Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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In the end you win
Yea I mean I'll still holla at women and stuff but I'll just be very selective with it lol.

As men we put our ego/self esteem on the line any time we try to interact with women in that way. Sometimes, depending on the way in which a dude is rejected it can be a blow. Typically I recover very quickly... As I have right now. But the way I see it, I didnt get to where I am only to have some chick who I honestly feel would be lucky to have me based on her situation tell me i aint good enough. It relates to that thread about how women can run good game...even if theyre average as shyt. I for one respect this chick for telling me straight up(probably sensed I just wanted to smash or just didn't find me attractive). Nonetheless, I'm done chasing average chicks. If a girl isn't on my level I ain't gonna bother cause at least then if i get rejected its more fathomable lol. Last thing i want to sound like is an egotistical dude but that's how I see it
 

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Yea I mean I'll still holla at women and stuff but I'll just be very selective with it lol.

As men we put our ego/self esteem on the line any time we try to interact with women in that way. Sometimes, depending on the way in which a dude is rejected it can be a blow. Typically I recover very quickly... As I have right now. But the way I see it, I didnt get to where I am only to have some chick who I honestly feel would be lucky to have me based on her situation tell me i aint good enough. It relates to that thread about how women can run good game...even if theyre average as shyt. I for one respect this chick for telling me straight up(probably sensed I just wanted to smash or just didn't find me attractive). Nonetheless, I'm done chasing average chicks. If a girl isn't on my level I ain't gonna bother cause at least then if i get rejected its more fathomable lol. Last thing i want to sound like is an egotistical dude but that's how I see it

its like having a mba from harvard and applying to mcdonalds and getting rejected with some of these ho's. They offer nothing but tht rejection can still sting somewhat
 

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had a chick tell me she was not interested in me at all... and bsascally didnt wanna lead me on
while it hurt, i had to pay respect to her for keeping it real
gotta have thick skin in this shyt but its startin to get futile...time to shut it down and be a recluse ive had my fun

Had the opposite happen to me. I was talking to shorty for a minute and outta nowhere she drops that on me. We were sexting and she was sending me good morning booty pics and shyt too, that diabolical bytch :to:
 

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Anyone ever deal with a chick whose been molested before? I'm not gonna leave her over it but I kinda feel weird now. I gotta like put in extra work to get some because she said she's felt like a sex object before and she doesn't like that. Kinda fukkjng with my head/ my game.
 

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Anyone ever deal with a chick whose been molested before? I'm not gonna leave her over it but I kinda feel weird now. I gotta like put in extra work to get some because she said she's felt like a sex object before and she doesn't like that. Kinda fukkjng with my head/ my game.
dealt with two in the summer alone...one is bipolar and the other appeared to be handling it well. molested/raped
 

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dealt with two in the summer alone...one is bipolar and the other appeared to be handling it well. molested/raped
I think she handles it for most part because she said she doesnt want to be a victim but when it comes to getting it in I guess I gotta slow it down when Im trying to get her in the mood. She confessed this to me the other day after we been together for 6 months.
 

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I think she handles it for most part because she said she doesnt want to be a victim but when it comes to getting it in I guess I gotta slow it down when Im trying to get her in the mood. She confessed this to me the other day after we been together for 6 months.
i see. Mine was an animal in bed. Best smash I ever had and had no problem making the moves to get shyt started at time :whew:

If you really like her youre just gonna have to tend to her emotions and all that and never bring it up
 

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Yup

Run if they never had therapy

You'll end up being like their therapist.

A girl I dated was repeatedly raped by her step dad for years let's just say it was the worst relationship I've been in. She never dealt with her issues and anything that happened she blamed her past.

Anyone ever deal with a chick whose been molested before? I'm not gonna leave her over it but I kinda feel weird now. I gotta like put in extra work to get some because she said she's felt like a sex object before and she doesn't like that. Kinda fukkjng with my head/ my game.
 

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i see. Mine was an animal in bed. Best smash I ever had and had no problem making the moves to get shyt started at time :whew:

If you really like her youre just gonna have to tend to her emotions and all that and never bring it up
I mean once she gets going we are good and she has a high sex drive. I think it's usually harder when we are just chilling at my place and watching a movie. When we go out on a date or what not panties drop at end of night.
 

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Yo brehs this thread is gold. Lots of jewels. :blessed:Just started reading last night. This is better than that PUA scam mess. Im on page 6. Although its 2k pages imma read all of it. I might copy and paste some shyt to save it cuz you never know. I dont want this info to be lost if anything happens to this site. Yall are the big bros I never had. :to:
 
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Anyone ever deal with a chick whose been molested before? I'm not gonna leave her over it but I kinda feel weird now. I gotta like put in extra work to get some because she said she's felt like a sex object before and she doesn't like that. Kinda fukkjng with my head/ my game.

I haven't.....but I suggest you stay away from that bytch if you know what's good for you.:damn:
 
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