like how can we better friends and shyt

she's just playing games attention seeking this whole time probably cause i'm swerving some of her attention. even if she do like the kid I don't have time to wade through the bullshyt especially with younger girls who are trying to play coy/hard to get. spell that shyt out or ima keep it moving and I'll likely keep you around as just a friend nothing more


nobody has time for that cause there's other girls ive met since moving here who literally cant get sentences out without it being obvious she's into you. that's personally uncomfortable to me AT TIMES because its like you can do no wrong and the person is unlikely to challenge you but its better than the hot/cold alternative. somewhere in the middle of these two extremes is the ideal level of interest to me


those are just some random thoughts as i seem to get more attention than i ever have before (dont know why , but it allows me to just be smarter about shyt. like how reincar is always talking about 'oneitis'

 

[360dagod]

Cuffing season got these chicks coming out of everywhere , "you ran across my mind today" ass women

I havent gotten this much female attention in YEARS

 

[MikelArteta]

I've seen her every day this week but I like it

I don't have cable, but she does

Plus she always feeds me.

Last Saturday was able to help watch the tcu game while she made me dinner

This will either turn out really well or really bad...
It hasn't even been a year yet and she already taking big steps

 

[TRUEST]

Guys,

Make sure you keep tabs on every single woman you date. I dont care how much she's into you. My story is a very deep one, sit back and relax, and let us take a peep into the behavior of women.

been dating this girl for over half a year. shes a dime piece. a 10. she gets hit on everywhere. i've had guys stop me on the streets saying "dude, i would give anything to be you right now". needless to say, this girl is hot. but she's a user. and she's very skilled at making any situation where she's at fault, your fault. she's unappreciative and just very rude, plays mindgames, plus she's very costly. always wanting to be doing something, going out, dragging me everywhere with her, i give her rides a lot to her job on my way to my job and pretty much everywhere else we go (and i started doing this because i'm new to the area so i saw it as her introducing me to a lot of things, which she did).

so after a while, the rides i give her were starting to be a lil exhaustive for me. she doesn't understand how much stress it is driving in the city. told her about this many times, she just dont get it. i'm cool giving my girl rides, but this girl started playing games with sex. always wanted to have sex when she wanted, and only if she wanted. which was strange to me. never happened with any one of the girls i've dated. me and this girl spend a lot of time with each other so i doubt she could have been getting it from somewhere else. we even lived together at some point. but u never know.

anyway, recently, after her doing some sh1t that pissed me off. i decided i was going to get her back. (i've already slept with other girls behind her back anyway but thats besides the point).

she had believed i would drive her an hour to work one day. i woke up that morning and just dipped. told her i had something important i had to take care of and that i dont remember telling her id give her that ride. she was pissed! but she found a way to get to work that day. called me later for me to come pick her up. i told her i couldn't, i was drunk. hung up on her. she got even more pissed.

she then texted me this:

"if i'm so unimportant to you, then go date someone else. i cant believe you have it in you to do this to me. i'm worth more than this."

to which i respond:

"have a good night".

so i dont hear from her for a while. i check her emails a couple of days later and saw an ex (some whiteboy) randomly hit her up wanting to meet up. (he had hit her up earlier in the year, she ignored him...as far as i know). anyway, this time, she responds favorably on some tip like "i work late tonight, we can meet up after work, i remember where u live". i read this, and i'm fuming. but i dont say sh1t.

so 2 weeks go by and i finally hit her up. texted her about 4 times over 2 days. called her twice. she aint pick up nor did she answer my texts. so i dead it in my head. not gonna hit her up again. she hit me back like 4 days later. we meet up, and in her head, she's still fuming that i ditched her. i'm the one at fault. so i play it cool. i apologized profusely, said i was going through some sh1t. she wasn't buying it. she was very standoffish and just straight b1tchy. we grabbed a bite to eat, then i dropped her off at her place.

Then a short while later that night,

she texts me a long ass message saying:

"i love you. you say you love me, but your actions that day do not match what you did to me. u left me for dead. i was stranded at 12am with no means of getting home...(she says some other sh1t but thats too long to type), you didnt even call me. for 2 weeks, i didn't hear from you. you did not call me the next day to check on me. im very hurt and i'm not ready to give you my heart right now".

To which i responded:

"for the last half year, i've done you a lot of favors. if u want to hold on to this one instance and blow it up out of proportion, then do you. if things dont work out with whomever your dating, hit me up. i love you and i care for you, but i will not be used or mistreated."

she goes:

"i feel unheard with that last text from you. i dont know what to tell you. you and i live different lives. i dont think we're meant to be together. youre always thinking im out dating people when i already told u i dont have time for that. ive been extremely busy with my work. i cant date someone who's always accusing me of sleeping around. i'm stressed right now, i've been working nonstop (which she has cause theres this major event shes planning, but who cares). i really wish you all the best and hope we can be friends"

i go:

"nah, i do not wish to be friends. if you change your mind, u can hit me up. but i wish you all the best as well".

then i sent this about an hour later at 1:30am:

i dont respond to the above. so she sends this:

Be careful out there my friends! Trust no one!!!

 

[Atlrocafella]

Guys,

Make sure you keep tabs on every single woman you date. I dont care how much she's into you. My story is a very deep one, sit back and relax, and let us take a peep into the behavior of women.

been dating this girl for over half a year. shes a dime piece. a 10. she gets hit on everywhere. i've had guys stop me on the road saying "dude, i would give anything to be you right now". needless to say, this girl is hot. but she's a user. and she's very skilled at making any situation where she's at fault, your fault. she's unappreciative and just very rude, plays mindgames, plus she's very costly. always wanting to be doing something, going out, dragging me everywhere with her, i give her rides a lot to her job on my way to my job and pretty much everywhere else we go (and i started doing this because i'm new to the area so i saw it as her introducing me to a lot of things, which she did).

so after a while, the rides i give her were starting to be a lil exhaustive for me. she doesn't understand how much stress it is driving in the city. told her about this many times, she just dont get it. i'm cool giving my girl rides, but this girl started playing games with sex. always wanted to have sex when she wanted, and only if she wanted. which was strange to me. never happened with any one of the girls i've dated. me and this girl spend a lot of time with each other so i doubt she could have been getting it from somewhere else. we even lived together at some point. but u never know.

anyway, recently, after her doing some sh1t that pissed me off. i decided i was going to get her back. (i've already slept with other girls behind her back anyway but thats besides the point). she had already believed i would drive her an hour to work one day. i woke up that morning and just dipped. told her i had something important i had to take care of and that i dont remember telling her id give her that ride. she was pissed! but she found a way to get to work that day. called me later for me to come pick her up. said i couldn't, i was drunk. hung up on her. she got even more pissed.

texted me some sh1t and said:

"if i'm so unimportant to you, then go date someone else. i cant believe you have it in you to do this to me. i'm worth more than this."

to which i respond:

"have a good night".

so i dont hear from her for a while. i check her emails a couple of days later and saw an ex (some whiteboy) hit her up wanting to meet up. and she responds favorably on some tip like "i work late tonight, we can meet up after work, i remember where u live". i read this, and i'm fuming. but i dont say sh1t.

so 2 weeks go by and i finally hit her up. we meet up, and in her head, she's still fuming that i ditched her. i'm the one at fault. i play it cool. apologized, said i was going through some sh1t. she wasn't buying it. she was very standoffish and just straight b1tchy. we grabbed a bite to eat, then i dropped her off at her place.

Then a short while later that night,

she texts me a long ass message saying:

"i love you. you say you love me, but your actions that day do not match what you did to me. u left me for dead. i was stranded at 12am with no means of getting home...(she says some other sh1t but thats too long to type), you didnt even call me. for 2 weeks, i didn't hear from you. you did not call me the next day to check on me. im very hurt and i'm not ready to give you my heart right now".

To which i responded:

"for the last half year, i've done you a lot of favors. if u want to hold on to this one instance and blow it up out of proportion, then do you. if things dont work out with whomever your dating, hit me up. i love you and i care for you, but i will not be used or mistreated."

she goes:

"see, youre always thinking im out dating people when i already told u i dont have time for that. ive been extremely busy with my work. i cant date someone who's always accusing me of sleeping around. i'm stressed right now, i've been working nonstop (which she has cause theres this major event shes planning, but who cares). we live different lives. i dont think we're meant to be together. i really wish you all the best and hope we can be friends"

i go:

"nah, i do not wish to be friends. if you change your mind, u can hit me up. but i wish you all the best as well".

then i sent this about an hour later:

i dont respond to the above. so she sends this:

Be careful out there my friends! Trust no one!!!

that was a good read.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

Guys,

Make sure you keep tabs on every single woman you date. I dont care how much she's into you. My story is a very deep one, sit back and relax, and let us take a peep into the behavior of women.

been dating this girl for over half a year. shes a dime piece. a 10. she gets hit on everywhere. i've had guys stop me on the streets saying "dude, i would give anything to be you right now". needless to say, this girl is hot. but she's a user. and she's very skilled at making any situation where she's at fault, your fault. she's unappreciative and just very rude, plays mindgames, plus she's very costly. always wanting to be doing something, going out, dragging me everywhere with her, i give her rides a lot to her job on my way to my job and pretty much everywhere else we go (and i started doing this because i'm new to the area so i saw it as her introducing me to a lot of things, which she did).

so after a while, the rides i give her were starting to be a lil exhaustive for me. she doesn't understand how much stress it is driving in the city. told her about this many times, she just dont get it. i'm cool giving my girl rides, but this girl started playing games with sex. always wanted to have sex when she wanted, and only if she wanted. which was strange to me. never happened with any one of the girls i've dated. me and this girl spend a lot of time with each other so i doubt she could have been getting it from somewhere else. we even lived together at some point. but u never know.

anyway, recently, after her doing some sh1t that pissed me off. i decided i was going to get her back. (i've already slept with other girls behind her back anyway but thats besides the point).

she had believed i would drive her an hour to work one day. i woke up that morning and just dipped. told her i had something important i had to take care of and that i dont remember telling her id give her that ride. she was pissed! but she found a way to get to work that day. called me later for me to come pick her up. i told her i couldn't, i was drunk. hung up on her. she got even more pissed.

she then texted me this:

"if i'm so unimportant to you, then go date someone else. i cant believe you have it in you to do this to me. i'm worth more than this."

to which i respond:

"have a good night".

so i dont hear from her for a while. i check her emails a couple of days later and saw an ex (some whiteboy) randomly hit her up wanting to meet up. (he had hit her up earlier in the year, she ignored him...as far as i know). anyway, this time, she responds favorably on some tip like "i work late tonight, we can meet up after work, i remember where u live". i read this, and i'm fuming. but i dont say sh1t.

so 2 weeks go by and i finally hit her up. texted her about 4 times over 2 days. called her twice. she aint pick up nor did she answer my texts. so i dead it in my head. not gonna hit her up again. she hit me back like 4 days later. we meet up, and in her head, she's still fuming that i ditched her. i'm the one at fault. so i play it cool. i apologized profusely, said i was going through some sh1t. she wasn't buying it. she was very standoffish and just straight b1tchy. we grabbed a bite to eat, then i dropped her off at her place.

Then a short while later that night,

she texts me a long ass message saying:

"i love you. you say you love me, but your actions that day do not match what you did to me. u left me for dead. i was stranded at 12am with no means of getting home...(she says some other sh1t but thats too long to type), you didnt even call me. for 2 weeks, i didn't hear from you. you did not call me the next day to check on me. im very hurt and i'm not ready to give you my heart right now".

To which i responded:

"for the last half year, i've done you a lot of favors. if u want to hold on to this one instance and blow it up out of proportion, then do you. if things dont work out with whomever your dating, hit me up. i love you and i care for you, but i will not be used or mistreated."

she goes:

"i feel unheard with that last text from you. i dont know what to tell you. you and i live different lives. i dont think we're meant to be together. youre always thinking im out dating people when i already told u i dont have time for that. ive been extremely busy with my work. i cant date someone who's always accusing me of sleeping around. i'm stressed right now, i've been working nonstop (which she has cause theres this major event shes planning, but who cares). i really wish you all the best and hope we can be friends"

i go:

"nah, i do not wish to be friends. if you change your mind, u can hit me up. but i wish you all the best as well".

then i sent this about an hour later at 1:30am:

i dont respond to the above. so she sends this:

Be careful out there my friends! Trust no one!!!

Lemme give you my analysis, if I may.

First off, see this right here: "she's a user. and she's very skilled at making any situation where she's at fault, your fault. she's unappreciative and just very rude, plays mindgames, plus she's very costly. always wanting to be doing something, going out, dragging me everywhere with her" this is YOUR fault for accepting such behavior.

A relationship should make you happy. If it's not, why be in it? If she was that unappreciative, manipulative and taking, why would you continue to go with her? If you didn't want to give her rides, you should have told her you weren't gonna do it anymore. No need to even explain. If she asked why, I woulda hit with "It's complicated" and left it at that. Lil one liners like that that don't even really make sense are killer, breh. Leave her confused as hell and aroused by your assertiveness all at once.

But instead, you decided to play childish games. Don't be offended, breh, in hindsight you know that shyt was childish. Essentially what you did was lose your cool.

That's ok because she still likes you. If ever there was a time to hit her with the "It's complicated" it woulda been after she sent you that "I deserve more" text. She woulda been scrambling, breh. "Does he still like me?" "Is he dumping me?" "Is he seeing someone else?" Let her be flustered, breh. You just sit back with the face and be patient. Chicks always want what they can't have.

Checking her email also wasn't cool. Nor was telling her about it without any hardcore evidence of infidelity. How did you feel when he told you she was helping him with a project? You really couldn't say anything in response to that because you had no proof of anything. If you were gonna read the email, keep that shyt close to the vest without the necessary evidence. Otherwise you just come off as untrusting, untrustworthy, a snooper and above all INSECURE. Insecurity on a man is like testicles on a woman, breh. Gotta keep your cool. Always.



It seems like she takes you for granted because you bend over backwards for her. You do things you don't want to do just to please her. Can you really get mad at her for just expecting you to do what you've basically agreed to do for a year and a half? You set up these expectations with your actions. Then you let resentment accumulate inside of you until you lashed out. Classic passive aggressive behavior. Don't know what your future is with this chick, but next time, enter a relationship for you. And not just so other nikkas can give you props, so you can give yourself props. If a chick ain't making you happy, you need to speak up and/or move on. You could actually take a cue from her. She got what she wanted out of you and when she was unhappy she let you know (in a long, wordy, womany kinda way).

But don't allow yourself to be used then call her a user, breh. The reality is you were probably afraid to lose such a beautiful girl so you were willing to do whatever she wanted. Instead you gotta view yourself as the prize. How, you may ask... It's complicated (really not at all)

 

[McPiff]

Guys,

Make sure you keep tabs on every single woman you date. I dont care how much she's into you. My story is a very deep one, sit back and relax, and let us take a peep into the behavior of women.

been dating this girl for over half a year. shes a dime piece. a 10. she gets hit on everywhere. i've had guys stop me on the streets saying "dude, i would give anything to be you right now". needless to say, this girl is hot. but she's a user. and she's very skilled at making any situation where she's at fault, your fault. she's unappreciative and just very rude, plays mindgames, plus she's very costly. always wanting to be doing something, going out, dragging me everywhere with her, i give her rides a lot to her job on my way to my job and pretty much everywhere else we go (and i started doing this because i'm new to the area so i saw it as her introducing me to a lot of things, which she did).

so after a while, the rides i give her were starting to be a lil exhaustive for me. she doesn't understand how much stress it is driving in the city. told her about this many times, she just dont get it. i'm cool giving my girl rides, but this girl started playing games with sex. always wanted to have sex when she wanted, and only if she wanted. which was strange to me. never happened with any one of the girls i've dated. me and this girl spend a lot of time with each other so i doubt she could have been getting it from somewhere else. we even lived together at some point. but u never know.

anyway, recently, after her doing some sh1t that pissed me off. i decided i was going to get her back. (i've already slept with other girls behind her back anyway but thats besides the point).

she had believed i would drive her an hour to work one day. i woke up that morning and just dipped. told her i had something important i had to take care of and that i dont remember telling her id give her that ride. she was pissed! but she found a way to get to work that day. called me later for me to come pick her up. i told her i couldn't, i was drunk. hung up on her. she got even more pissed.

she then texted me this:

"if i'm so unimportant to you, then go date someone else. i cant believe you have it in you to do this to me. i'm worth more than this."

to which i respond:

"have a good night".

so i dont hear from her for a while. i check her emails a couple of days later and saw an ex (some whiteboy) randomly hit her up wanting to meet up. (he had hit her up earlier in the year, she ignored him...as far as i know). anyway, this time, she responds favorably on some tip like "i work late tonight, we can meet up after work, i remember where u live". i read this, and i'm fuming. but i dont say sh1t.

so 2 weeks go by and i finally hit her up. texted her about 4 times over 2 days. called her twice. she aint pick up nor did she answer my texts. so i dead it in my head. not gonna hit her up again. she hit me back like 4 days later. we meet up, and in her head, she's still fuming that i ditched her. i'm the one at fault. so i play it cool. i apologized profusely, said i was going through some sh1t. she wasn't buying it. she was very standoffish and just straight b1tchy. we grabbed a bite to eat, then i dropped her off at her place.

Then a short while later that night,

she texts me a long ass message saying:

"i love you. you say you love me, but your actions that day do not match what you did to me. u left me for dead. i was stranded at 12am with no means of getting home...(she says some other sh1t but thats too long to type), you didnt even call me. for 2 weeks, i didn't hear from you. you did not call me the next day to check on me. im very hurt and i'm not ready to give you my heart right now".

To which i responded:

"for the last half year, i've done you a lot of favors. if u want to hold on to this one instance and blow it up out of proportion, then do you. if things dont work out with whomever your dating, hit me up. i love you and i care for you, but i will not be used or mistreated."

she goes:

"i feel unheard with that last text from you. i dont know what to tell you. you and i live different lives. i dont think we're meant to be together. youre always thinking im out dating people when i already told u i dont have time for that. ive been extremely busy with my work. i cant date someone who's always accusing me of sleeping around. i'm stressed right now, i've been working nonstop (which she has cause theres this major event shes planning, but who cares). i really wish you all the best and hope we can be friends"

i go:

"nah, i do not wish to be friends. if you change your mind, u can hit me up. but i wish you all the best as well".

then i sent this about an hour later at 1:30am:

i dont respond to the above. so she sends this:

Be careful out there my friends! Trust no one!!!

the mind games

Lemme give you my analysis, if I may.

First off, see this right here: "she's a user. and she's very skilled at making any situation where she's at fault, your fault. she's unappreciative and just very rude, plays mindgames, plus she's very costly. always wanting to be doing something, going out, dragging me everywhere with her" this is YOUR fault for accepting such behavior.

A relationship should make you happy. If it's not, why be in it? If she was that unappreciative, manipulative and taking, why would you continue to go with her? If you didn't want to give her rides, you should have told her you weren't gonna do it anymore. No need to even explain. If she asked why, I woulda hit with "It's complicated" and left it at that. Lil one liners like that that don't even really make sense are killer, breh. Leave her confused as hell and aroused by your assertiveness all at once.

But instead, you decided to play childish games. Don't be offended, breh, in hindsight you know that shyt was childish. Essentially what you did was lose your cool.

That's ok because she still likes you. If ever there was a time to hit her with the "It's complicated" it woulda been after she sent you that "I deserve more" text. She woulda been scrambling, breh. "Does he still like me?" "Is he dumping me?" "Is he seeing someone else?" Let her be flustered, breh. You just sit back with the face and be patient. Chicks always want what they can't have.

Checking her email also wasn't cool. Nor was telling her about it without any hardcore evidence of infidelity. How did you feel when he told you she was helping him with a project? You really couldn't say anything in response to that because you had no proof of anything. If you were gonna read the email, keep that shyt close to the vest without the necessary evidence. Otherwise you just come off as untrusting, untrustworthy, a snooper and above all INSECURE. Insecurity on a man is like testicles on a woman, breh. Gotta keep your cool. Always.



It seems like she takes you for granted because you bend over backwards for her. You do things you don't want to do just to please her. Can you really get mad at her for just expecting you to do what you've basically agreed to do for a year and a half? You set up these expectations with your actions. Then you let resentment accumulate inside of you until you lashed out. Classic passive aggressive behavior. Don't know what your future is with this chick, but next time, enter a relationship for you. And not just so other nikkas can give you props, so you can give yourself props. If a chick ain't making you happy, you need to speak up and/or move on. You could actually take a cue from her. She got what she wanted out of you and when she was unhappy she let you know (in a long, wordy, womany kinda way).

But don't allow yourself to be used then call her a user, breh. The reality is you were probably afraid to lose such a beautiful girl so you were willing to do whatever she wanted. Instead you gotta view yourself as the prize. How, you may ask... It's complicated (really not at all)

you broke that shyt down to a tee

prolific posting. A women will only do what you allow her to do.

 

[TRUEST]

Lemme give you my analysis, if I may.

First off, see this right here: "she's a user. and she's very skilled at making any situation where she's at fault, your fault. she's unappreciative and just very rude, plays mindgames, plus she's very costly. always wanting to be doing something, going out, dragging me everywhere with her" this is YOUR fault for accepting such behavior.

A relationship should make you happy. If it's not, why be in it? If she was that unappreciative, manipulative and taking, why would you continue to go with her? If you didn't want to give her rides, you should have told her you weren't gonna do it anymore. No need to even explain. If she asked why, I woulda hit with "It's complicated" and left it at that. Lil one liners like that that don't even really make sense are killer, breh. Leave her confused as hell and aroused by your assertiveness all at once.

But instead, you decided to play childish games. Don't be offended, breh, in hindsight you know that shyt was childish. Essentially what you did was lose your cool.

That's ok because she still likes you. If ever there was a time to hit her with the "It's complicated" it woulda been after she sent you that "I deserve more" text. She woulda been scrambling, breh. "Does he still like me?" "Is he dumping me?" "Is he seeing someone else?" Let her be flustered, breh. You just sit back with the face and be patient. Chicks always want what they can't have.

Checking her email also wasn't cool. Nor was telling her about it without any hardcore evidence of infidelity. How did you feel when he told you she was helping him with a project? You really couldn't say anything in response to that because you had no proof of anything. If you were gonna read the email, keep that shyt close to the vest without the necessary evidence. Otherwise you just come off as untrusting, untrustworthy, a snooper and above all INSECURE. Insecurity on a man is like testicles on a woman, breh. Gotta keep your cool. Always.



It seems like she takes you for granted because you bend over backwards for her. You do things you don't want to do just to please her. Can you really get mad at her for just expecting you to do what you've basically agreed to do for a year and a half? You set up these expectations with your actions. Then you let resentment accumulate inside of you until you lashed out. Classic passive aggressive behavior. Don't know what your future is with this chick, but next time, enter a relationship for you. And not just so other nikkas can give you props, so you can give yourself props. If a chick ain't making you happy, you need to speak up and/or move on. You could actually take a cue from her. She got what she wanted out of you and when she was unhappy she let you know (in a long, wordy, womany kinda way).

But don't allow yourself to be used then call her a user, breh. The reality is you were probably afraid to lose such a beautiful girl so you were willing to do whatever she wanted. Instead you gotta view yourself as the prize. How, you may ask... It's complicated (really not at all)

you bring up a good point. but i have no remorse for checking her emails at all. u goto keep tabs on your women. early on in the relationship, i read her email, saw her emailing an ex, asking him when he was gon be in town. that i kept hidden. hence the reason i was fuccking women behind her back. when i finally revealed to her what i knew, the look of shock on her face was mesmerizing. before revealing to her, i asked her "have been in contact with any of your exes". with a bold face, she tells me no. and gives me the look of how dare you. lol. she goes "if you think where we're at now in our relationship is the same as where we was at that time, you're sadly mistaken"....see, her mind games?

in a way, i kept up with this because it was a roller coaster with her. we done broken up several times. i've left her on the side of the road quite a few times. she basically the classic definition of what i call "crazy, irrational". and when i say irrational, i'm not exaggerating.

when someone picks a physical fight with u in a moving car that ur driving, and when u kick them out of ur car, and days later they come back begging, and u tell them, do u see the error of ur ways? do u see how i could have been arrested, crashed the car, both of us hurt? her response, there u go always bringing up these hypothetical situations. did they happen? no. so, why bring them up? when a woman says somesh1t like that to you, u come to a conclusion in ur head, if u like the chick, that silence is golden and never argue with her.

i did a lot of things she wanted because i liked them and im new to the area. im a natural hermit. and i know i need to get the fucck out the house. i met her and it was a perfect fit. but she took everything for granted. which is why things took the turn they did. still no remorse for checking her emails.. would do it again. i only check to keep safe. dont care about anything else in her emails. just anything that shows she may be straying. protect urselves

see, yeah she what she wanted.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

you bring up a good point. but i have no remorse for checking her emails at all. u goto keep tabs on your women. early on in the relationship, i read her email, saw her emailing an ex, asking him when he was gon be in town. that i kept hidden. hence the reason i was fuccking women behind her back. when i finally revealed to her what i knew, the look of shock on her face was mesmerizing. before revealing to her, i asked her "have been in contact with any of your exes". with a bold face, she tells me no. and gives me the look of how dare you. lol. she goes "if you think where we're at now in our relationship is the same as where we was at that time, you're sadly mistaken"....see, her mind games?

in a way, i kept up with this because it was a roller coaster with her. we done broken up several times. i've left her on the side of the road quite a few times. she basically the classic definition of what i call "crazy, irrational". and when i say irrational, i'm not exaggerating.

when someone picks a physical fight with u in a moving car that ur driving, and when u kick them out of ur car, and days later they come back begging, and u tell them, do u see the error of ur ways? do u see how i could have been arrested, crashed the car, both of us hurt? her response, there u go always bringing up these hypothetical situations. did they happen? no. so, why bring them up? when a woman says somesh1t like that to you, u come to a conclusion in ur head, if u like the chick, that silence is golden and never argue with her.

i did a lot of things she wanted because i liked them and im new to the area. im a natural hermit. and i know i need to get the fucck out the house. i met her and it was a perfect fit. but she took everything for granted. which is why things took the turn they did. still no remorse for checking her emails.. would do it again. i only check to keep safe. dont care about anything else in her emails. just anything that shows she may be straying. protect urselves

see, yeah she what she wanted.

Damn, breh, that first paragraph shoulda been the end of the relationship.

I know she was bad, breh, but there's other bad ones out there. Sometimes you just gotta let go.

Unless that kinda relationship is your thing.

But if you get your shyt straight, and build up some confidence and go out and meet some people and start attracting women, I guarantee you won't feel the need to read those emails. You're doing that out of fear. Confidence is the opposite of fear.