Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[MikelArteta]

Honestly, if she fukked you after 2 dates you shouldn't be contemplating any future with her other than the next time you're gonna fukk.

You can't make a hoe a housewife. Kurupt told yall nikkas that back in the 90's.

She'll never be more than a piece of ass. You're making yourself come off soft by catching feelings for this thot.

I'm here to educate through tough love. Some of yall nikkas need to be smacked in the face to wake up!

pretty much because no matter how much you want to believe it your not that special, more than likely tom dikk and harry also smash on the first or second date.

If she gives it up that easily whats going to happen when you guys "quarrel" or she gets bored, or she goes away for the weekend. Like I always say cobra gonna cobra, you can charm it, you can bring it home, but the tendencies of the cobra are still there

 

[MikelArteta]

Any advice on letting your intentions known that you're feeling the girl without telling her straight up that you think she's fine?

let her know, men today are scared of letting their intentions known.

I let my girl know asap, i aint going to be strung along etc., or sit around and do all these dates or whatever till she made up her mind. Nah right away and I got my answer

Better to be shut down than strung along. Just be upfront breh

 

[EMainstreet]

Man fukk these hoes! Was supposed to meet up with this girl for a volleyball game.

I texted her two times, "Are you coming for sure" cause this girl is known for flaking on plans.

bytch tells me "Yes" both times.

So I show up to the game and she's nowhere to be found. I text her "Imma assume you not coming huh"

And she has the nerve to text me with a bunch of crying emojis saying "I overslept".

Left her on read. One of the things I hate the most is wasting my time.

The disrespect is unreal!

 

[kevm3]

People generally tend to live up to their reputation because reputations are established by patterns of behavior. If a woman has a reputation for flaking, save yourself the drama and expect ahead of time that she's probably going to end up flaking on you. She's showed her hand by flaking out on you and from the sounds of it, she didn't reschedule. Don't put too much more thought into her.

One of the biggest mistakes you can make as a man is thinking that you have some award winning game and you're above the rules of human psychology. People have behavioral patterns that they've ingrained over the years. If someone likes you, they may be able to circumvent their natural pattern of behavior into a more likable one, but eventually they will get tired of 'not being themselves' and revert back to their typical behavior. Yes, people on occasion can 'completely change', but most times it is only for a season.

 

[kevm3]

There are two sides to people. There are their 'real selves' and there are the masks that they put on. If someone has a rep for being shady, just because they are cool in your face doesn't mean that you 'beat the game' and are unlike the others that were screwed over. It just means that you are getting one of their pleasant masks, but best believe if you hang around long enough, you'll see another side.

 

[Lo-Co]

i feel like its a long climb. to be real, i don't talk to anyone outside of college. im mostly in my solitude studying. i feel like i need to start going out more. i stopped trying to fit this perfect mold and hide my flaws and be honest with myself. ive felt like everytime a girl told me she loved me, it lacked sincerity. honestly is it fukked up if i would rather just get laid and leave?

 

[TRUEST]

honestly is it fukked up if i would rather just get laid and leave?

No its not. If u can do that even with chicks u really like, then my friend, u just beat the game.

 

[Lo-Co]

No its not. If u can do that even with chicks u really like, then my friend, u just beat the game.

i just cant get attached anymore. i wasted my high school years cupcaking with women when i should have just did what i wanted to do now.

 

[DaHNIC82]

This bytch flaked on me Saturday, texted me yesterday talking about she got into a car accident and then had to attend a funeral at the same day

 

[Bald Head Ba$tard]

Another thing I learned is don't keep asking a woman if she's ok/good/comfortable if you're out with her. May be basic but I learned that at like 16. Be confident that she's good cause she's with you. Don't need to always check in like 'you like the movie? You like the food? Having a good time? Want me to dance for you?'

THIS IS ALL 100 TOO. fukk that self-conscious type thinking.

 

[MikelArteta]

My girl got mad at me because she asked how much I make and I flat out told her its none of her business. I told her I make enough to pay my bills, donate to different charities, splurge on what I want and enjoy life.


She went on a tirade about how finances matter and all this and I said yeah but I can lose my job tomorrow and then what, you'd bounce? I remember when my sister and brother in law just got married dude was making good bread lost his job and was unemployed for almost a year, dude went from making good bread to getting like 1000 a month from the government on ei. The only reason you want to know how much I make is to either cast me as too poor or to compare me to other dudes.

I hate when women do this just shut up and enjoy the ride,

 

[kevm3]

My girl got mad at me because she asked how much I make and I flat out told her its none of her business. I told her I make enough to pay my bills, donate to different charities, splurge on what I want and enjoy life.


She went on a tirade about how finances matter and all this and I said yeah but I can lose my job tomorrow and then what, you'd bounce? I remember when my sister and brother in law just got married dude was making good bread lost his job and was unemployed for almost a year, dude went from making good bread to getting like 1000 a month from the government on ei. The only reason you want to know how much I make is to either cast me as too poor or to compare me to other dudes.

I hate when women do this just shut up and enjoy the ride,

I can understand a woman wanting a guy with a decent career, but you're right that the exact dollar amount is none of her business. You gave her the correct answer. "I make enough to support myself and live well." If you told the average woman that you were making 100k, she'd be spending that money in her head. If you told her 40k, you'd probably get looked down upon.

 

[MikelArteta]

Yup exactly she knows I work in finance for a hospital not like im a cashier at McDonalds

I can understand a woman wanting a guy with a decent career, but you're right that the exact dollar amount is none of her business. You gave her the correct answer. "I make enough to support myself and live well." If you told the average woman that you were making 100k, she'd be spending that money in her head. If you told her 40k, you'd probably get looked down upon.

 

[Bless't]

One benefit of talking to multiple women at the same time, is you can reuse lines as you think of them. That way you aren't wasting energy and also not putting all your eggs in the same basket.

I do believe that the goal should be a 1-on-1 exclusive relationship though, but that's just me. A lot of people nowadays just want to play the field with no end game.

All of this is very true.

 

[TRUEST]

My girl got mad at me because she asked how much I make and I flat out told her its none of her business. I told her I make enough to pay my bills, donate to different charities, splurge on what I want and enjoy life.


She went on a tirade about how finances matter and all this and I said yeah but I can lose my job tomorrow and then what, you'd bounce? I remember when my sister and brother in law just got married dude was making good bread lost his job and was unemployed for almost a year, dude went from making good bread to getting like 1000 a month from the government on ei. The only reason you want to know how much I make is to either cast me as too poor or to compare me to other dudes.

I hate when women do this just shut up and enjoy the ride,

yeah. learned this lesson recently. its hard not to brag to your girl that you make xyz dollar amount. but yeah, like kevm3 said, she'll be spending it in her head. and besides, its information like this that its best to keep secret if you want to remain mysterious.