I'm sure I mentioned this before about my past.....so I was engaged about 7yrs ago and decided not to follow thru with it. Ex lost her job, I didn;t wanna get a place with her and she ended up leaving NYC. She hated me for a while but understood, and we hooked up one last time before she left. Well yrs went by and we moved on and ended communication. Well about two weeks ago I got a random email from her which looked like some spam. So emailed her back saying her email mighta been hacked. So we started catching up here and there and apologized again, she let me know it's in the past and that it was like a string of bad things happening and she was angry at everyone in NYC before leaving....well now she lives in Louisiana, in the burbs is married and has a kid. She let me know she's coming back up to visit and wanted to see I'd be wiling to come thru and meet her son and husband while they are here. If i'm in town I think i might do so. This getting older stuff is kinda dope.