Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Going through it with my girl of 6 months not sure if this thread is helping or not lol. Overall it helps but kinda makes me feel like I rather be alone sometimes than deal with the bullshyt.
 

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So we basically broke up , she comes over the other day dropping off a gift for me to give my niece.

She instead wanted to drop it off so I'm like OK so she took my phone to call my sister she sees the call logs and notices her number isn't saved as a contact . I told her I don't talk to exes so why would I save your number she starts getting sad/angry.

Anyways my sister can feel the tension etc. And tells me we need to talk, so she asked and I told her what happened from the beginning etc.,

My sister tells me she is the best thing to hOoen to you in a long time don't mess it up. Then yesterday my sister comes over invites her here's her and yeah like a few hours of "counselling" so to speak

Dropped this gem on me today

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What happen?
 
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So we basically broke up , she comes over the other day dropping off a gift for me to give my niece.

She instead wanted to drop it off so I'm like OK so she took my phone to call my sister she sees the call logs and notices her number isn't saved as a contact . I told her I don't talk to exes so why would I save your number she starts getting sad/angry.

Anyways my sister can feel the tension etc. And tells me we need to talk, so she asked and I told her what happened from the beginning etc.,

My sister tells me she is the best thing to hOoen to you in a long time don't mess it up. Then yesterday my sister comes over invites her here's her and yeah like a few hours of "counselling" so to speak

Dropped this gem on me today

ohlpuf.jpg


....personally breh I don't believe in a women bring the best out of a man or elevating a man to his highest level. I believe a man should put elevating himself above everything else out side of GOD and family. A man HAS to WANT to be the BEST he can be. Women don't have that power in my mind. I haven't dealt with women in a while trust I'm not resting I'm trying to achieve greater and be that man I see in my dreams. I don't believe I need a women for that persay.
 

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My girl went to Nyc with this bytch I know is a shady Thot.

To a jeezy concert. Said she was staying for one night but now says she might stay another.

Smh

I know I need to let her have fun and be free but idk brehs
 

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Of course but having a quality woman is like having a all pro offensive line


....personally breh I don't believe in a women bring the best out of a man or elevating a man to his highest level. I believe a man should put elevating himself above everything else out side of GOD and family. A man HAS to WANT to be the BEST he can be. Women don't have that power in my mind. I haven't dealt with women in a while trust I'm not resting I'm trying to achieve greater and be that man I see in my dreams. I don't believe I need a women for that persay.
 
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Of course but having a quality woman is like having a all pro offensive line

I've also have been thinking that for love is a choice as it pertains to women. It not an obligation cause the minute you start to take shyt from a woman it becomes an obligation and I or any man in my mind has lost the power. That's why a lot of you guys feel stuck your love and kindness has been taken for granted when really it should be voluntary in the first place. It's NOTHING in this world that says WE owe women ANYTHING. Outside of common respect.Men have to be CREATIVE when dealing with women to even keep them intrested. Men's list of things that keeps us happy is a LOT SHORTER. You shouldn't be pressured to love anybody. You don't ENABLE women when it NOT natural.

Some days I wanna have a wife and kids and it's days like today that I don't want that.(thinking about the women I tried to deal with this year) All the mental gymnastics and mental abuse a women can cause to men is just not worth it. These thoughts along with thinking about my grandmother who has stage 4 bone cancer...I don't ENJOY the chase enought to go threw the bs. I guess I gotta go figure some things out.
 
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[QUOTE="NerdNash, post: 16211295, member: 3162"]My girl went to Nyc with this bytch I know is a shady Thot.

To a jeezy concert. Said she was staying for one night but now says she might stay another.

Smh

I know I need to let her have fun and be free but idk brehs[/QUOTE]

:patrice:...
 

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So we basically broke up , she comes over the other day dropping off a gift for me to give my niece.

She instead wanted to drop it off so I'm like OK so she took my phone to call my sister she sees the call logs and notices her number isn't saved as a contact . I told her I don't talk to exes so why would I save your number she starts getting sad/angry.

Anyways my sister can feel the tension etc. And tells me we need to talk, so she asked and I told her what happened from the beginning etc.,

My sister tells me she is the best thing to hOoen to you in a long time don't mess it up. Then yesterday my sister comes over invites her here's her and yeah like a few hours of "counselling" so to speak

Dropped this gem on me today

ohlpuf.jpg
your sisters laying it on a bit thick
 

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....personally breh I don't believe in a women bring the best out of a man or elevating a man to his highest level. I believe a man should put elevating himself above everything else out side of GOD and family. A man HAS to WANT to be the BEST he can be. Women don't have that power in my mind. I haven't dealt with women in a while trust I'm not resting I'm trying to achieve greater and be that man I see in my dreams. I don't believe I need a women for that persay.
You sound bitter.

Who hurt you?

:troll:
 

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What's the longest y'all waited on a chick to be comfortable enough with you to have sex? It's been a month... we been dating going out... all that good stuff. Met her family and they like me, I been invites to dinner.. everything cool. But I feel like I have been friendzoned. I should cut my losses but I really like this chick now.

Met the family already after 1 month? And yall havn't had sex yet? Bruh- I think she inserted you in the friendzone and you need a lifeline to get out. You should cut your losses now because the more you talk to her- the more you will fall for her. If you need help getting over her, just get mad at the thought of why doesnt think chick want me? I have all this going for me and she doesnt see the Value in me?
 
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Girl I been hanging out with, made out aggressively with her the past 3 times:obama:, says she ain't comfortable us getting all physical :dahell:.... she's 24,,,I'm 22.....My plan is to act like what she said doesn't matter n not hang out with her for a good week or two ?
Advice breh's :lupe:
 
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