chosen92GOAT
From a boy to a king
On the real u right I been boxing man so I haven't really been talking to females like that any advice plus her boy don't want a problem speak the wrong words he will get touched
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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brehs.so this monday I'm heading to work and see this pretty chick on the subway. She gets off on a stop before me so I say fukk it lemme go bag it. So i spark a conversation as i'm walking alongside her and bag this chick right...something light while getting off the subway before i head to work. i spark up a random convo saying some shyt about how her hair must conveniently keep her warm in the winter and get the number.
We text a couple times...and today i set up a dinner for next week to cut through the bs. Randomly ...while looking at my old snapchat i she her username as a person i can add from my phone book. Her username has her last name in it so i say "hmmm...lemme see if I can find her facebook
". I log into my homies profile and search and she she got nuff mutual friends with the homie/older heads we know from our high school. I'm going through her sexy ass's pictures and come to see a link to her IG where she got like 15000 followers my nikkas . I dont have none of this social media shyt but i know thats a lot (could be fake though). Got me feeling like I'mA) just another nikka in line and I shouldnt even bother going out to dinner with this chick cause she might be using me for a meal. OR
B) that because i did the organic cold approach i am distinguishing myself from these fukk nikkas online .
It doesnt phase me but its funny to think about. Here are a bunch of dudes acting wild over some pics on IG when shes just a regular chick in real life or at least appears to be. This social media shyt aint real life... Ima have to play this shyt cool though .
@TRUEST @Emperor_ReinScarf lol
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Brandsdale
Big Yella
this sounds like a dope idea, considering thats my fav meal
so this monday I'm heading to work and see this pretty chick on the subway. She gets off on a stop before me so I say fukk it lemme go bag it. So i spark a conversation as i'm walking alongside her and bag this chick right...something light while getting off the subway before i head to work. i spark up a random convo saying some shyt about how her hair must conveniently keep her warm in the winter and get the number.
We text a couple times...and today i set up a dinner for next week to cut through the bs. Randomly ...while looking at my old snapchat i she her username as a person i can add from my phone book. Her username has her last name in it so i say "hmmm...lemme see if I can find her facebook
A) just another nikka in line and I shouldnt even bother going out to dinner with this chick cause she might be using me for a meal. OR
B) that because i did the organic cold approach i am distinguishing myself from these fukk nikkas online .
It doesnt phase me but its funny to think about. Here are a bunch of dudes acting wild over some pics on IG when shes just a regular chick in real life or at least appears to be. This social media shyt aint real life... Ima have to play this shyt cool though .
@TRUEST @Emperor_ReinScarf lol
try to avoid setting dates too far into the future my dude. if the girl is hot, thats too much time for a more aggressive n1gga to come in and crush the buildings. i understand in some cases, theres nothing u can do because ur schedule or her schedule just doesn't allow for it. but if u can, u should only schedule dates no more than 2 or 3 days into the future.
with regards to this girl, u already started off on the wrong foot with her. u aint even slept with her yet and ur researching her on facebook, instagram? nah dude. stop it. lets say u two do go on a date and she likes u. u've already dug a big enough hole for u to get fuccked in by being overly emotionally invested from jump. when a hot chick senses this, she will either lose interest in u and bounce, OR she'll lose interest in you but will decide to use u for things she needs (not sex), till something else (which she'll be on the active lookout for) comes along.
if u do go out with her, watch ur tone. and dont sound like ur fuccking excited to be there. just act like ur having fun. watch how ur eyes are beaming. watch how you're sitting. dont lean in. these are tell tale signs that let women know "ha i got this douche wrapped around my finger". i had a girl years ago tell me "you're really confident about yourself. look at how you're even sitting. it's like you know you got this".
if u actually go on a date with this girl, make it at night time please.
im that aggressive nikka.
why you thnk i set up a rendezvous less than a week after meeting lol
i tried to set one up for monday....but she asked if thursday was good
as far as emotional investment i know exactly what you mean cause that shyt mskres it harder to completely forget a chick but its nothing. i've peeped many girls social media before to decide if theyre worthy of my attn and smashed if any thing it gives me the drop on them so i dont think its a negative.
i know exactly how to play the situation now....which is by doing what i naturally do with women...being laid back and making them feel comfortable
so this monday I'm heading to work and see this pretty chick on the subway. She gets off on a stop before me so I say fukk it lemme go bag it. So i spark a conversation as i'm walking alongside her and bag this chick right...something light while getting off the subway before i head to work. i spark up a random convo saying some shyt about how her hair must conveniently keep her warm in the winter and get the number.
We text a couple times...and today i set up a dinner for next week to cut through the bs. Randomly ...while looking at my old snapchat i she her username as a person i can add from my phone book. Her username has her last name in it so i say "hmmm...lemme see if I can find her facebook
A) just another nikka in line and I shouldnt even bother going out to dinner with this chick cause she might be using me for a meal. OR
B) that because i did the organic cold approach i am distinguishing myself from these fukk nikkas online .
It doesnt phase me but its funny to think about. Here are a bunch of dudes acting wild over some pics on IG when shes just a regular chick in real life or at least appears to be. This social media shyt aint real life... Ima have to play this shyt cool though .
@TRUEST @Emperor_ReinScarf lol
social media is fake, but having that much followers makes me think shes a attention whore.
some may disagree but to me there is nothing wrong with checking up on a investment. If you have a date set up then go dont bring anything up and let her talk about herself
hoodheronova
All Star
find a diner that serves breakfast 24/7.
you doing it right fam. Knowledge is the most powerfullest tool in the universe. By doing your googlez you know what to expect and not expect. DONT ADD HER ON SOCIAL MEDIA. Let her work my n*gga, and make sure you keep champagning and campaigning other shawties so you don't lose ya mojoim that aggressive nikka.
why you thnk i set up a rendezvous less than a week after meeting lol
i tried to set one up for monday....but she asked if thursday was good
as far as emotional investment i know exactly what you mean cause that shyt mskres it harder to completely forget a chick but its nothing. i've peeped many girls social media before to decide if theyre worthy of my attn and smashed if any thing it gives me the drop on them so i dont think its a negative.
i know exactly how to play the situation now....which is by doing what i naturally do with women...being laid back and making them feel comfortable
I hate when old hoes hit you up just to "see how you're doing" knowing damn well they got a new nikka
I wish some of my exes would hit me up, but by the time we finally ended they damn near hate me. I should have stayed atleast acquaintances with like 2 of them
KingTut
Green diamonds like a dill pickle
No you don't bruh. They either want something from you, just seeing if you'll answer them, or are too scared to ask you what they really want to so they hit you up under the guise of "just wanted to see how you're doing".
RealAssanova
Vagitarian
so this monday I'm heading to work and see this pretty chick on the subway. She gets off on a stop before me so I say fukk it lemme go bag it. So i spark a conversation as i'm walking alongside her and bag this chick right...something light while getting off the subway before i head to work. i spark up a random convo saying some shyt about how her hair must conveniently keep her warm in the winter and get the number.
We text a couple times...and today i set up a dinner for next week to cut through the bs. Randomly ...while looking at my old snapchat i she her username as a person i can add from my phone book. Her username has her last name in it so i say "hmmm...lemme see if I can find her facebook
A) just another nikka in line and I shouldnt even bother going out to dinner with this chick cause she might be using me for a meal. OR
B) that because i did the organic cold approach i am distinguishing myself from these fukk nikkas online .
It doesnt phase me but its funny to think about. Here are a bunch of dudes acting wild over some pics on IG when shes just a regular chick in real life or at least appears to be. This social media shyt aint real life... Ima have to play this shyt cool though .
@TRUEST @Emperor_ReinScarf lol
i'd probably steer clear of wanting to get into a relationship. 15000 followers sounds like 15000 reasons for drama and other unnecessary shyt in your life.
i feel when nikkaz put women on a pedestal, it throws their game off completely. You wanna smash? then keep that on your mind and nothin beyond that. Its only when your mind starts "thinking" that you begin to get into trouble.
don't worry bout other externalities and most of all, just remember that its simply your turn. You do that and watch your natural game take course.
so this monday I'm heading to work and see this pretty chick on the subway. She gets off on a stop before me so I say fukk it lemme go bag it. So i spark a conversation as i'm walking alongside her and bag this chick right...something light while getting off the subway before i head to work. i spark up a random convo saying some shyt about how her hair must conveniently keep her warm in the winter and get the number.
We text a couple times...and today i set up a dinner for next week to cut through the bs. Randomly ...while looking at my old snapchat i she her username as a person i can add from my phone book. Her username has her last name in it so i say "hmmm...lemme see if I can find her facebook
A) just another nikka in line and I shouldnt even bother going out to dinner with this chick cause she might be using me for a meal. OR
B) that because i did the organic cold approach i am distinguishing myself from these fukk nikkas online .
It doesnt phase me but its funny to think about. Here are a bunch of dudes acting wild over some pics on IG when shes just a regular chick in real life or at least appears to be. This social media shyt aint real life... Ima have to play this shyt cool though .
@TRUEST @Emperor_ReinScarf lol
This is why it's hard to take women seriously these days. You think you're doing it big, but you're guy 5 out of 105. If you want to waste your money, sure, go on that dinner. I just don't see all that much that can come out of a woman that has 10g followers.
meh, after the tip it'll be a $25 dinner between the two of us. i make more than during my lunch break
this social media shyt is meaningless to me so i'm not gonna let it deter me. in fact, ii'm a bit disappointed that you would let something so trivial intimidate you. Yea it sucks that it blows girls heads up and what not nowadays but at the same time yall have to remember that there is somebody out there who these instagram celebs are thinking about all the time, catering to, getting wet for etc. Why cant that be you?
I'll see her face to face and scout her; wont sweat her after either. As far as wifing thats not on my mind right now cause i dont even know her like that...and she isnt black. But time will tell
meh, after the tip it'll be a $25 dinner between the two of us. i make more than during my lunch break
this social media shyt is meaningless to me so i'm not gonna let it deter me. in fact, ii'm a bit disappointed that you would let something so trivial intimidate you. Yea it sucks that it blows girls heads up and what not nowadays but at the same time yall have to remember that there is somebody out there who these instagram celebs are thinking about all the time, catering to, getting wet for etc. Why cant that be you?
I'll see her face to face and scout her; wont sweat her after either. As far as wifing thats not on my mind right now cause i dont even know her like that...and she isnt black. But time will tell
my dude, listen, u need to fucck this girl first before u start to invest all these paragraphs into her.