Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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If she really wanted to see dude she would have done it after "traffic" instead of going shopping with her cousin.

For your own dignity, it's better to walk away when you see these early signs and just keep it moving and cut off communication rather than ask yourself why or try to reschedule. A lot of these broads get off on that. Don't give them the pleasure.

She actually asked me "are you mad?" after texting me that she couldn't make it.

I wanted to go off on her because I know that she lied to me but I did some Googling and the general consensus was to not show her that shyt affected you.

So I hit her with "It's cool. Lemme know when you free next time."

Was this a good response or should I just left her on read?
 

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She actually asked me "are you mad?" after texting me that she couldn't make it.

I wanted to go off on her because I know that she lied to me but I did some Googling and the general consensus was to not show her that shyt affected you.

So I hit her with "It's cool. Lemme know when you free next time."

Was this a good response or should I just left her on read?

Silly chick might as well have added a troll face.

No response would have been the best response imo.
 

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She actually asked me "are you mad?" after texting me that she couldn't make it.

I wanted to go off on her because I know that she lied to me but I did some Googling and the general consensus was to not show her that shyt affected you.

So I hit her with "It's cool. Lemme know when you free next time."

Was this a good response or should I just left her on read?

If this was the first time I would at least give her one more chance. But if it's been more than once you're getting played. Saying are you mad doesn't really mean she cares. Same thing happened to me in the past.
 

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She actually asked me "are you mad?" after texting me that she couldn't make it.

I wanted to go off on her because I know that she lied to me but I did some Googling and the general consensus was to not show her that shyt affected you.

So I hit her with "It's cool. Lemme know when you free next time."

Was this a good response or should I just left her on read?

Not really with the "let me know", just it's cool or nothing would do.

If she didnt counter offer with another time then she's definitely not worth it on a serious level.
 

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here is something that is confusing men all over the world....
the saying "women dont know what they want" is completely bullshyt. Women know exactly what they want, and they know exactly what they dont want.
the real problem with women is that they dont know who is good for them and who isnt.

That is where men get tripped up....if she dont want you, she knows she doesnt. She probably dont know you would be a good dude for her because she hasnt thought outside of herself.
 

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Is this chick feelin me brehs? So today in class she asks me about work, after I told her Friday I would be working all this weekend but I didn't think she would remember allat but apparently I was on her mind this whole weekend cause she ain't really do much. I been lowkey flirtin with her the past two weeks teasing her and shyt. So I tell her to come by when I'm working this week and she say why you gon hook me up with a discount or somethin (work at cvs btw) and I'm all like if I feel like it lmao. So I was prolly thinkin about setting something up if she visit me at work idk
 

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Is this chick feelin me brehs? So today in class she asks me about work, after I told her Friday I would be working all this weekend but I didn't think she would remember allat but apparently I was on her mind this whole weekend cause she ain't really do much. I been lowkey flirtin with her the past two weeks teasing her and shyt. So I tell her to come by when I'm working this week and she say why you gon hook me up with a discount or somethin (work at cvs btw) and I'm all like if I feel like it lmao. So I was prolly thinkin about setting something up if she visit me at work idk

Seems pretty obvious
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She actually asked me "are you mad?" after texting me that she couldn't make it.

I wanted to go off on her because I know that she lied to me but I did some Googling and the general consensus was to not show her that shyt affected you.

So I hit her with "It's cool. Lemme know when you free next time."

Was this a good response or should I just left her on read?

in this case, i have to agree with others here. a no response would have been better. because what you said seems so "beat down, and somewhat weak". a no response would have signified to her that "damn, this dude dont play that nonsense". and if she had any attraction for you that was over 5, she will get in touch with u one way or another to make amends.
 

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So my girl broke up with me. I asked her if she was playing or foreal?

She said yes she tired of me and then called me jackass, and made it official.

At this point I realized I care to much about keeping us together, any other time I would have jumped in my bag to get her back.

At this point I just can't do it anymore, she think I was going to call her say sorry like I always do on some simp shyt.

Naw this time I txt this girl from my class who been on me since day one. She find out and is heated. I'm like did you not break up with me, I guess she expected me to come running back to her like I been doing. I loved her, still love her but I got to be a man. Too many lady's out here want me can't stay with somebody who like to get mad with me for no reason, then act rude after spend my money on them.

I used to be sacred to lose her but she should have been shook to lose me. I was shook about another nikka fukking her , but then it hit me guy my age don't want to date they going to smash then go to the next one. It don't matter how pretty she is. On the other hand many lady's from my job to my school want to date me. I curve all them for her.

NOT ANY MORE

Shorty can have fun, but when she 15 body's deep with no one she can open up to like she did with me, she going to see how bad it was to let me go.
 

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So my girl broke up with me. I asked her if she was playing or foreal?

She said yes she tired of me and then called me jackass, and made it official.

At this point I realized I care to much about keeping us together, any other time I would have jumped in my bag to get her back.

At this point I just can't do it anymore, she think I was going to call her say sorry like I always do on some simp shyt.

Naw this time I txt this girl from my class who been on me since day one. She find out and is heated. I'm like did you not break up with me, I guess she expected me to come running back to her like I been doing. I loved her, still love her but I got to be a man. Too many lady's out here want me can't stay with somebody who like to get mad with me for no reason, then act rude after spend my money on them.

I used to be sacred to lose her but she should have been shook to lose me. I was shook about another nikka fukking her , but then it hit me guy my age don't want to date they going to smash then go to the next one. It don't matter how pretty she is. On the other hand many lady's from my job to my school want to date me. I curve all them for her.

NOT ANY MORE

Shorty can have fun, but when she 15 body's deep with no one she can open up to like she did with me, she going to see how bad it was to let me go.

When womem break up with you you're not supposed to get over them fast. You're supposed to simp and call/text her to make things better. Lol.

As time goes by and she sees you not hitting her up, she's gonna wander if you fukkin another chick and its gone bother her. Then she'll hit you up on some WYD out the blue and mention how she said things she didnt mean cuz she was mad.
 
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